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It's been over a year since I processed my emotions, and I have healed a lot no thanks to much of the likes of civilians like you. Honestly, as I reread this thread, at first I felt like I was being a little melodramatic until I re-read each of my points and all of the responses.

I believe I was 100% in the right.

It is not okay for you all to have sat here and recklessly promulgated the false "fact" that Aspergers plays no role in being raped, or that when one "is raped by deception & taken advantage of" he or she needs to "just learn & move on".

What a disgusting pool of comments. Good riddance, indeed. Go do your freaking research about rape by deception, consent, abuse, orphaning, and widowing (as mentioned I had no emotional family, and every sexual parter I believed committed themselves to me abandoned me) before you go on your "peaceful generous holier-than-thou" rants about "learning and letting go".

Get outta my face. What a disgrace this whole conversation was. How utterly inconsiderate, vile, and rude you were to approach such dire, and disastrous situation for a victim of severe abuse, autistic consent & rape allegations so lukewarm.

You should repent and be ashamed of yourselves and that's my final word on the matter. Every modern rational self-help organization warns against people like you re-victimizing or trivializing people's suffering & experiences. You had no business.

Dude you’d be hard pressed to find a person here who hasn’t been taken advantage of, used, abused, beaten, bullied, assaulted, ridiculed, pressured etc. Not to mention other physical and mental illnesses. It’s not just you and you aren’t the only person who has had a hard life. The difference is how you deal with it and move on.

Take some responsibility and get counseling.

Noone here should Be ashamed of themselves. Maybe you need to learn to deal with your troubles like the rest of us had to. You’re not the only person in the world who has had a rubbish hand.

You're definitely not a mentally-incapacitated person. There's no way any court of law would take your side on this. If there was consent then, there's still consent now. Asperger's does make people vulnerable to being taken advantage of---but people with Asperger's over the "age of consent" have the mental capacity to consent or not consent to sex (if they are sober).

Why'd you come back---if you thought we were "this or that?"

If you're trying to rub our noses in something---it's not working.

Wow! I may need to disagree with you, Kraftie. The guy literally believes himself to be a modern day Native American Jesus and a billionaire. He literally thinks that if he has sex with someone they should be legally obligated to marry him with no option for divorce and anyone with a differing opinion is out to get him.

He clearly has far more debilitating issues than Autism. Hell, I'd say being on the spectrum is one of his more minor problems.

An argument could be made that a court would find him too crazy to consent to anything.