Would you date a girl with gastric bypass scars?

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The_Face_of_Boo
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09 Feb 2018, 3:20 am

That’s why I hate typing on phone.

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09 Feb 2018, 3:23 am

i'm already dating someone with scars and stretch marks.

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09 Feb 2018, 11:35 am

Aren't we as men supposed to see past the looks for the inner beauty anyway? So don't worry about any scars cause we aren't allowed to find them gross or we are sexist misogynist pigs.

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09 Feb 2018, 11:37 am

sly279 wrote:

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

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kraftiekortie wrote:

She probably wouldn’t date a guy from Oregon, since she lives in Vermont.

Well I didn’t mean personally her but even if I did live near her she wouldn’t date me based on the type of men she said in past she wouldn’t date.
A lot of aspie women don’t like aspie type men.

I live in New Hampshire.

Sly279, I have dated aspie men. I don't mind them as long as he can hold down intelligent conversation with me about video games, anime and music.

I’m fat though. You’ve stated in the past you wont date fat men.

I like video games and anime. I’m rewatching gundam wing. And finished gate few weeks ago. I got Hulu for the anime

Kind of off-topic but I'm interested in watching Gundam and am curious should I start from the oldest ones first.

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09 Feb 2018, 11:41 am

I lost 45 lbs in 6 months in 1994. No loose skin. A few stretch marks, hardly visible.

I’m disqualified from dating the OP because I know little about anime or video games. And Im an old fart.

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09 Feb 2018, 12:22 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

And Im an old fart.

How old/young are you?

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09 Feb 2018, 12:47 pm

I’m 57.

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09 Feb 2018, 1:05 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I’m 57.

Nice. I am 58. Will you PLEASE change your cover photo. Please .... even pretty please.

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09 Feb 2018, 1:28 pm

Old farts will inherit the earth!

... and don't change the avatar, kraftie... unless maybe a picture of a wolfman...

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09 Feb 2018, 5:59 pm

Loner269 wrote:

sly279 wrote:

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

sly279 wrote:

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She probably wouldn’t date a guy from Oregon, since she lives in Vermont.

I live in New Hampshire.

Sly279, I have dated aspie men. I don't mind them as long as he can hold down intelligent conversation with me about video games, anime and music.

I’m fat though. You’ve stated in the past you wont date fat men.

I like video games and anime. I’m rewatching gundam wing. And finished gate few weeks ago. I got Hulu for the anime

Kind of off-topic but I'm interested in watching Gundam and am curious should I start from the oldest ones first.

They don’t seem to be connected. Atleast dundam wing and gundam 08 ms unit aren’t. So I don’t think it matters. Wing is earth vs oz vs colonies, 08ms is federation vs zeon.
Is there another gundam show?

Also if you have Hulu I highly recommend gate it’s japanese modern Tripp’s va medivel Troops, dragons, magic etc. it’s pretty cool show wish it had got a second season

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09 Feb 2018, 10:35 pm

I though Zeromancer lived in Vermont, since she said that she lives in the "land of maple syrup."

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09 Feb 2018, 10:40 pm

Body scars wouldn't bother me I don't think unless the body was pretty much fully covered in them or unless they were self-inflicted as a result of self-harm. Otherwise they wouldn't deter me from dating someone I'm interested in.

Significant facial scars would be much more difficult for me to get past I think, but for the right person, certainly possible.

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09 Feb 2018, 11:02 pm

I'm straight so I wouldn't date a female one way or another, however as far as men with scars of any type, I don't mind.

I used to know a woman who was very pretty and had a likeable personality but she had a large keloid scar on her cheek....she was married.

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09 Feb 2018, 11:21 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I though Zeromancer lived in Vermont, since she said that she lives in the "land of maple syrup."

Sounds more like Canada, since they have a strategic maple syrup supply to ensure global maple syrup demand and supply keeps steady and profitable.

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11 Feb 2018, 7:26 pm

blackicmenace wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

I though Zeromancer lived in Vermont, since she said that she lives in the "land of maple syrup."

Sounds more like Canada, since they have a strategic maple syrup supply to ensure global maple syrup demand and supply keeps steady and profitable.

That's Quebec, not Canada.

Quebec makes more maple syrup than Ontario, New Brunswick and Vermont combined, by several times over (70% of the world's supply). There's a small amounts made in in other provinces and states, but their production combined doesn't come close to the other three, and like I said, the other three combined don't come close to Quebec.

Anyways, on topic:

My gf doesn't have scars from gastric bypass, but she does have scars from neo-natal open heart surgery (among surgeries). I don't imagine gastric bypass scars would be a deterrent if I liked the woman.

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11 Feb 2018, 7:40 pm

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What’s WD?
For the same reason many NT women don’t want to date aspies.
A lot of aspie men aren’t providers or successful men. Then there’s our social issues.

There is a section on WP called Women's Discussion, occasionally we even discus Aspie men.

Unless it’s changed my understanding is that’s for women only and they don’t want men butting in there, so I don’t read it.

No, you are allowed on, it just has a different vibe to L&D and most posters are women, but not all.

It's weird to read through WD, the threads never turn into bitter misogynistic circle jerks like L&D often seems to. :lol:

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