I want a gothic/punk/alternative girlfriend but can't
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
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He doesn't even have to expend the mental energy to figure it out. Several people have told him what his next right move may be in terms of making himself more attractive to girls & it falls on deaf ears because he's not interested in taking personal responsibility for himself or having to do any work to improve himself and earn what he wants out of life.
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He doesn't even have to expend the mental energy to figure it out. Several people have told him what his next right move may be in terms of making himself more attractive to girls & it falls on deaf ears because he's not interested in taking personal responsibility for himself or having to do any work to improve himself and earn what he wants out of life.
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
Tell that to my older brother. He always brought a girl home despite punching her and calling her a "b***h".
goldfish21
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
Tell that to my older brother. He always brought a girl home despite punching her and calling her a "b***h".
So that’s how you think this works? You’re going to use your abusive a**hole brother as The example? Really? Do you honestly believe that the process to getting a girlfriend is to remain out of shape and sucidally depressed and all you have to do is punch a woman and call her a b***h and she’ll be yours?
Get f*****g real, Marknis.
edit: IF that's truly what you believe, then you do in fact deserve to be alone. Forever.
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
Tell that to my older brother. He always brought a girl home despite punching her and calling her a "b***h".
So that’s how you think this works? You’re going to use your abusive as*hole brother as The example? Really? Do you honestly believe that the process to getting a girlfriend is to remain out of shape and sucidally depressed and all you have to do is punch a woman and call her a b***h and she’ll be yours?
Get f*****g real, Marknis.
edit: IF that's truly what you believe, then you do in fact deserve to be alone. Forever.
No, moron, I wasn't saying I was following his example. I was just saying how sick and disgusting the Bible Belt method is.
goldfish21
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
Tell that to my older brother. He always brought a girl home despite punching her and calling her a "b***h".
So that’s how you think this works? You’re going to use your abusive as*hole brother as The example? Really? Do you honestly believe that the process to getting a girlfriend is to remain out of shape and sucidally depressed and all you have to do is punch a woman and call her a b***h and she’ll be yours?
Get f*****g real, Marknis.
edit: IF that's truly what you believe, then you do in fact deserve to be alone. Forever.
No, moron, I wasn't saying I was following his example. I was just saying how sick and disgusting the Bible Belt method is.
Excuse me? What's up with the name calling & personal attacks?
Grow up, Marknis.
You used it as an example of how someone got a "girlfriend," by being an abusive jerk, as if that's somehow the way to do it that's better than ALL of the other more positive examples that many here have given you & you've ignored because you're unwilling to do the work required to get what you want.
Also, that is not a "Bible Belt," method. It has nothing to do with Christianity or anything Biblical. It's simply the deplorable way your brother treats women and that is all.
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
Tell that to my older brother. He always brought a girl home despite punching her and calling her a "b***h".
So that’s how you think this works? You’re going to use your abusive as*hole brother as The example? Really? Do you honestly believe that the process to getting a girlfriend is to remain out of shape and sucidally depressed and all you have to do is punch a woman and call her a b***h and she’ll be yours?
Get f*****g real, Marknis.
edit: IF that's truly what you believe, then you do in fact deserve to be alone. Forever.
No, moron, I wasn't saying I was following his example. I was just saying how sick and disgusting the Bible Belt method is.
Excuse me? What's up with the name calling & personal attacks?
Grow up, Marknis.
You used it as an example of how someone got a "girlfriend," by being an abusive jerk, as if that's somehow the way to do it that's better than ALL of the other more positive examples that many here have given you & you've ignored because you're unwilling to do the work required to get what you want.
Also, that is not a "Bible Belt," method. It has nothing to do with Christianity or anything Biblical. It's simply the deplorable way your brother treats women and that is all.
Cry me a river. You've talked down on me here and constantly stalk my posts so don't expect me to just sit back and take it. I am not your verbal punching bag. I want you to finally get a clue and leave me alone. AngelRho finally did and hopefully you are next.
I've lived in the Bible Belt all my life. I know what the people around me are like. I'd rather die than ever become like the men here.
goldfish21
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To maybe do search some gothic comunity online maybe youll find locals. Not everyone that listen goth is dressed up as such
She doesn't necessarily need to be gothic. I would be happy with a punk or alternative rock or metal girl. I just couldn't settle for someone who is a general Bible Belter.
You won't have the option of settling for anyone because you've shown, repeatedly, that you're not interested in doing the hard work on yourself that's required for you to be attractive to girls. No one gets handed things, girlfriends included. You have to earn them.
Tell that to my older brother. He always brought a girl home despite punching her and calling her a "b***h".
So that’s how you think this works? You’re going to use your abusive as*hole brother as The example? Really? Do you honestly believe that the process to getting a girlfriend is to remain out of shape and sucidally depressed and all you have to do is punch a woman and call her a b***h and she’ll be yours?
Get f*****g real, Marknis.
edit: IF that's truly what you believe, then you do in fact deserve to be alone. Forever.
No, moron, I wasn't saying I was following his example. I was just saying how sick and disgusting the Bible Belt method is.
Excuse me? What's up with the name calling & personal attacks?
Grow up, Marknis.
You used it as an example of how someone got a "girlfriend," by being an abusive jerk, as if that's somehow the way to do it that's better than ALL of the other more positive examples that many here have given you & you've ignored because you're unwilling to do the work required to get what you want.
Also, that is not a "Bible Belt," method. It has nothing to do with Christianity or anything Biblical. It's simply the deplorable way your brother treats women and that is all.
Cry me a river. You've talked down on me here and constantly stalk my posts so don't expect me to just sit back and take it. I am not your verbal punching bag. I want you to finally get a clue and leave me alone. AngelRho finally did and hopefully you are next.
I've lived in the Bible Belt all my life. I know what the people around me are like. I'd rather die than ever become like the men here.
How is telling you how to make yourself more attractive so that you can achieve your goal of getting a relationship "talking down," on you?
Or do you mean when I call you out for lying? That's not talking down. That's calling you out for lying every time you say people said things to you that they never said/wrote.
You want everyone who tells you the truth to "leave you alone," because the truth is that you're not interested in following any helpful advice from anyone. You just want to complain over and over and not have to do anything in order to get what you want, and that's not how the world works.
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