Platonic love / friendzone *queerish hippie edition*

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What this should be called is the “incestBrotherzone”.

That’s the worst zone, be careful.

it seems that interbreeding is indeed very popular among some chinese folks.

https://hbdchick.wordpress.com/2012/05/ ... -in-china/

She is Chinese.

It depends on what kind of a “cousin” was this person.

Anyway, first-cousin marriage is legal in most states of the US.

Given that she wished she had a brother to f**k I don't think first or second cousin was a big problem to her.

yes, jackie chan was a giveaway lol

OK we're not Chinese though.

Booyakasha, could you wrestle my thread back on topic? For that matter I'd love to know what you think.

I am not sure what's to say about the thread, you said that you have been in the friendzone with her for ages, are happy about it and don't want any other girl. Ok I guess? I think you've just heard that she is out of her abusive relationship and think you might have a chance, but I wouldn't think about it too much if I were you.

What do you mean here anyway?

Well I'm happy as long as we're around each other at all really. I probably wouldn't be alive without this person so I'm focused on loving unconditionally.

I'm distracting myself as much as I can but I wouldn't do that to the point of ignorance.

Yes, same thing here, i was wrecking my brains thinking what to say, but it seems all's as good as can be.

Sometimes you have to be away - that's understandable. You were there for her when she was having rough times. How much better friend can you be? Since you say you don't care whether you're a boyfriend or a friend (in the other thread).

I'm not sure that some big words are needed as long as you're there for her (as much as you can). Unless she was complaining of you being absent? but since you're not dating each other, I'm not sure how much you think you two should spend time together. It's hard to make a good judgment without knowing how much you guys see each other, and how much she'd like you two to spend time together...I'm sorry if this doesn't help much

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Well we've gone out a little before & I do want to be a boyfriend but of course only at the right time. We don't see each other as much as we should considering how much we stand to resolve I'd say. I was mostly only around after all that, now that I know I feel bad about not voicing my misgivings. I've been trying to keep everything as calm as I can but I also don't want us isolating ourselves when there are so many answers I can still give her.

That and we just need to go on more adventures. She said yes to some hiking & biking, anybody know good ways to make that a regular thing?

You should speak in a less philosophical way and also you haven't responded to my answer. My advice is to be a normal friend to her without this morbid, unrequested devotion and b-class romantic movie nonsense, which can only harm you. You can be around her and have a sane friendship without all that.

In the other thread you said you don't care whether you're her friend or boyfriend, and in the opening post of this thread you just asked for ways to be a better friend. it's hard to give good advice if you keep on changing the premises.

Also, you posted two exactly identical threads in the two different forums, which is unnecessary and against the rules. the third one is basically an explanation of the first two.

Wherever you all say I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.

In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.

I happen to like romantic stuff myself.