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05 Jul 2018, 5:40 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
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But as you said yourself many times people here are not asking for something unattainable, often they're just too lazy to work for it.


This assumes that people are capable of discerning what is & isn't attainable, though, and often times not being able to do so may be part of the problem.

That does seem to be the hardest part


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06 Jul 2018, 2:38 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
But as you said yourself many times people here are not asking for something unattainable, often they're just too lazy to work for it.


This assumes that people are capable of discerning what is & isn't attainable, though, and often times not being able to do so may be part of the problem.

Often they know it is attainable but they keep trying to get it the wrong way because it is easier to blame others than work on ourselves.



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06 Jul 2018, 3:12 pm

Peacesells wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
But as you said yourself many times people here are not asking for something unattainable, often they're just too lazy to work for it.


This assumes that people are capable of discerning what is & isn't attainable, though, and often times not being able to do so may be part of the problem.

Often they know it is attainable but they keep trying to get it the wrong way because it is easier to blame others than work on ourselves.


Ooooh, yes, there is definitely a lot of that going around these forums. All. The. Damned. Time.


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