30 Sep 2020, 10:00 pm
When I was in the military, plenty of guys I knew married dumpster fire women in order to get out of the dorms and receive the raise in their paychecks. Men are just statistically, more likely to be physically violent.
Also, internet dating sites are sh_t. Most women I know IRL don't date violent psychopaths. Maybe place the blame on stupid PEOPLE as opposed to women.
Science, in particular evolutionary biology, partially explains why bad boys can be so compelling. Dr. Fugère says research shows women are more attracted to masculine men during the middle of their menstrual cycle, when they’re most fertile. “Men with very masculine traits may have better quality genes, so it could be attractive to women on an unconscious evolutionary level,” she notes. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/r ... -bad-boys/
30 Sep 2020, 10:09 pm
I don't think you're the oracle of truth Pepe.
"Good" vs. "bad" genetics isn't a whole lot more scientific than eugenics.
You think you're so cool... 
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30 Sep 2020, 10:53 pm
30 Sep 2020, 10:59 pm
It's not men or women who are collectively guilty of normalizing sexual violence, it's a subgroup of impulsive, shortsighted people looking though a house of mirrors on the internet.
I care about these people too & I wish they could be peacefully made aware of the consequences of this.
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02 Oct 2020, 1:54 am
Let's face it, it's only since the 1970s that women have stopped being housewives and starting taking contraceptives and started sleeping around. That's virtually yesterday.
So the strongest drivers for what an NT woman looks for in a man remain looks, strength, social status and wealth.
A strong man will protect them and their progeny so the aggressive bad boy still has its merits.
I think it's a common fantasy; Fifty Shades' verdict is that even a poor, boring and crybaby lady can have a sexy billionaire interested in her who will appease all her desires and save the day.
You mean with spanky?
You seem to be so obsessed about spanking, admit it....you love to be spanked too.
02 Oct 2020, 4:38 am
Well my wife thinks I deserve one
02 Oct 2020, 4:57 am
"Good" vs. "bad" genetics isn't a whole lot more scientific than eugenics.
You think you're so cool...
I have never attacked you.
All I do is defend myself from your attacks on me.
"The Oracle of Truth has spoken."
02 Oct 2020, 6:44 pm
I'm pointing out that making yourself the arbiter of what good & bad genes are is a lousy move for anyone.
I don't sense any scientific truth here whatsoever. Move over, I am busy evolving on my own.
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02 Oct 2020, 7:12 pm
02 Oct 2020, 8:11 pm
I don't really think everyone needs to blindly lean into the idea that there's nothing more than social darwinism at play here.
I'm saying you could stand to tone it down about this oracle of truth crap. One dude's black & white interpretation of the facts isn't suited to everyone.
tl;dr Don't make all our lives out to be a grand evolutionary contest, it's cloying & juvenile.
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02 Oct 2020, 9:00 pm
I'm not asking anyone to do that.
I am simply building on my experience/knowledge base.
"Give me a better argument, and I will listen."
This is quintessentially the aspie way.
So far, I haven't heard a better alternative from anyone.
You don't understand my satire.
Once again, you are needlessly argumentative/dictatorial.
"Live and let live", is my motto.
And no, I see no reason to not be myself, especially since everything I say is gold.
Yes, I was being funny, again, through exaggeration.
02 Oct 2020, 9:18 pm
You've made it abundantly clear that you can act above everyone & still get laughs from those naive enough to think it's all in jest.
I'm not here to give you an argument, I'm here to denounce this inflammatory language wrapped up in sociology. You can challenge a guy's philosophy, but this is pushing it.
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