03 Dec 2020, 12:29 pm
Jamesy
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03 Dec 2020, 12:35 pm
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03 Dec 2020, 3:44 pm
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03 Dec 2020, 3:46 pm
magz wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
Yes, that would be an obvious case of subconscious racism, a one that is still accepted (and will always be most likely because it's a taboo since everything dating-preferences related is forbbiden to question).
I believe it has more dimensions: "races" are "races" not "looks" because they're correlated with cultures and social classes.
Is a preference to date within your social class an issue or something natural?
Is a preference to date someone with compatibille set of values / lifestyle classism or prudence?
Then, there is the dimension of preference for looks. I like men with large noses and obvious eyebrows. It doesn't correlate with any social group in my society, so it's not considered "race", it's just how some people look and some don't - and some people like these traits, some don't, some don't care.
Is heterosexuality homophobia?
Hmmm
03 Dec 2020, 3:58 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Whale_Tuune wrote:
Unfortunately, you and Face of Boo are too old to be my type. My type is also early to mid twenties because, well... I'm 21 so...
But but...I am often mistaken of being mid 20s!
That's a case of subconscious ageism!
But yeah, you're too baby any way....
Time to change your bait
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04 Dec 2020, 12:17 pm
cyberdad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Whale_Tuune wrote:
Unfortunately, you and Face of Boo are too old to be my type. My type is also early to mid twenties because, well... I'm 21 so...
But but...I am often mistaken of being mid 20s!
That's a case of subconscious ageism!
But yeah, you're too baby any way....
Time to change your bait
I need to set bait for a lion to kidnap Aslan.
Then I ask for a ransom from her.
04 Dec 2020, 6:26 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Stardust Parade wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Stardust Parade wrote:
I feel like your questions just get stupider and stupider.
It's the booze.
Tbh I never thought of that. Makes sense though considering he spends all of his free time in bars. On a side note I’m a white girl that pretty much exclusively only dates Latino men lmao
But why this ethnical exclusivity?
That makes the OP’s question more legit.
Because that’s who I get the most messages from on dating sites and because the sex is better. The best sex I ever had was with a Puerto Rican. My god he can just keep going multiple times. We start in the shower and end up on the bed.
04 Dec 2020, 7:27 pm
Stardust Parade wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Stardust Parade wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Stardust Parade wrote:
I feel like your questions just get stupider and stupider.
It's the booze.
Tbh I never thought of that. Makes sense though considering he spends all of his free time in bars. On a side note I’m a white girl that pretty much exclusively only dates Latino men lmao
But why this ethnical exclusivity?
That makes the OP’s question more legit.
Because that’s who I get the most messages from on dating sites and because the sex is better. The best sex I ever had was with a Puerto Rican. My god he can just keep going multiple times. We start in the shower and end up on the bed.
Can you provide pics or a video, to confirm?
04 Dec 2020, 7:29 pm
04 Dec 2020, 7:48 pm
Whale_Tuune wrote:
I tend to prefer men with aquiline noses, dark hair, dark eyes, olive colored or darker skin. I also have a marked thing for shorter men, idk why. I'm not as much of a fan of blue eyes, but I'm a sucker for big brown eyes and darker hair.
I can be all those things.
This is the internet, after all.
Whale_Tuune wrote:
For some reason Italian and Pakistani guys both tend to fit those descriptions more than the average person, and I've seen my crushes list in those directions (especially when I lived in areas with high Italian or South Asian populations). My first boyfriend was half Italian and my second was Pakistani so there you go.
But honestly I've been attracted to folks of every racial category and I don't "exclusively" date any race. I hope it's not inherently racist to have tendencies, but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
But honestly I've been attracted to folks of every racial category and I don't "exclusively" date any race. I hope it's not inherently racist to have tendencies, but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
You are entitled to date anyone you like.
And you are entitled not to date people you rather not date.
You not dating a 60 year old could be considered ageist.
But it is your prerogative.
You not dating someone with conflicting philosophical views might be considered discrimination.
But it is your prerogative.
You not dating another woman might be viewed at homophobic.
But it is your prerogative.
You are entitled to date who you would like to date.
Other people can keep their noses, if they have more than one, out of your personal business.
You are not obligated to service other people's expectations.
Whale_Tuune wrote:
I know many men who say that they are not attracted to black women "as a personal preference." I've even hear black men say that. My brother talks like that and it's disgusting. You can't write off an entire race of people like that!
Yes, it looks bad, but what would you have him do?
Date someone who he is not into?
When is the last time you dated a woman?
Overwhelming, humans are very superficial in their dating preferences.
Overwhelmingly, most people choose in the physical league.
Go to a dating site and the first thing people do is look at physical appearance.
Personality comes second.
04 Dec 2020, 7:50 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Whale_Tuune wrote:
I tend to prefer men with aquiline noses, dark hair, dark eyes, olive colored or darker skin. I also have a marked thing for shorter men, idk why. I'm not as much of a fan of blue eyes, but I'm a sucker for big brown eyes and darker hair.
For some reason Italian and Pakistani guys both tend to fit those descriptions more than the average person, and I've seen my crushes list in those directions (especially when I lived in areas with high Italian or South Asian populations). My first boyfriend was half Italian and my second was Pakistani so there you go.
But honestly I've been attracted to folks of every racial category and I don't "exclusively" date any race. I hope it's not inherently racist to have tendencies, but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
I know many men who say that they are not attracted to black women "as a personal preference." I've even hear black men say that. My brother talks like that and it's disgusting. You can't write off an entire race of people like that!
For some reason Italian and Pakistani guys both tend to fit those descriptions more than the average person, and I've seen my crushes list in those directions (especially when I lived in areas with high Italian or South Asian populations). My first boyfriend was half Italian and my second was Pakistani so there you go.
But honestly I've been attracted to folks of every racial category and I don't "exclusively" date any race. I hope it's not inherently racist to have tendencies, but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
I know many men who say that they are not attracted to black women "as a personal preference." I've even hear black men say that. My brother talks like that and it's disgusting. You can't write off an entire race of people like that!
Oh so I am your type.
You are *MY* type, always.
04 Dec 2020, 7:52 pm
Jamesy wrote:
Whale_Tuune wrote:
I tend to prefer men with aquiline noses, dark hair, dark eyes, olive colored or darker skin. I also have a marked thing for shorter men, idk why. I'm not as much of a fan of blue eyes, but I'm a sucker for big brown eyes and darker hair.
For some reason Italian and Pakistani guys both tend to fit those descriptions more than the average person, and I've seen my crushes list in those directions (especially when I lived in areas with high Italian or South Asian populations). My first boyfriend was half Italian and my second was Pakistani so there you go.
But honestly I've been attracted to folks of every racial category and I don't "exclusively" date any race. I hope it's not inherently racist to have tendencies, but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
I know many men who say that they are not attracted to black women "as a personal preference." I've even hear black men say that. My brother talks like that and it's disgusting. You can't write off an entire race of people like that!
For some reason Italian and Pakistani guys both tend to fit those descriptions more than the average person, and I've seen my crushes list in those directions (especially when I lived in areas with high Italian or South Asian populations). My first boyfriend was half Italian and my second was Pakistani so there you go.
But honestly I've been attracted to folks of every racial category and I don't "exclusively" date any race. I hope it's not inherently racist to have tendencies, but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
I know many men who say that they are not attracted to black women "as a personal preference." I've even hear black men say that. My brother talks like that and it's disgusting. You can't write off an entire race of people like that!
My eyes are quite dark in colour and I am barely 5ft8.
But there’s a catch my hair is light brown/chestnut colour and I have fair skin.
Guess I am not your type then?
I'm not as fussy as Whale_Tuune.
I'll give you a shot.
04 Dec 2020, 7:53 pm
Whale_Tuune wrote:
Unfortunately, you and Face of Boo are too old to be my type. My type is also early to mid twenties because, well... I'm 21 so...
Discrimination!
We *ALL* discriminate.
We are entitled.
04 Dec 2020, 7:56 pm
magz wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
but if you date to the exclusion of other races, that's a problem imho.
Yes, that would be an obvious case of subconscious racism, a one that is still accepted (and will always be most likely because it's a taboo since everything dating-preferences related is forbbiden to question).
I believe it has more dimensions: "races" are "races" not "looks" because they're correlated with cultures and social classes.
Is a preference to date within your social class an issue or something natural?
Is a preference to date someone with compatibille set of values / lifestyle classism or prudence?
Precisely.
There are many factors to consider.
04 Dec 2020, 8:00 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Whale_Tuune wrote:
Unfortunately, you and Face of Boo are too old to be my type. My type is also early to mid twenties because, well... I'm 21 so...
But but...I am often mistaken of being mid 20s!
That's a case of subconscious ageism!
But yeah, you're too baby any way....
Even if Whale_Tuune was 30 years older, I wouldn't date her, because she is a theist, and I am a hardcore atheist.
I am happy with my discrimination.
04 Dec 2020, 8:57 pm
