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13 Oct 2008, 7:33 am

DiabloDave363 wrote:
YES! all the time!


Yes, but 50% of people figure out what I'm doing. Maybe I'm not quite smart enough... :(

Yay for ToadOfSteel! It takes a lot of guts to call someone. I just hope she's not like I used to be... :oops:

God, all of this makes me remember how badly I handled the advances of an aspie guy in year 11. I hate myself so much for what I must have done to his confidence. He tried calling me and everything, and I pretty much shut him down really harshly every time. I was less socially adept at the time, and thrown into a completely new situation by our family moving interstate and going to a co-ed high school for the first time. But there's really no excuse for what I did. :cry:


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13 Oct 2008, 10:01 am

I don't think it dilutes the conversation. It will start to become comical. The longer you are with her the more comfortable you'll get.
Plus, a girl who would like a guy like you will appreciate it and see it as adorable.

Watch Mozart and the Whale with her. It might show her a glimpse of what might be going on in your head. It's beats sending her links to a bunch of psychology sites. Does she appreciate you calling her and see it as a gigantic step on your part? She needs to see reality from your side too and know that you have gone very far to see things her way.


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17 Oct 2008, 9:19 am

Magnus wrote:
I don't think it dilutes the conversation. It will start to become comical. The longer you are with her the more comfortable you'll get.
Plus, a girl who would like a guy like you will appreciate it and see it as adorable.

Watch Mozart and the Whale with her. It might show her a glimpse of what might be going on in your head. It's beats sending her links to a bunch of psychology sites. Does she appreciate you calling her and see it as a gigantic step on your part? She needs to see reality from your side too and know that you have gone very far to see things her way.


I feel like I can't get anywhere with her... not her fault but mine... The few minutes I get to spend with her every week is not enough, and I don't want to call her again because last time was such a screwup. I don't have any contact info like email or anything over the internet, either...