This one girl...

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You just found out somthing about me, congradualtions; it's what my friends love. Anyway, this isn't a poem, this is a post from the internet. If a boy decided to put a letter in my bag, I'd reject him if he was only doing because he couldn't man up and talk to me; I'd only show it to my friends if it was somthing that made him look like an idiot. If snuck a screenshot into my bag when I wasn't looking, that would really get me going. First, he need to talk to strangers with the mask of the internet in order to find out what to do with me, and that in itself is creepy. I don't think highly boys that talk about me on internet forums; the same way it's easy to get 13-25 year old kids to give information revealing where they live on the internet, it would be easy for a rapist to read about a girl some Autistic guy finds really pretty and get the information of where he lives. If the pervert figures out where the boy goes to school, and he knows that I'm at his school, than he knows where I'm going to be at almost every given moment. If not for the danger, how can I trust a guy who's obsessed with me enough to talk about me on the internet? It's just not the place to talk about that really pretty girl that sits one seat next to you in English class. I answered the part of how wrong it is, but what I need to explain is why it's a normal reaction. If a guy does somthing as strange as give you a post he wrote about you on the internet, and he can't tell you to your face what he thinks, that's somthing that sets him apart and shows that he doesn't know how to act. That would be one of the more mature ways I'd tease him; me, as well as plenty of my friends have teased shy, somtimes Autistic boys who do things like yell sexual harassment when a girl touches them, even if she's attractive. I now see it as possibly being wrong if the boy had Autism, but when I was 15 years old, I sexually harassed a 17 year old boy at my school because he got upset if I touched him or tried to flirt with him; strangly he didn't mind when we first met when we were making sex jokes. I harassed him because all my friends thought it was funny for a guy to be so upset by being "harassed" by a pretty girl.

Wait, she's your best friend?

Still shouldn't give her the post, the fact that she's your close friend would make it look like you really don't feel that close to her. I'd feel the same way if my friend did the same, even though he's shy.

anna, you're everything that's wrong with the human race (well, apart from war and s**t), no wonder so many aspies end up with post traumatic stress disorder or social anxiety with girls like you around... ^.^

I suspect there is percentage of these sort of people that are not purely sadistic, just get freaked out by the notion of someone asking them out, that they can't admit that to themselves, so they go way overboard because really they are scared s**tless and don't want to be seen as uncool.

im pretty sure that if you tease someone, and feel very little guilt or remorse, you're kinda sadistic.x

True dat

zzzZZZ ....why on earth you are telling about your life story?





Nope, you would show it anyways to boost your weak ego.


So in this case, 90% of people who attent love related forums are creepy , not only this love forum...I guess no one of them is creepy, you are just creepy paranoid . Lee didn't give any personal info about the girl, no name , no coordinations , he just stating his problem anonymously.



read the above




I have no problem if some fan girl talks about me anonymously on the internet as long she's not giving any personal info about me.




It's ok for you to be harassed by a guy if he's attractive?



O really? you suddenly turned into a nice girl now? how boring.



So if someone doesn't mind sex jokes the he/she shouldn't mind to be sexually harrassed? For instance, my female coworker is very attractive and doesn't mind my sex jokes (out of work) , should I grab her ass after work?

What kind of logic is that?



And so you do .....harrassing isn't funny nor legal nor honourable.... and it's something that you shouldn't boast about around the internet. I might print out your post and show it to my friends , they would love laugh on your logic and probably would use b- and s- names that you won't like if I'll tell you , oh wait, let me guess,....in fact, you probably would like them! I changed my mind!


and oh , if you look cute like that anime avatar , I wouldn't mind to sexually harass me ...but beware ...I am hairy....and I bite , we Lebanese are used to eat raw meat

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....and oh now some ladies like MissC would pop-up , look at at Anna's gender and look at my gender and start accusing me for reacting "differently" toward Anna just because I am male and she's female and start with the 'being sexist' accuastions crap....

To avoid that, I am gonna change my gender to female for now

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anna contributes no good to this forum...in fact she calls people "weird" when they poat quite reasonable possible aspie responses...i'm all for loving NT people as long as they aren't her...she's reminded me of a few bad gals from my past...get her out of here...x

It's alright. I didn't show her the post or anything, but I did tell her that I liked her/loved her and she acknowledges the fact but she just said I'm not cool enough. Basically I'm too wierd and quiet to even warrant a smile from this pretty girl. That's a self-esteem booster right there. Eh, she's still my friend . . . That's good enough, right? Damn NTs with their overinflated egos.

sounds like you handled it well, ie, you didn't make a fool out of yourself, well done.

im sure being "cool" will come with time, for now, it's good that you have a female friend, you'll feel less isolated from the opposite sex in the long run.

take care x

Each failed attempt is one step closer to the next success. Asking her out is closer than a lot of people on this forum have got, my good man

Why the hell can't it feel like that? Each failed attempt in my record makes me less likely to attempt again...

Dude take a chill pill. Take this from my own experience, if you can't talk to a girl if she goes with you, it is going to be very awkward. and BEST friend zone??? yet you can't talk to her..... you are dumb man.

I will keep trying though. I already know too much about this girl, all the little quirks she has and stuff, and that makes it very hard to forget her, for me.

STALKER.