Flakey Aspie Girls

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jbinion I kind of think it is rude just to pm random people and then expect them to reply to you and give you their undivided attention. If that is what you are doing. Like you are a complete stranger, they don't know you, why should they??

I don't have a problem with women responding to me, whenever I have pm anyone they usually respond.

After reading you posts, cussing women, they can't be blamed for not repsonding to you.

Jbinion your begginit a bit rudeboy. I am not going to tell you to change your attitude, as it must be a survival trait especially if you live in a rough part of US, but I do want you to know that aspie girls and many NT girls don’t mean any badmind. Maybe some aspie girls are flakey but many of them acknowledge this, scientifically, so they will always have respect for what a man has to go through. They do look in the love forum sometimes and see what aspie guys have to say. I am a typical geek and I very bad at texting my friend in york. Sometime a couple of days can go by, but I really like her, and that’s for someone that I really like. And considering that I do 1.6 posts a day on wrongplanet that’s very bad.

Well I'm not going to go into it deep since I'm already getting an idea of what the OP's like.

I just want to add my feedback that as I PM members, I don't get all hung up if no one replies. In fact, some people actually have a life so it'd probably take busy people a day or two to even check their PM.

Anyway Peace Out.

some aspie/autistic people find personal messages too hard and too overwhelming. you shouldn't expect responses on this particular forum.

Hey hey hey no fair no fair. We aspie women have a hard time with romantic relationships too! A lot of us end up with guys who take advantage of us, or no guys at all because they prefer the NT giggly socially competent type. Even though I'm pretty, I suspect I come off as "creepy" to a lot of the American 20-something regular guys. And I have been through a lot of superficial or simply unfulfilling relationships. SO I DON'T WANT TO HEAR GUYS SAY DATING IS EASY FOR ASPIE GIRLS! It isn't.

Thank you Aspie_Chav, I think we understand each other, partly because we are black. But how am I nice, well i mean I am a nice person, but now I seem to be a bit rude and mean to anyone, I laugh when I get negative feedback though, because God didn't put me on earth to get the approval of other people that's why I laugh. But I am bitter though, I don't live in a rough neighborhood, although I came from one. I live in a predominately white neighborhood in Arizona and many people are racist. I don't have many friends. If I hang around the black people they f**k with me. if I hang around white people they start the racist s**t. There are people I'm sure that mean well, but I havent seen them yet.

If I write someone I do expect a reply, not right away, but I do. As my older brother said "If someone writes me, who am I to just ignore it"....no one has to reply, yes. But are you that great of a person to not reply, I mean, come on, this person is taking time out of their day to take interest in you. When i say you i'm not talking about anyone inparticular. If I were Craig Nicholes, for sure girls will be all over me writing, but I don't think craig nichols would even want to talk to any of the aspie girls. If he were the same guy, with the same talents on here but just not famous, he'd be blown off like the rest of us. How do you know if someone is interesting if you don't give them a chance, and I understand the "I'm taken" thing. IF ASPIE GIRLS THINK THAT THE ONLY INTENTION THAT ASPIE GUYS HAVE WHEN WE WRITE THEM, JUST REPLY BLACK "I'M TAKEN" ......IT SHOWS HOW SMALL MINDED ONE CAN BE AND HOW SILLY. If an aspie girl does that, then she'll either 1. the guy wouldn't write her anymore or 2. the guy would write back a reply that makes you feel stupid for even assuming that. Do I assume my message is being ignored. "Hell yes" because when I go to read messages, the message I sent is ignored. First of all, I don't even write aspie girls about dating anyways, so for me the I'm taken thing is silly, foolish, and full of s**t. just because a girl talks to a guy doesnt mena she likes him, as i have been told millions of times before. so why cant it be the same for guys, or for the guys who write messages that have nothing to do with dating. please kiss my ass with the i'm taken s**t, it's childish. But if an aspie guys gets "im taken" response, he'll know first hand that the girl doesnt wanna be bothered with no misinterpretations, and if he doesnt then that means he cant read and is illiterate. am I an a**hole, well that's what b*****s like then here you have me.

I'd laugh with you if you weren't so negative.

This is just my take on it so feel free to ignore.

People buy lottery tickets in the hope they will win big bucks. Yet chances of winning are so minimal, in order to guarantee a chance of winning they would have to be immortal and have unlimited source of funds to buy with, which kind of defeats the point.

In contrast you chance of finding someone are so mach greater than that. Yet people would sooner give up that chance for some strange reason. So no matter how hard it is, it is still worth persevering, and being positive.

Being on the spectrum means you can’t keep repeating the same errors, you have to be smart and think laterally in order to compensate for lack of inherent understanding. Part of that is understanding what it is you are perusing.

well thanks. I won't be writing anymore pms for now on though, only to people who write me. I wont get ignored if i dont write people sdo thats how ill solve that