27 Jun 2020, 10:17 pm
27 Jun 2020, 10:24 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Klingt als wärest Du gelangweilt und angeödet von denen, die irgendwie alles sind, außer begeisterungsfähig.
Njoa.. Immer wenn ich wieder Energie habe, motivation finde und bereit wäre etwas neues zu starten, finde ich mich am ende immer wieder mit demselben typ Menschen, der die selben Absichten hegt, dasselbe über mich denkt und dieselben Annäherungsversuche macht, dieselben Probleme, Macken, Ängste, derselbe Charakter... Es ist sogar völlig egal aus welcher Nation er stammt. Es fühlt sich manchmal so an, als ob ich denselben Mann immer und immer wieder kennenlerne, mit einer anderen Frisur und einem anderen Namen.
Aber ich kann dir eins sagen: ICH KANN DIE ALLE ECHT NICHT MEHR LEIDEN
..Ich glaube es liegt an mir. Wieso lasse ich mich immer wieder auf dasselbe Gesindel ein? Meine Risikobereitschaft bringt mich noch um.
quite an extreme wrote:
Kann ich mir vorstellen. Scheiße, es wär nett Dich mal kennenzulernen, aber vielleicht habe ich ja auch nur 'ne schräge Vorstellung von Dir. Keine Ahnung ob Du auch irgendwann anfängst einen nur noch anzuöden mit der restlosen Besessenheit von irgendwelchem Nonsens oder rein spießbürgerlichen Problemchen, kann ich mir aber kaum vorstellen. Menschen sind mental natürlich unterschiedlich. Den meisten fehlt es aber entweder an Verstand, Aufgeschlossenheit, Neugier, Eiern oder sie haben sich und das Leben eh schon längst aufgegeben. 
Klar, es muß jeder auch mal abschalten. Aber warum ausgerechnet den Verstand? Ich weiß, ich kapier Menschen nicht zwingend emotional, aber für mich ist sogar das eher eine neu entdeckte Spielwiese als alles andere.
Klar, es muß jeder auch mal abschalten. Aber warum ausgerechnet den Verstand? Ich weiß, ich kapier Menschen nicht zwingend emotional, aber für mich ist sogar das eher eine neu entdeckte Spielwiese als alles andere.Ja wer weiss, vielleicht fange ich auch an einen nur noch anzuöden.. Auch wenn jetzt eher weniger mit Nonsens/spießbürgerlichen Problemchen.
Die meisten haben eine schräge Vorstellung von mir, deswegen "verlieben" sich besonders die beeinflussbarsten Leute auch so schnell. Täuschen ist viel zu einfach.. Und am ende merkst du, wie unecht die ganze Angelegenheit eigentlich ist. Die meisten sind doch sowieso nur auf sich selbst und ihre eigenen Bedürfnisse fixiert. Für die darfs ruhig oberflächlich bleiben. Und DAS ist öde.
"Verstand, Aufgeschlossenheit, Neugier, Eiern" Gerne mit A-Post bitte
quite an extreme wrote:
Dafür brauchst Du eine Erlaubnis? Im Endeffekt brauchst sie aber doch zur Unterhaltung, oder irre ich mich? Willst Du dauerhaft allein rumhängen? Du kannst Dich natürlich auch dauerhaft von irgendwelchen Idioten anbaggern lassen, am Ende findest Du aber eh alle nur langweilig und die besonders 'anhänglichen' können sich am Ende als ein äußerst ätzendes Problem erweisen. Orientier' Dich lieber an denjenigen, die in der Lage sind, sich für mehr als nur eine Sache zu begeistern und auch ein klein wenig um die Ecke denken können, statt dauerhaft geistig festgefahren zu sein. Alle anderen langweilen Dich am Ende doch eh nur. 
Why German? How to talk nonchalant at all in something like English?
Willst Du dauerhaft allein rumhängen? Du kannst Dich natürlich auch dauerhaft von irgendwelchen Idioten anbaggern lassen, am Ende findest Du aber eh alle nur langweilig und die besonders 'anhänglichen' können sich am Ende als ein äußerst ätzendes Problem erweisen. Orientier' Dich lieber an denjenigen, die in der Lage sind, sich für mehr als nur eine Sache zu begeistern und auch ein klein wenig um die Ecke denken können, statt dauerhaft geistig festgefahren zu sein. Alle anderen langweilen Dich am Ende doch eh nur. Why German? How to talk nonchalant at all in something like English?
Ghosten ist etwas vom grausamsten überhaupt
Danke für diesen äusserst inspirierenden Input
I hope we're not gonna get banned lol
Well,
quite an extreme's translator works very well: https://www.deepl.com/home
And it wasn't a hassle to use.
Very easy.
And it would be a good way to learn German.
LC,
I doubt anyone would be bored with what you have to say.
You have a rather unique way of thinking.
I agree with what you say here: "Most people are only fixated on themselves and their own needs anyway. For them, it's okay to be superficial."
I said the same thing to you early on when I suggested you may be a little unrealistic in your search in finding what you wanted, in your demographic.
But obviously, there are relationships with greater depth out there.
However, based on my experience, it is relatively rare.
27 Jun 2020, 10:39 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
It occurred to me that I'm in the same boat as many guys here - no friends but constantly having girls "not wanting me"
Your wife doesn’t want you?
I haven't had sex in 15 years
Outsch
No, not ------------->
This --------------->
Am I being too mean?
Or just mean enough?
On reflection,
It was a bit unseemly of me,
And cyberdad didn't deserve that.
Pretend I didn't say it.
I just think not having sex for 15 years is a bit amateurish, from my perspective.
While I have had a lot of intimate encounter with women when I was younger,
I haven't had intercourse for around 25 years.
In my entire life, I have only penetrated a woman twice.
Now you can say:
Intercourse is not my thing.
Caring about my partner is what I enjoy.
BTW,
I am not advertising here.
I have no interest in a romantic relationship ever again.
27 Jun 2020, 10:57 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
MaxE wrote:
@OP Do you really plan to move to Canada? Could you say which part? It's safe to tell me, I don't live there.
Quebec (for now)
You are a traveler,
As you mentioned in your profile,
And have itchy feet.
It will be good when they find a covid-19 vaccine.
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27 Jun 2020, 11:02 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
MaxE wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
MaxE wrote:
@OP Do you really plan to move to Canada? Could you say which part? It's safe to tell me, I don't live there.
Quebec (for now)
I have a Facebook friend in Montreal (he actually has 5000 FB friends) who might be a good point of initial contact for somebody who is new in town, he knows lots of "interesting" people. Some of his FB friends have also friended me. BTW he is not a personal friend. He has seen me on FB but probably has little interest in me as an individual, although I would enjoy meeting him someday. He's the opposite of me. I have an almost microscopic EQ** whereas his is so big he has to wear baggy clothes in public to avoid getting stares.
Quebec City OTOH doesn't seem interesting except as a weekend tourist getaway. Much less intellectual ferment there compared to Montreal.
**Empathy Quotient in case anybody gets the wrong idea.
A nice offer, I appreciate it..
Even if I find it a bit suspicious if he has a total of 5000 FB friends. And the other question would be: Why would he do that for a random girl like me?
I'll try to figure out where I can find the most interesting people. I'm strongly into specific music, so that's my first reference point.
And yeah Montreal is amazing
Have you lived in Canada for an extended time already?
27 Jun 2020, 11:06 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It’s so sausage fest in this thread.
Unfortunately, yes, in one way.
I would have liked more female involvement.
But what does it matter, since we want to get to know LC?
It isn't a competition for her attention.
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It’s so sausage fest in this thread.
Hahaha I had the exact same thought
Isn't it the thing I attract tho?
It is because you are attractive, interesting and willing to engage with people.
Nothing you can do about attracting men, and some women.
Evolution has made us this way.
And, in this case, I thank the evolutionary process.
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27 Jun 2020, 11:14 pm
Pepe wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
My mother insists I look like George Clooney. But then I also realise she needs to change her prescription glasses,
The Face of Boo's mother thinks he looks like George Clooney.
My mother is smarter than that
.
27 Jun 2020, 11:17 pm
MaxE wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It’s so sausage fest in this thread.
Hahaha I had the exact same thought
Isn't it the thing I attract tho?
Guys constantly “posting” here.Moths to a flame.
Indeed,
She is alluring.
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MaxE wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It’s so sausage fest in this thread.
Hahaha I had the exact same thought
Isn't it the thing I attract tho?
Guys constantly “posting” here.Moths to a flame.
Who wants some?
Erm,
My sexual leanings are in another direction,
So, no thank you.
But please, if it is your thing, I don't have a problem with that.
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27 Jun 2020, 11:19 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
My mother insists I look like George Clooney. But then I also realise she needs to change her prescription glasses,
The Face of Boo's mother thinks he looks like George Clooney.
My mother is smarter than that
.Well, you are intelligent and humorous.
You may have had 2 helpings of those and missed the good looks ingredient when god made you.
28 Jun 2020, 3:14 am
28 Jun 2020, 3:30 am
Pepe wrote:
Should we kiss now, or later?
Dislike you laying around here unconsciously.
Guess I need to wash my feets for this before you are allowed to kiss them. I can't really promise it already but may be next Christmas I'll do again. 
(Unless my phobia of skunks disallows this.
)cyberdad wrote:
ahhh junge Liebe
Seems he likes the imagination of kissing with you after 15 years without sex.
How about becoming a couple with him?
_________________
I am as I am.
Life has to be an adventure!28 Jun 2020, 4:24 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Seems he likes the imagination of kissing with you after 15 years without sex.
How about becoming a couple with him?
How about becoming a couple with him?
Meine rechte Hand macht mich glücklich
28 Jun 2020, 5:56 am
cyberdad wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Seems he likes the imagination of kissing with you after 15 years without sex.
How about becoming a couple with him?
How about becoming a couple with him?
Meine rechte Hand macht mich glücklich
Guess Pepe will be pleased to become your right hand.
_________________
I am as I am.
Life has to be an adventure!
28 Jun 2020, 6:22 am
28 Jun 2020, 6:39 am
quite an extreme wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Should we kiss now, or later?
Dislike you laying around here unconsciously.
Guess I need to wash my feets for this before you are allowed to kiss them. I can't really promise it already but may be next Christmas I'll do again. (Unless my phobia of skunks disallows this.
)Yes, please,
Wash your feet first.
I have had enough cheese for one day.
cyberdad wrote:
ahhh junge Liebe
quite an extreme wrote:
Seems he likes the imagination of kissing with you after 15 years without sex.
How about becoming a couple with him?
How about becoming a couple with him?
cyberdad and I have a "History".
I don't think "Kissing" is on the cards.
28 Jun 2020, 6:48 am
MaxE wrote:
DAS REICHT!! ! GENUG!! !
ja, genug ist genug!
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