Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Alright I'll give it a shot. The regular info about me is already on the left side so I'll skip to the other details. I'm a nerd with very possible Asperger's. In fact, I have a video action storybook of my life called Graves Tale on my social media pages and the whole storybook is on YouTube. My profile has all the details on that if anyone is interested in viewing it. (Men and Woman) I go my Graves Knight as my online name due to also having Graves Disease and having interest in the Medieval World.

I'm going to be very direct on my preferences for a spouse so here we go. I'm straight and prefer a wife with a (possible but not required) chance of up to two children in the future. Her age has to be AT LEAST drinking age so 21 or over is good for me. Yes, my goal is a long term relationship leading to marriage. So a fantastic and engaging personality is strongly required over looks and body type. An great example of this would be not having one sided conversations, have variety or an extreme interests in something, and have good moral values. In terms of politics, I'd prefer a woman that's an independent with little towards conservative. (I'm old fashioned and traditional for this preference.) Woman that are nerds obviously are welcomed to chat. Any questions or if you want to chat, either message me here, or on my Instagram. (Details on my profile.) Thanks for reading and have a nice day!

Hi there, I'm 44, male, undiagnosed asperger's or Level 1 ASD and I'm mostly just looking for company. Granted anyone living in my area gets priority treatment and consideration, I'm in the market to move to a new place after nailing down a better paying job.. doing so anyway and moving closer to Concord NH if nothing better presents itself to me come next June 2025. I've got options and freedom.

About me, I'm chipping away at writing a novel that would become a series if successful. Otherwise I'll pass the time and recharge by playing video games within which I'm a member of a very independently successful worldwide group calling themselves Sensible People, serving as a support group sometimes. Games I enjoy are difficult to master: League of Legends, EvE Online, Apex Legends, Elder Scrolls, Titanfall 2, Age of Mythology, Anno 1800, Path of Exile.. it would be a pleasure to introduce you to any or all of them to enjoy together at times. I'm also open to your favorite games but can only afford to buy one every couple few months or so.

I would love to put together the dating group or app idea I've seen mentioned in the earlier posts with a gaming/support group dynamic where people jump on and get invited to join whatever others are playing at the time. I know there's therapy services that already do that sort of thing but I'd try to make something work out on the cheap and offer up as free to try at the very least.

Questions? Comments? Please engage and even be critical.. we only learn from our mistakes as we realize we've made mistakes.

Cheers,

Miguel, 44

Hello!

I'm always hoping there's a soulmate out there somewhere, and I've come to believe that I could probably really only truly connect with another neurodivergent person.

I'm 50 years old, female, interested in human beings (I don't really care about gender, although I've mostly been with men.)
I am unfortunately trapped in the insanity that is America --for now.

I'm a long-haired peace-and-love hippie with a gloriously hyperverbal mind. My mind palace is massive, but I'm physically tiny, so I like to say that I'm bigger on the inside.
I am moved by issues of human rights and justice. The only thing that really ever makes me angry is injustice. My mind thinks in metaphors with existential building blocks. I reject all social structures that make no sense morally or logically. I'm not religious, although I do dabble in Buddhist and Taoist philosophy and meditation.

I'm on the spectrum/neurodivergent as informally diagnosed by clinicians, and personally suspect that I'm an Aspie.

Some of my fascinations are British culture, music history (popular music, especially the British Invasion), universal healthcare, writing poetry, all science, and linguistics. I have not traveled the world yet but that is my biggest dream.

I do contract work copywriting and proofreading.

I have a chronic illness that I'm currently nutrition-bombing. I eat mostly fresh, unprocessed foods and only eat wheat/grains on special occasions.

Cheers!

This has certainly been a successful thread, enduring since 2004. I am not sure Wrong Planet existed much prior to 2004.

"Please post a concise description of yourself; showcasing gender, approximate age, geographical location. It would be great if you would describe yourself; your interests, personality type, and physical characteristics, but do not feel pressured into doing so. Be positive about yourself guys! : The ability to identify traits you would value in a prospective partner [boyfriend/girlfriend]is a definite. Respondents are free to respond to your "ad" via the personal messaging "pm" feature offered through the http://www.wrongplanet.net forum system."

Male, 55, U.S.A. I have an extensive posting history & will omit interests and personality type, but physically I am tall and thin, if I watch my diet, that is. My views and opinions are expressed all over this forum, so there is nothing much hidden. I am single and live alone with my two cats. One is wild and likes to go outside every day. The other is a homebody and prefers to be with me all the time. My morning routine is to read and write online at sites including this one, drink coffee, feed the cats, possibly exercise if I am feeling particularly industrious, then shower and put on my work clothes and go to work. I am thinking about the possibility of retirement, but not quite eager to pull that trigger, with all the uncertainties in the world today. Perhaps next year is my general feeling. If my employer alters in their attitude toward me, then of course I would leave, but until then, I think work provides not only financial, but social stimulus. Routine is good for us, and so is controlled, moderate and polite social interaction on a daily basis.

At any rate, in regards to a future spouse, I am not desperate, and OK with living alone. It seemed difficult at first, but once you get used to it, it is normal. Having been divorced before, I don't think I am interested in another marriage and am not particularly eager to live with anyone, in the abstract. However it would be good to establish a relationship, and I am a passably good listener and companion in life, low-maintenance, no-drama and fun to be with. I am looking for a woman. I am a one-partner type of person, one is about all that I can manage at one time.

Have no idea if this will work. Not sure how many people are using this site anymore, but here we go...

...Hello, I am a 48 year old male looking for a friend or spouse. I would like to find at least one person that I have a real connection to. I like all things creative - art, writing, poetry, animation, photography, and etc. You can see more of me here - https://linktr.ee/lonenoctua
I am in Phoenix Arizona, more than willing to do online, long distance.

What I am looking for in a woman, I think matters but really it doesn't. Someone who likes the outdoors and could live outside a city would be great. A chill, calm person would be great. I have an image in my head of what she looks like but always changes with my moods so the best thing is just having an unmistakable connection. That would be all I want.

What I am looking for in a friend is someone willing to listen and swap stories. A chill individual.

It should go without saying but no one under 18.

If anything here is my Pokemon Go referal code - MHJ4BC7PP
Got to start somewhere.

Recently I’ve realised that the only path to a comfortable, genuine connection is with a fellow autistic person. I’m done with allistic dating games. I want something real, not performative.

I work full-time, parent a well-behaved teenager, and also care for my mom. My life is full but simple. I’d like a partner who values that simplicity: someone reliable, respectful, and honest.

Peace for me is long walks, drawing, and the quiet of home. I also live with anxiety and panic attacks, so kindness and understanding matter deeply.

Only interested in a serious connection, and won’t share my phone number until we’ve had video calls and met in person.

I’m looking for a relationship built on truth, respect, and ease. I'm newly diagnosed.

I don't know how many will come across this post today but I'm going to just try it anyway because you can't succeed if you just keep it to yourself, I guess.

40/straight M/SC
Looking for my first real love partner, one who can be patient with me, as someone who is a high functioning person on the spectrum who is quite over-sensitive to feelings like love.
I'm unemployed, last working as a delivery driver. Looking at returning to work/school
I have an old heart but my head is stuck in the past. I like retro video games, older tv shows and movies and heavy metal and rock from the 80s to the 2000s.
I watch sports but am not a huge fan, not that obsessed. Except with motorsports but I've even been losing some interest in that lately. If you happen to like NASCAR, we could talk a lot about that subject.
I do like to play board games and card games.
While I prefer a nice, quiet night indoors, I would not say no to a peaceful night out or a walk on the beach.

I do have very low self-esteem and am very self-conscious about my body. I was once over 350 lbs, which may have served as a big (no pun intended) roadblock in the past. I have since lost over 150 lbs. and feel better about myself there. I absolutely cannot stand my voice but others swear I have a deep, sexy voice. So, if you're into flirting by whispers, I could be the right type.
But, I would also describe myself as sensitive and caring with a sarcastic sense of humor. I might have a temper when things get overwhelming mentally but that's something I'm still working on.

I cannot explain this feeling I've been experiencing lately of wanting to finally get together with somebody and experience love. If you're in the same boat, I'd like to talk about it with you.

A simple hello makes my day.

Ok, but just for fun. I'm a 54 year old female without any official diagnoses because I don't like doctors or people with psychology degrees and avoid them at all costs. I'm a reformed people-pleaser now in isolation in the back woods of Montana (yes, like the unabomber, but I am actually much nicer). If I spend too much time alone, I start talking to myself but that's just me being bored. I don't do that when I have company. I like talking about spirituality and quantum physics the way some people like talking about sci fi (especially them Star Wars fans -- dude, it is not a religion, ok?) But I like sci fi, too. My dad taught me the code of chivalry when I was little because he didn't have any sons and so had to tell somebody. Now I'm a knight Templar living in a computer world, a modern day Don Quixote with the unfortunate added bonus of being female. I was married long ago. I had a child. I had parents. They all exacerbated my cataplexy to the point where I had to choose between me and them, so I love them from a distance, now. I am looking for friendship not romance. I've never met anyone who could understand me so I don't expect that. What I want is curiosity, imagination and judgement-free conversation. Kindness is a rare thing in this world. I hope to find it here.

Hello everyone I am about to turn 40, living in the global bully, the usa, im single never been hugged much less kissed before, my family is all think of me as the runt, i have no education whatsoever and am unable to get one due to a lack of ability to even hold the knowledge, i am autistic and have zero fr4iends, no transportation, no resources around me that can be used, cant work because no social skills and prone to panic attacks when under even the slightest of stress, I've been told by family members for years i should just kill myself and do the family and world a favor, but anyway, i love the outdoors what outdoors i do have access too, i live with my father because rent is like $4000 where i am and being homeless is illegal, and the affordable areas are in areas where you can be shot for being white.


I have been looking for a girlfriend for my whole life, but being banned by match group makes it hard because it means im banned from nearly every dating app and the furthest i can go is the dollar store and its a bunch of married 60s+ people that are usually there.

I love music outdoors hiking camping exploring, going to live music movies anime festivals video games kdrama ect, im a fun person when i have actual friends which ive never actualy had, well, not in like over 27 years at least

Hi everyone, I am 30 years old give or take 2 years. I have my whole life ahead of me but am not sure whay direction I want to head right now. I truthfully just want someone I can trust, who trusts me and we can hold one another in each other's arms and just sort of exist. I do require a physical relationship but am willing to work towards it. I will dump on you with my autistic interests, but I will also allow you to do the same onto me. In-between jobs at the moment so I can take care of my elde family members, but I do intend to go back to work shortly, I suppose having someone I care about would likely speed thay up. Id ideally like to start on discord but can move as slow as you want, we can even avoid names until your ready. But hopefully someone on here is open to connect. My likes? Yes I like star wars a little too much but I also love music. The phantom of the opera is my favorate movie because of how seen it made me feel.