Living with parents kind of puts the kibosh on dating?

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26 Jul 2018, 10:53 am

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People seem to just have sex at parks and the schools here

Used to do that as a teenager. And when visiting my future mother-in-law out of town. My husband was her “baby”. I think she would have had a fit if we had tried to sleep together in her home. I was around 35 and he was 40. Discretion is a virtue! :D


You've mentioned at least having a son. Out of curiosity, did you take any measures to prevent him from as much as dreaming of doing what you did as a teenager? Of course, if he's anything like the typical autistic man, it may have been unnecessary. Do you have any daughters? What about them? Do you think they should be strictly forbidden to date, and their male peers scared away from them, for as long as possible, perhaps till they're thirty?


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26 Jul 2018, 10:57 am

Spiderpig wrote:
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People seem to just have sex at parks and the schools here

Used to do that as a teenager. And when visiting my future mother-in-law out of town. My husband was her “baby”. I think she would have had a fit if we had tried to sleep together in her home. I was around 35 and he was 40. Discretion is a virtue! :D


You've mentioned at least having a son. Out of curiosity, did you take any measures to prevent him from as much as dreaming of doing what you did as a teenager? Of course, if he's anything like the typical autistic man, it may have been unnecessary. Do you have any daughters? What about them? Do you think they should be strictly forbidden to date, and their male peers scared away from them, for as long as possible, perhaps till they're thirty?

You see, you need to understand that not everyone in the world is crazy or has crazy parents.



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26 Jul 2018, 11:20 am

Spiderpig seems to have a fascination with WP members’ teenaged daughters.

Sex with minors is against the law. I’d suggest targeting women who DON’T need parental permission to leave the house. Women who have their OWN place are your safest bet. I would set aside these pedophile fantasies for something with an actual future.

You can also get picked up for meddling with disabled women who are technically of age but lack the mental capacity for consent. There was one recent WP member who, as it turns out, was being catfished and possibly groomed. She was bent out of shape because of how her parents reacted but, as it turns out, they were actually right.

Nothing good can come out of a discussion about sex with minors. Adults discussing consensual sex with minors in such a way as to suggest adults should actually be able to have sex with children is, well...it’s a little creepy.



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26 Jul 2018, 11:33 am

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Spiderpig seems to have a fascination with WP members’ teenaged daughters.

Sex with minors is against the law. I’d suggest targeting women who DON’T need parental permission to leave the house. Women who have their OWN place are your safest bet. I would set aside these pedophile fantasies for something with an actual future.

You can also get picked up for meddling with disabled women who are technically of age but lack the mental capacity for consent. There was one recent WP member who, as it turns out, was being catfished and possibly groomed. She was bent out of shape because of how her parents reacted but, as it turns out, they were actually right.

Nothing good can come out of a discussion about sex with minors. Adults discussing consensual sex with minors in such a way as to suggest adults should actually be able to have sex with children is, well...it’s a little creepy.

I would suggest thinking about it twice before accusing some of the forum people of such filthy things. I'd delete your post if I were you or apologize.



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26 Jul 2018, 11:46 am

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Not really, when it comes to entry jobs and some fields, women win in the job market.

Employers here have no shame to specify the gender in job ads.

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Junior Accountants are often females for example and employers specify it in ads - a male accountant or HR graduate would have a very hard time to find his first job.


But if there were more women in the workforce, the competition would be even greater for men. Are you really saying it isn't widely resented? You know, like so many people resent having to compete with immigrants.


Of course, no one loves competition that endagers your survival.



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26 Jul 2018, 11:48 am

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^Wow, boo, that would be illegal discrimination here. Employers do discriminate all the time, but they’re not allowed to specify a preferred gender in a job ad. The closest it gets in job ads is “Punjabi speaking preferred,” or “Must speak Chinese/Cantonese/Mandarin.” Etc


Multinational and large companies don’t do this anywhere because they’re being audited for such matters; but small private companies don’t give a sh-t.
I bet they do it too in Canada but far more discretly.



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26 Jul 2018, 11:53 am

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What percentage of the people in Lebanon speak French, speak English, speak both?

In Canada, for federal civil service jobs, people must speak both French and English fluently.

There are quite a few jobs in New York City which requires one to be bilingual----Spanish/English bilingualism is especially desired. The fact of my English-only proficiency decreased my options when I was searching for a second job.


Those who studied in French schools do learn English, but English schools only teach English until recently(besides Arabic). So the Frenchies are fewer.



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26 Jul 2018, 12:31 pm

AngelRho wrote:
Spiderpig seems to have a fascination with WP members’ teenaged daughters.

Sex with minors is against the law. I’d suggest targeting women who DON’T need parental permission to leave the house. Women who have their OWN place are your safest bet. I would set aside these pedophile fantasies for something with an actual future.

You can also get picked up for meddling with disabled women who are technically of age but lack the mental capacity for consent. There was one recent WP member who, as it turns out, was being catfished and possibly groomed. She was bent out of shape because of how her parents reacted but, as it turns out, they were actually right.

Nothing good can come out of a discussion about sex with minors. Adults discussing consensual sex with minors in such a way as to suggest adults should actually be able to have sex with children is, well...it’s a little creepy.


Teenagers are not off limits. 16 is the legal age of consent - but only because it was raised from 14 a decade or so ago. Stop shaming people for being attracted to the sex appeal of youthful energy, it’s rathrer unbecoming.

YOU can bang grandma’s all you want, but I’d rather hookup with smokin’ hot 18yo underwear models. 8)


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26 Jul 2018, 12:37 pm

If people want that "youthful" energy, they better look at the laws of their state or nation very carefully.

Basically, a person 21 or older cannot have sexual relations with a person under 18. It's fuzzier for people 18 to 20 years of age.

The "age of consent" doesn't matter as to these laws.



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26 Jul 2018, 12:40 pm

You also have to be very careful if you aren't ready to father a child.



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26 Jul 2018, 1:47 pm

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If people want that "youthful" energy, they better look at the laws of their state or nation very carefully.

Basically, a person 21 or older cannot have sexual relations with a person under 18. It's fuzzier for people 18 to 20 years of age.

The "age of consent" doesn't matter as to these laws.


Yes, know your laws of the land. It’s 16 here in Canada, nation wide. It’s only 18 when you’re in a position of authority over someone like a teacher, coach, or boss. Technically it’s 18 for anal sex consent, but that law has not been enforced for decades and is in the process of being removed as it discriminates against 16-17yo homosexuals.


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26 Jul 2018, 1:53 pm

You'd have to look up the statutory rape laws for each province, probably.



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26 Jul 2018, 2:12 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
If people want that "youthful" energy, they better look at the laws of their state or nation very carefully.

Basically, a person 21 or older cannot have sexual relations with a person under 18. It's fuzzier for people 18 to 20 years of age.

The "age of consent" doesn't matter as to these laws.

Spider isn’t wanting that he’s nearly asking if she is as strict and crazy with her kids as angelrho is with his. I think he’s too crazy. But I’ll admit I’d be a hypocrite like most men. I’d had sexual as a teen with girls in a heart beat, I’d like my gf to wear slu*ty clothes. I would not want my daughter if I had one to do either. I reconize it’s hypocritical though, where as a lot of men won’t admit so. We want others daughters do so stuff we wouldn’t want ours to do. I would allow mine to date at 15ish though. I wouldn’t deny my kids happiness and relationship experiences like I was by society.
I’ve also learned nothing stops them, super strict pastors daughters have sex still. They sneak out and go down the corn and do it. They change clothes at school, clothes they might have stolen. So is it better to be more open and less strict. Least then they aren’t stealing and going behind your back. I dont know I’ll probably never have kids.
It does seemmbeing super open and being super strict doesn’t work, sommust be somewhere in the middle



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26 Jul 2018, 2:15 pm

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You'd have to look up the statutory rape laws for each province, probably.


Except no, because like I just told you, age of sexual consent laws are federal in Canada.


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26 Jul 2018, 2:22 pm

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You'd have to look up the statutory rape laws for each province, probably.


Except no, because like I just told you, age of sexual consent laws are federal in Canada.


Can not provinces make stricter laws like thenus states can.
Example age to smoke federally is 18 my state made it 21. Federally you can buy a handgun at 18 most states made it 21.

Age of consent is no different which different states having different laws. Just like min wage is higher in most states then federal min wage



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26 Jul 2018, 2:24 pm

In the US, the states make these laws. There is no federal statutory rape law that I know.

In Canada, I'd have to research. But many things are done on a provincial level.

Any crime in Canada, though, is a federal crime if the maximum penalty is two years in prison. So there is more federal power at least in some areas in Canada.