No friends, but constantly having guys "wanting" me

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Yes,
But I was first,
So I win.

Of course you do

It's actually a pretty good idea anyway, I remember that at least in my youth the gay community was more welcoming of outliers and outsiders even if they were straight.

I reasoned that they went through so much hardship themselves that they had more compassion for others who were being abused by this fakakta NT society.

I always try to see the POV of others who are different, and to defend the underdog where possible. After all, I'm in at least three minority groups - gay, Aspie and left handed.

There was a time when left handedness seems to have been equated with some kind of evil deviation - literally "sinister"! Luckily by the time I was growing up it was acceptable - more so than the other things.

So, wanna be friends?

I mean a discussion about free speech

Thank you



Ich fühle mich etwas angegriffen. Irgendwas muss ich gesagt haben.

sure

@quite_an_extreme

You pretty much f****d it up now. I don't tolerate homophobic people.

Es ist leicht, manche Menschen zu beleidigen.
Ich bin nicht leicht zu beleidigen, wie Sie festgestellt haben.

It is easy to offend some people.
I'm not easily offended, as you have discovered.

Ich dachte, das könnte der Fall sein.

I thought that might be the case.

Actually,
He was talking to me. <joke>

You are into gays? I'm not as homophobic. Lesbians are OK. Anybody has to know himself what he likes or dislikes. Am I wrong with this?

Last edited by envirozentinel on 01 Jul 2020, 2:18 pm, edited 1 time in total.: lumping necrophily with sodomy is not acceptable

^^ Some of this content is inappropriate, given that we have all kinds of members here including kids and younger teenagers.

You are right. I was very hard and merciless direct. Didn't keep in mind that a forum should be fun for the members.

Thank you LC! Reading what you write is almost like I am writing it myself. I am pretty sure you are the same cognitive type as me. I thought of several things I do that inevitably gets me in trouble with women.

1. Have you heard the song "Human Behavior" by Bjork? (she is the same type as me). I get wrapped up in the exchange of "Human Behavior". I love being appreciated and I can be way too "effusive" back. This sometimes is confusing to the person on the other side of the relationship. I would love just to be open and myself... no between the lines with me. That desire gets me in trouble.

2. I don't look in eyes unless I find someone interesting. This is evidently seductive. I call this "animaling". Basically people of our type are "more animal than human".

Most aspies don't have the hardware (certain mirror neurons) for learning culture (forming the TOM). Most ADDers have that hardware (can build the TOM) but don't have the hardware to run culture (TOM) properly (too little pre-frontal white matter). We don't have either... and that balances out in some strange way. We look very normal so people think what we are doing maps into some kind of non-verbal communication. The way we look into eyes turns people on and can confuse them.

I was "animaled" about a year ago by a woman your age who is ECUS. It is a real kick in the pants when it happens to me. I think it must be crazy for culturals (NTs).

Another thing I have noticed about our type is that we tend to have very symmetrical faces (we are good looking to most people).

All the women I know that are my type and are somewhat somatic have men following them, falling for them... etc...

They all animal men like crazy too, lol. I think it is part of being a drone

Actually ECU is kind of a super drone.

Warum spricht fast alle hier Deutch? Schade das ich mein Deutsch verlernt habe