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24 Jan 2009, 8:55 am

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this is the first time i have come back to this thread since i posted in it days? weeks? ago, and the first time i have read it all the way through.....and i think i am the only girl with her picture up who ABSOLUTELY NO ONE commented on.....i'm going to go sit in the corner and nurse my shattered ego now :cry: :roll:


Well, you can't expect compliments from men here while you kept calling them immature 'young males' in that other thread (the famous ephemerella's threads) and you can't also expect compliments from them when you literally accuse old active male members here of being potential stalkers and harassers, and that thread was viewed by so many members here.

It's not because they don't like your pic but because they become very wary of saying any compliment to you, I personally wonder if I can compliment anything about you without being insulted back or accused of something.



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24 Jan 2009, 9:33 am

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I am not bashing those that do it, I just think these threads would lead to more pain then fun.

A person gets up the confidence to post a pic. Their pic is then completely ignored. Something most of us have had to deal with in real life. Thus in their eyes their attempt at taking a chance had failed and most likely resulted in that self-esteem being crushed.




there was a couple of males who actually spelled it out clearly "I think X is more attractive than Y".

this is seriously rude and can be crushing to someone's self-esteem.



Quote them, I recall no such post posted by a male here. I recall no one said :'X is more attractive than Y' or anything like that.


to refresh your memory:

aspi-rant wrote:
nope... you should read my opinion about who i regard as attractive! :wink: ... certainly not the girl in the pic X postet.


0_equals_true wrote:
Personally I find you more attractive than Y


I edited the usernames.


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24 Jan 2009, 9:49 am

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LePetitPrince wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
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I am not bashing those that do it, I just think these threads would lead to more pain then fun.

A person gets up the confidence to post a pic. Their pic is then completely ignored. Something most of us have had to deal with in real life. Thus in their eyes their attempt at taking a chance had failed and most likely resulted in that self-esteem being crushed.




there was a couple of males who actually spelled it out clearly "I think X is more attractive than Y".

this is seriously rude and can be crushing to someone's self-esteem.



Quote them, I recall no such post posted by a male here. I recall no one said :'X is more attractive than Y' or anything like that.


to refresh your memory:

aspi-rant wrote:
nope... you should read my opinion about who i regard as attractive! :wink: ... certainly not the girl in the pic X postet.


0_equals_true wrote:
Personally I find you more attractive than Y


I edited the usernames.


aspi-rant just said that because he finds her picture "immodest' , that's why he said such crap.

As for equals_true, I don't know in what thread and in what context was that.



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24 Jan 2009, 9:57 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
aeroz wrote:
I am not bashing those that do it, I just think these threads would lead to more pain then fun.

A person gets up the confidence to post a pic. Their pic is then completely ignored. Something most of us have had to deal with in real life. Thus in their eyes their attempt at taking a chance had failed and most likely resulted in that self-esteem being crushed.




there was a couple of males who actually spelled it out clearly "I think X is more attractive than Y".

this is seriously rude and can be crushing to someone's self-esteem.



Quote them, I recall no such post posted by a male here. I recall no one said :'X is more attractive than Y' or anything like that.


to refresh your memory:

aspi-rant wrote:
nope... you should read my opinion about who i regard as attractive! :wink: ... certainly not the girl in the pic X postet.


0_equals_true wrote:
Personally I find you more attractive than Y


I edited the usernames.


aspi-rant just said that because he finds her picture "immodest' , that's why he said such crap.

As for equals_true, I don't know in what thread and in what context was that.


context doesn't make it any less rude.


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24 Jan 2009, 10:01 am

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context doesn't make it any less rude.


hmm...I do agree.



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24 Jan 2009, 10:23 am

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Well what do you want starvingartist? You look fine. I bet if you'd posted your picture, you'd have gotten some nice comments.



ohhhhhhhhh


I am not sure if I should laugh or head-desk


maybe both.


Why, what was funny? 8O



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24 Jan 2009, 10:24 am

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I'd be like so sad


If I wasn't on the spectrum, i'd take a shot and say, I think I detect a little bit of sarcasm 8O


be careful, how would you feel if you weren't on the spectrum?



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24 Jan 2009, 10:27 am

So if Y is voted more attractive than X - how does that make X feel?

I rest my case.



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24 Jan 2009, 10:43 am

benjimanbreeg wrote:
Fuzzy wrote:
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I'd be like so sad


If I wasn't on the spectrum, i'd take a shot and say, I think I detect a little bit of sarcasm 8O


be careful, how would you feel if you weren't on the spectrum?


Like all humans, I would find something to whine about. I am not sure I'd know the difference, to tell you the truth.


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24 Jan 2009, 11:52 am

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Shiggily wrote:
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Well what do you want starvingartist? You look fine. I bet if you'd posted your picture, you'd have gotten some nice comments.



ohhhhhhhhh


I am not sure if I should laugh or head-desk


maybe both.


Why, what was funny? 8O


yes


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24 Jan 2009, 12:01 pm

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So if Y is voted more attractive than X - how does that make X feel?

I rest my case.


depends on X.

if I was X I could care less


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24 Jan 2009, 12:15 pm

It would take some stupid conceit for me to think I've failed if I am not the most attractive, or the smartest, or the nicest.

And it would take an ego the size of new jersey fpr me to get all pissy because someone else exceeded me in these traits.

Its just a fact of life that someone, somewhere is bigger or stronger or faster, or smarter, more attractive, perhaps wealthier, kinder, or just plain old better loved than me.

O Fortune,
like the moon
you are changeable,
ever waxing
and waning;
hateful life
first oppresses
and then soothes
as fancy takes it;
poverty
and power
it melts them like ice.


Nobody gets to be perfect. Why have a complex about it?


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24 Jan 2009, 12:23 pm

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24 Jan 2009, 12:50 pm

Shiggily wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
Well what do you want starvingartist? You look fine. I bet if you'd posted your picture, you'd have gotten some nice comments.



ohhhhhhhhh


I am not sure if I should laugh or head-desk


maybe both.


Why, what was funny? 8O


lol, I said what was funny? Not, was it funny?
yes



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24 Jan 2009, 12:55 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
Well what do you want starvingartist? You look fine. I bet if you'd posted your picture, you'd have gotten some nice comments.



ohhhhhhhhh


I am not sure if I should laugh or head-desk


maybe both.


Why, what was funny? 8O


lol, I said what was funny? Not, was it funny?
yes


oh.... um... this is better discussed in a pm.


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24 Jan 2009, 1:01 pm

Where are all the female pics? It's all discussion now so it's getting off-topic and boring for me with it being in a non off-topic section and all. :roll:


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