The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women
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Oh, and PT is not a serious magazine. It's the one where that Nemsky charlatan publishes, too, the one who deems those with AS unemployable.
No, Evolutionary psychology is simply a branch of psychology - not some conspirator movement.
And guess what? Many scientists, neurologists and doctors consider the whole psychology/psychiatry trash too and not true science (and doctors don't usually view psychiatry as true medicine too), not just evo psych ; which means that Asperger's Syndrome, the whole DSM and ....Wrongplanet are all trash too.
Please tell me why psychology should be regarded valid while evolutionary psychology is not.
Will preface by saying I work in science, with scientists, and have done for over a decade. Worked with docs in a med college before that.
Yes, on the whole, they take psychology and psychiatry seriously. They do it mainly because we don't know enough about the brain to do without it yet. Do they regard psychologists as doctors, no, but there's some level of respect.
Evopsych is not taken seriously because it's a transparent attempt at misusing biological science (in boneheaded ways that demonstrate that the evopsych guys don't understand the papers they're reading) to support obviously retrograde social theory. Which annoys biologists, many of whom work in evolution.
Oh, you are a savant goddess, you worked as a pilot, you worked as a social work, and now we find out that you worked as a scientist and as a doctor too!!
Psychiatry is currently like medicine some hundred of years ago, medicine in the recent past was pseudoscience and barbaric and was based on trial and error, and ancient knowledge (which many was false) more than real science; but medicine has evolved from pseudoscience to the real applied science we know today - but psychiatry hasn't yet. The best branch in my opinion of this realm (psychology/psychiatry/evo pschy) is behavioral neuroscience (biological psychology) - because it's organic evidence-based and they check on other animals.
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2. College studies cover ages 18-22, approximately. I don't know if you've noticed, but the majority of women are not 18-22 years old. Believe it or not, even at my advance age, I'm in fact a woman.
3. Even amongst the women polled in what's no doubt a highly selective study (see "eta", below), they aren't saying they don't ask men out. They're saying they prefer to be asked. The study's also saying that men prefer to do the asking. Given the researcher, though, I'd take the whole thing with a mountain of salt, then throw it away and find someone without an agenda to do the study.
4. Your histogram etc. miss the point anyway. If men are doing more asking, that isn't necessarily because women refuse to ask. (And given the hands up here and male friends' experience on dating sites, I can't accept your suggestion that it's some tiny minority of women willing to ask. Just doesn't accord with reality.) If men ask far more often than women do, though, that could certainly fuel the perception that women don't or won't ask. Then the question is why their ask rate is so much higher than women's.
eta: oh, ffs. Your source is like the king of evopsych, publishing in Psychology Today. Really, do consider your sources.
You are splitting hairs, if men ask more often, then that means that means that men do most of the asking. It's that simple.
Where are your statistics? I've asked you for statistics and you have provided none, those on the other hand are the the only statistics that I could find on the internet. You cannot expect me to take what you're saying seriously if you cannot produce your own figures, especially if it contradicts my own personal experience as well as the experience of the majority of my friends, both male and female.
As for why men do most of the asking, the reason for that is simple and I've been trying to say it the whole time. The men do the most asking (which is actually synonymous with with saying that they ask more often) because it's expected of them, it's as simple as that. If women prefer to be asked, then it stands to reason that they would avoid asking if they could, thereby reinforcing the gender norm that men do most of the asking.
Is there something about 18-22 year olds that make them more likely to wait for men to ask them out, rather than the other way round? How does that age group make it biased? Are you saying that most of the women who do the asking are in their 50's? that sounds like bad news for young men (like me) who want someone in their own age group.
Some women claim that men expect them to not be too forward, you heard too often stories of the like "I have asked guys out before but I was rejected and told by them I was too forward" - and also they are more likely to get way dishearten by one rejection and stop trying, you hear stories like "I have asked out once a guy but he rejected me, so I will never initiate again".
Exactly, because of gender norms. That's what I'm talking about. Those women are perfectly correct that some men will reject them simply for being too forward for asking them out, for the same reason there will be some women who expect men to be the ones to ask them. It's a cultural gender norm that affects both genders. There's even a kind of a myth among those kinds of women that if a man doesn't ask them, he's not interested, which isn't true.
You two have missed the point. Also, please show me these men who will reject women who ask them out because, by definition, the asking-out means the woman's too forward.
Oh, I've seen such stories even on WP, go ask the ladies on women's forum.
Hey,even go ask Eureka here! She told a such story too.
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Oh, and PT is not a serious magazine. It's the one where that Nemsky charlatan publishes, too, the one who deems those with AS unemployable.
Oh! I didn't even look at the link carefully. You're right it is from psychology today. You mean Marty Nemko? Well I have some good news for you. He took all of his articles about AS down. Let's just say I was the final catalyst for him taking the article down. I questioned all of his points and asked him to provide specific examples.
Marty no like me very much
Ha! Congratulations! And thanks.
Oh, and PT is not a serious magazine. It's the one where that Nemsky charlatan publishes, too, the one who deems those with AS unemployable.
No, Evolutionary psychology is simply a branch of psychology - not some conspirator movement.
And guess what? Many scientists, neurologists and doctors consider the whole psychology/psychiatry trash too and not true science (and doctors don't usually view psychiatry as true medicine too), not just evo psych ; which means that Asperger's Syndrome, the whole DSM and ....Wrongplanet are all trash too.
Please tell me why psychology should be regarded valid while evolutionary psychology is not.
Will preface by saying I work in science, with scientists, and have done for over a decade. Worked with docs in a med college before that.
Yes, on the whole, they take psychology and psychiatry seriously. They do it mainly because we don't know enough about the brain to do without it yet. Do they regard psychologists as doctors, no, but there's some level of respect.
Evopsych is not taken seriously because it's a transparent attempt at misusing biological science (in boneheaded ways that demonstrate that the evopsych guys don't understand the papers they're reading) to support obviously retrograde social theory. Which annoys biologists, many of whom work in evolution.
Oh, you are a savant goddess, you worked as a pilot, you worked as a social work, and now we find out that you worked as a scientist and as a doctor too!!
I can cop only to demi-goddess. Was a sport pilot, not pro (too short, eyes lousy. Also not for long, not rich enough). Think you have me confused with someone else on the social work, am def not a social worker. Work with/for scientists, worked with/for docs in a variety of roles, usually writer/editor, though yes, I've done some bench work as a student and as a visitor. Useless as an actual scientist, you wouldn't want me at your bench. I'd be expensive.
There's some fantastic neuro work going on - I had a 2-hour tour today of a nanofabrication facility where, among other things, there's some stuff I can't talk about yet going on with neurosurgery equipment. A friend also works on a distributed neuron-tracing game that led recently to a Nature paper. Eventually we'll be able to treat this stuff as physical disease, but the best psychology is rooted in deep insight into human lives, and that stuff will remain. Not all unhappiness is rooted in chemical events. And we will still need to know how to do things like mourn, love, work, keep on.
No, but that's my point. They should treat teachers properly but the fact that they don't ultimately is an injustice to males who suffer in an education system that doesn't understand or care to understand them.
And in my country female test scores are higher presumably because men can't put up with pointless sh** like doing tests. And that too is an injustice. If you have a skill, but you can't write it as an answer on a test, then you are f****d. If you can build something with wood or metal or electronics, no one really cares. But if you can spell the word wood or metal or electronics on a test, you are an 'A' student guaranteed to be better than everyone else.
Well...you do have to be able to communicate. Partly because it's seldom one person making a thing, partly because you have to be able to show other people what you're doing and make them see why it's valuable. But I used to work with engineering students who had your attitude, and it can be lethal. You don't want to cross a bridge designed by engineers who can't communicate with each other. Our space program has imploded for similar reasons.
Oh, and PT is not a serious magazine. It's the one where that Nemsky charlatan publishes, too, the one who deems those with AS unemployable.
No, Evolutionary psychology is simply a branch of psychology - not some conspirator movement.
And guess what? Many scientists, neurologists and doctors consider the whole psychology/psychiatry trash too and not true science (and doctors don't usually view psychiatry as true medicine too), not just evo psych ; which means that Asperger's Syndrome, the whole DSM and ....Wrongplanet are all trash too.
Please tell me why psychology should be regarded valid while evolutionary psychology is not.
Will preface by saying I work in science, with scientists, and have done for over a decade. Worked with docs in a med college before that.
Yes, on the whole, they take psychology and psychiatry seriously. They do it mainly because we don't know enough about the brain to do without it yet. Do they regard psychologists as doctors, no, but there's some level of respect.
Evopsych is not taken seriously because it's a transparent attempt at misusing biological science (in boneheaded ways that demonstrate that the evopsych guys don't understand the papers they're reading) to support obviously retrograde social theory. Which annoys biologists, many of whom work in evolution.
I have to agree with face_of_boo here: You're going to have a very hard time countering evolutionary psych without inadvertently countering other branches of psych. So far your arguments have carefully avoided facts in favor of focusing on your acquaintances' academic rank, calling people who disagree with them "boneheaded", impugning their motives, and alleging (without evidence) that they haven't read or understood whatever it is that you think they should.
Calling evpsych political opens you up to the same criticism: The WWII generation saw ASD as a developmental problem, not a genetic one, whereas baby boomers prefer the genetic explanation. Boomers rebelled against personal discipline, so of course they would prefer a genetic explanation that absolves them of responsibility. It's the pseudo-scientific answer to Christian predestination.
I have no problem calling psych political, but I was responding to Boo's suggestion that scientists/docs regard all psych as they do evopsych. They don't. I invite anyone who's curious to go poke around themselves and find out.
Biologists get seriously annoyed when you appropriate and misuse evolutionary theory. They have good reason to be annoyed, too. Not only is it intellectually irritating, they don't need more people misrepresenting evolution. They've got enough funding/policy trouble as is. (And no, psych is not the only field that rifles hard sciences for what an old prof of mine used to call "impressionistic gleanings". Other social sciences and the humanities come up with perfectly inane representations of physical & biological science routinely, it's like something out of Alice. But there's considerable touchiness surrounding evolution.)
No, but that's my point. They should treat teachers properly but the fact that they don't ultimately is an injustice to males who suffer in an education system that doesn't understand or care to understand them.
And in my country female test scores are higher presumably because men can't put up with pointless sh** like doing tests. And that too is an injustice. If you have a skill, but you can't write it as an answer on a test, then you are f****d. If you can build something with wood or metal or electronics, no one really cares. But if you can spell the word wood or metal or electronics on a test, you are an 'A' student guaranteed to be better than everyone else.
Well...you do have to be able to communicate. Partly because it's seldom one person making a thing, partly because you have to be able to show other people what you're doing and make them see why it's valuable. But I used to work with engineering students who had your attitude, and it can be lethal. You don't want to cross a bridge designed by engineers who can't communicate with each other. Our space program has imploded for similar reasons.
I'm a "word person" with high verbal intelligence. I get As in school and my professors love me. However, when I go out in the real world and have to deal with anything not language-based, I'm a hopeless dolt and much reviled by my managers.
I don't know if that makes our visual-spatial folks here feel any better, but I just wanted them to know that, while we do well in school, us verbal beings get beaten-up down the road.
Oh, and I really hate one-size-fits-all education. Talented outliers get left in the dust while mediocre Normals reap all the benefit. And I wish more males would get into teaching.
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No, but that's my point. They should treat teachers properly but the fact that they don't ultimately is an injustice to males who suffer in an education system that doesn't understand or care to understand them.
And in my country female test scores are higher presumably because men can't put up with pointless sh** like doing tests. And that too is an injustice. If you have a skill, but you can't write it as an answer on a test, then you are f****d. If you can build something with wood or metal or electronics, no one really cares. But if you can spell the word wood or metal or electronics on a test, you are an 'A' student guaranteed to be better than everyone else.
Well...you do have to be able to communicate. Partly because it's seldom one person making a thing, partly because you have to be able to show other people what you're doing and make them see why it's valuable. But I used to work with engineering students who had your attitude, and it can be lethal. You don't want to cross a bridge designed by engineers who can't communicate with each other. Our space program has imploded for similar reasons.
I usually give technical staff pretty high marks on teamwork. When I was working at a housing non-profit on the West Coast, we had a variety of volunteer groups - DBAs, accountants, engineers, business students, Air Force crews, church groups, and so on. The engineers were among the best.
A lot of technical teams use an oddly low-brow communication style, but it makes sense because it allows the engineers, customer service reps, assembly techs, sales staff, and QA guys to sit at the same table speaking the same language. The chief engineer isn't always the one to spot the problem, so it pays off to make those conversations maximally accessible.
No, but that's my point. They should treat teachers properly but the fact that they don't ultimately is an injustice to males who suffer in an education system that doesn't understand or care to understand them.
And in my country female test scores are higher presumably because men can't put up with pointless sh** like doing tests. And that too is an injustice. If you have a skill, but you can't write it as an answer on a test, then you are f****d. If you can build something with wood or metal or electronics, no one really cares. But if you can spell the word wood or metal or electronics on a test, you are an 'A' student guaranteed to be better than everyone else.
Well...you do have to be able to communicate. Partly because it's seldom one person making a thing, partly because you have to be able to show other people what you're doing and make them see why it's valuable. But I used to work with engineering students who had your attitude, and it can be lethal. You don't want to cross a bridge designed by engineers who can't communicate with each other. Our space program has imploded for similar reasons.
The Challenger Explosion
Yup. The Thiokol engineers knew there was a problem, but a culture of "I shouldn't have to explain myself, I'm an engineer" left them unable to communicate clearly and persuasively when it mattered. Yes, NASA had real pressure to launch, but it wasn't a simple matter of silencing engineers. The engineers weren't able to make the case. Not that NASA's internal communication's gotten any better. Ironic, because they do such wonderful sci comm for the public through their websites.
If you're referring to the infamous "rocket graph", they actually tried too hard: http://www.qimacros.com/free-excel-tips ... sentation/
I don't know whose idea that was, by the way.
Also look at this: http://www.onlineethics.org/Topics/prof ... e_pre.aspx
(Quoting this chap: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roger_Boisjoly)
I participated in the formal FRR's for flight 51E which was scheduled for an April launch. The presentations were given at MSFC in February at three successively higher level review boards with exclusions and refinements in content made at each board level. I spoke about my belief that the low ambient temperature prior to launch was responsible for such a large witness of hot gas (approximately 5500 °F [3040 °C]) blow-by but NASA Program Management insisted on that position being softened for higher and final review board presentations.
[He included the final FFR assessment here.]
I returned to MTI in Utah and met with Arnie Thompson, who was the Supervisor of Structural Design and Analysis for the SRM case segments, to discuss the hot gas blow-by scenario and the affects of cold temperature on O-ring resiliency, which we defined as the ability of the seal to restore itself to a round cross sectional shape after the squeeze on the seal is removed. The preliminary resiliency testing, which was requested by Arnie Thompson, was performed in March and showed that a low temperature of 50 °F (10 °C) was a problem, as the seal material could not follow the rate of gap opening and lost contact with its mating surface. The significance of this data was that the seal erosion and blow-by problem was known to occur within 0.60 seconds during the motor ignition transient. The data was discussed with MTI Engineering Management, but was thought to be too sensitive by them to release to anyone.
Another post flight inspection was performed in June, 1985, at MTI facilities in Utah on a nozzle joint from Flight 51B (SRM 16A) which was launched on April 29, 1985.
[He included diagrams.]
The secondary seal in the same joint was eroded to a depth of 0.032 inches (0.81 mm) but sealed as expected. It was postulated from the evidence that the primary seal had not sealed during the full two minutes of booster flight.
My former concerns about seal erosion and blow-by now escalated because if the same scenario should occur in a field joint, the secondary seal could also be compromised because it was a bore seal instead of the very safe face seal in the nozzle joint. This heightened concern was especially true for a low temperature launch because of the preliminary test results on seal resiliency at 50 °F (10 °C).
An FRR was held at MSFC on July 1, 1985 for flight 51F which was scheduled for launch on July 29, 1985, with an additional presentation given on July 2nd which covered the overall problem status with all the booster seals. The preliminary test results on O-ring resiliency that were obtained in March and kept secret were presented to NASA for the first time at this meeting.
The preliminary test configuration placed an O-ring seal into a flight size groove in a flat plate and compressed the seal 0.040 inches (1.02 mm) with another flat plate. After temperature conditioning of the assembly, the plates were separated 0.030 inches (0.76 mm) at a 2.0 inch (5.08 cm) per minute rate to simulate a flight rate of approximately 3.2 inches (8.13 cm) per minute (slightly unconservative).
The test results showed no loss of seal contact at 100 °F (38 °C); loss of seal contact for 2.4 seconds at 75 °F (24 °C) and loss of seal contact for in excess of 10 minutes at 50 °F (10 °C). The testing also showed that a larger diameter seal (0.295 in - 7.49 mm) lost contact for 2 to 3 seconds at 50 °F (10 °C). This showed that the larger diameter seal performed at 50 °F (10 °C) similar to the operational flight seal (0.280 in - 7.11 mm) at 75 °F (24 °C), which was why the larger seal was being considered for a short-term fix.
Everyone on the program, working with the joint seal problems, was now aware of the influence of low temperature on the field joint seals.
Again, my concern about the joints increased due to the lack of attention being given to this problem by MTI. My notebook entry on August 15,1985 reads as follows: "An attempt to form the team (I was referring to the SIRM Seal Erosion Task Team) was made on 19 July 1985. This attempt virtually failed and resulted in my writing memo 2870:FY86:073. This memo finally got some response and a team was formed officially. The first meeting was held on August 15, 1985 at 2:30 p.m." The memo I referred to is the one I wrote to the Vice President of Engineering at MTI on July 31, 1985. The memo was stamped COMPANY PRIVATE by my boss and had a very limited distribution until I read it to the Presidential Commission on February 25, 1986. The memo reads as follows:
"Subject: SRM O-Ring Erosion/Potential Failure Criticality. This letter is written to insure that management is fully aware of the seriousness of the current O-ring erosion problem in the SRM joints from an engineering standpoint. The mistakenly accepted position on the joint problem was to fly without fear of failure and to run a series of design evaluations which would ultimately lead to a solution or at least a significant reduction of the erosion problem. This position is now drastically changed as a result of the SRM 16A nozzle joint erosion which eroded a secondary O-ring with the primary O-ring never sealing.
"If the same scenario should occur in a field joint (and it could), then it is a jump ball as to the success or failure of the joint because the secondary O-ring cannot respond to the clevis opening rate and may not be capable of pressurization. The result would be a catastrophe of the highest order--loss of human life.
"An unofficial team (a memo defining the team and its purpose was never published) with leader was formed on 19 July 1985 and was tasked with solving the problem for both the short and long term. This unofficial team is essentially nonexistent at this time. In my opinion, the team must be officially given the responsibility and the authority to execute the work that needs to be done on a noninterference basis (full-time assignment until completed).
"It is my honest and very real fear that if we do not take immediate action to dedicate a team to solve the problem, with the field joint having the number one priority, then we stand in jeopardy of losing a flight along with all the launch pad facilities."
The memo was signed by R. M. Boisjoly and concurred to by J. R. Kopp, Manager, Applied Mechanics, who was my boss."
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