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18 Aug 2010, 5:29 am

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To have needs and address them is all fine and dandy. To make your own needs far more important than everyone else's is the definition of selfish.


What's wrong with that?


Selfishness destroys relationships, prevents friendship and respect, and generally messes up everything that's good about human interaction. How is selfishness right?

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And when I'm trying to combat the whole "autistics are soulless monsters with no empathy" stereotype, showing that I recognize other peoples' needs and going out of my way to help address those needs goes a long way.


People are generally thoughtless and uncaring. Why do you think soundbites and empty slogans are so effective?


Nonsense. Caring and thoughtful people are taken in by slogans as well. They are designed around the way the brain works, not people's personalities.

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As a kid, I didn't give two s**ts about everyone else's needs and thought I was the most important person in the universe. And everybody hated me. Now that I realize that it's not all about me, I'm actually fairly well liked. So, in a way, I am focusing on my own needs, by helping others with theirs.


And are you really appreciated for it? Are your needs really met by being so "nice" to others? It seems to me that they are not being met.


He has friends. That's a good start, and an improvment on what he had before. People respect him and will talk to him at the very least. In his instance, becoming less selfish has created long-term benefits.



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18 Aug 2010, 5:34 am

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I enjoy seeing working girls simply because it is far less stressful and time-consuming than approaching and running game is.


What is "Game"? The meaning is unclear from your and Roissy's posts.



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18 Aug 2010, 6:51 am

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I enjoy seeing working girls simply because it is far less stressful and time-consuming than approaching and running game is. I've had far better, open, and honest conversations and far more affectionate and enjoyable encounters with women I paid than I ever did with women who were "unpaid".


There´s no meed to explain why you enjoy something, I only mentioned it because you were posting advice on how to start a relationship yet you decided to stop looking for one long ago(nothing wrong with that IMO).Like alex wrote on the women section heading it´s like going to a mecanic who doesn´t own a car and I find it illogical that you want to give advice on this matter.
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Roissy is an influence on some of what I believe but I don't blindly agree with everything that he says.

As I mentioned in my previous post I don´t think that theres any male who does everything he says and if there is that guy is a prick.

Roissy may have some points but I stopped reading the commandments after the 4/5 mysoginist statement.


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Roissy is also very much against seeing working girls. That is fine and good when you're NT and can process the sheer volume of data that comes with running game and are willing to put in the time and effort that is needed to keep a woman interested in you. I frankly dislike uncertainty and chaos since it was such a part of my life growing up (Narcissistic father and manic depressive mother).


I gave up trying to stablish a relationship a year ago. Right now I don´t feel the need to see a working girl but if I felt it I would like to be as open about it as you.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:01 pm

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If all the guy sees is what he wants, that makes him a selfish douche. I can see wanting to be appreciated but I shouldn't have to bow and suck his dick every time he gets a paycheck. :x



waitaminute..so not even a BJ every two weeks? :?: :?

Total malinvestment. If a guy is not even gonna get THAT at THAT frequency (which is really not that much work at all let alone doing it once every two weeks) why should he bother?

Seriously? What's there to come home to after a hard day's work that is better than the Xbox? 8)

Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:03 pm

CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
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I enjoy seeing working girls simply because it is far less stressful and time-consuming than approaching and running game is.


What is "Game"? The meaning is unclear from your and Roissy's posts.


Game means asserting yourself as a man at all times. Game means responding in a girls dumb little congruence tests (ie "Will you buy me a drink?") Dumb little things that you didn't even know she was asking you for the hell of it.

Part of why aspies get blown out of the water so often.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:06 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
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If all the guy sees is what he wants, that makes him a selfish douche. I can see wanting to be appreciated but I shouldn't have to bow and suck his dick every time he gets a paycheck. :x



waitaminute..so not even a BJ every two weeks? :?: :?

Total malinvestment. If a guy is not even gonna get THAT at THAT frequency (which is really not that much work at all let alone doing it once every two weeks) why should he bother?

Seriously? What's there to come home to after a hard day's work that is better than the Xbox? 8)


I meant that I shouldn't have to be on my knees every time he does something. He's a grown man, he doesn't need a "gold star" whenever he does something good. He'll get a BJ when he deserves it but he's not entitled to sex just because he has a penis. :x



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18 Aug 2010, 9:09 pm

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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:10 pm

Erisad wrote:
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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


Calling people names isn't going to change your unlovable image, Mrs ToadofSteel.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:17 pm

Erisad wrote:
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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


ahhahahahahhahahaha whatever you say Princess...

With that attitude, let's get you fitted right now for a buzzcut, a plaid shirt, and a pair of Doc Martens! :D :P

You have no sense of humor.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:21 pm

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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


Calling people names isn't going to change your unlovable image, Mrs ToadofSteel.


So him telling me that it's my duty to suck a man's dick is okay but calling him out on it isn't? Also, you don't have to remind me that I'm an unlovable b***h. I already know that.

RICKY5 - I DO have a sense of humor. I just don't tolerate sexism. Just because I'm not a frail little flower doesn't mean I'm a butch lesbian. Granted, this will probably fall on deaf ears because you're sooo convinced that you're better than me because of your penis. D:



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18 Aug 2010, 9:27 pm

Erisad wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


Calling people names isn't going to change your unlovable image, Mrs ToadofSteel.


So him telling me that it's my duty to suck a man's dick is okay but calling him out on it isn't? Also, you don't have to remind me that I'm an unlovable b***h. I already know that.

RICKY5 - I DO have a sense of humor. I just don't tolerate sexism. Just because I'm not a frail little flower doesn't mean I'm a butch lesbian. Granted, this will probably fall on deaf ears because you're sooo convinced that you're better than me because of your penis. D:


Lighten up toots! :P

Simply saying that your attitude sucks ass (and not in the fun way either).

Why would a guy want to come home to Debbie Downer? "Love" is being happy to see someone. "Love" is you can't wait to come home to see them again. "Love" is also a two-way street.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:33 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


Calling people names isn't going to change your unlovable image, Mrs ToadofSteel.


So him telling me that it's my duty to suck a man's dick is okay but calling him out on it isn't? Also, you don't have to remind me that I'm an unlovable b***h. I already know that.

RICKY5 - I DO have a sense of humor. I just don't tolerate sexism. Just because I'm not a frail little flower doesn't mean I'm a butch lesbian. Granted, this will probably fall on deaf ears because you're sooo convinced that you're better than me because of your penis. D:


Lighten up toots! :P

Simply saying that your attitude sucks ass (and not in the fun way either).

Why would a guy want to come home to Debbie Downer? "Love" is being happy to see someone. "Love" is you can't wait to come home to see them again. "Love" is also a two-way street.


So what if I'm not bubbly all the time? It's called having emotions. Deal with it. Please refrain from the belittling nicknames, though. I'm not a toots, doll, princess, broad or any of that. I have a name, dammit.

What do you know about love? All you want is to f**k women. That's not love, that's lust.



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18 Aug 2010, 9:46 pm

Erisad wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


Calling people names isn't going to change your unlovable image, Mrs ToadofSteel.


So him telling me that it's my duty to suck a man's dick is okay but calling him out on it isn't? Also, you don't have to remind me that I'm an unlovable b***h. I already know that.

RICKY5 - I DO have a sense of humor. I just don't tolerate sexism. Just because I'm not a frail little flower doesn't mean I'm a butch lesbian. Granted, this will probably fall on deaf ears because you're sooo convinced that you're better than me because of your penis. D:


Lighten up toots! :P

Simply saying that your attitude sucks ass (and not in the fun way either).

Why would a guy want to come home to Debbie Downer? "Love" is being happy to see someone. "Love" is you can't wait to come home to see them again. "Love" is also a two-way street.


So what if I'm not bubbly all the time? It's called having emotions. Deal with it. Please refrain from the belittling nicknames, though. I'm not a toots, doll, princess, broad or any of that. I have a name, dammit.

What do you know about love? All you want is to f**k women. That's not love, that's lust.


Yeah...and? :P 8)



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18 Aug 2010, 9:48 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
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So what if I'm not bubbly all the time? It's called having emotions. Deal with it. Please refrain from the belittling nicknames, though. I'm not a toots, doll, princess, broad or any of that. I have a name, dammit.

What do you know about love? All you want is to f**k women. That's not love, that's lust.


Yeah...and? :P 8)


...you're impossible. It's like talking to a child. D:



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18 Aug 2010, 10:33 pm

Erisad wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
Erisad wrote:
So what if I'm not bubbly all the time? It's called having emotions. Deal with it. Please refrain from the belittling nicknames, though. I'm not a toots, doll, princess, broad or any of that. I have a name, dammit.

What do you know about love? All you want is to f**k women. That's not love, that's lust.


Yeah...and? :P 8)


...you're impossible. It's like talking to a child. D:


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18 Aug 2010, 11:14 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
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What do you know about love? All you want is to f**k women. That's not love, that's lust.


Yeah...and? :P 8)


Hey if all you want to do is get laid, then go do that. But don't expect every guy to behave in the same manner as you...