Aspie or not?

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Sweetie I think it is time for you to find out for sure whether he has Asperger or not. You are still debating if he does or if he is just a d*ck head. Knowing it, will allow you to start from the truth and then move towards whatever you feel like you can and want to do. There is a big difference between knowing that somebody just can't do certain things and knowing that he does not want to do them. Remember that Asperger is a developmental disorder and people can't snap out of it. I also think though that if he cares he should be willing to at least try his best to make you happy. This may mean a lot of explaining that you have to do about each single thing that bothers you or makes you feel unloved. DO NOT assume he knows. Likely he does not and can't see your point of view.

I cant beleive this. He just called me, my heart beat just went up to just his name and pic on the caller id. He said we should meet this week after work, I said ok. And then he said he will busy till thursday but friday is good. I am not sure why he called all of a sudden. I did not expect his call at all. I was thinking he might call by weekend not today. May be he is realizing that he did mistake. Friday is a big day for me. I have to open up and talk.

AndreaLuna - As you said I should definetly talk to him, but all these he dont give oppurtunity to talk. Somehow he makes me to stop the conversation which he is comfortable. I am preparing myself for Friday, I am praying god that somehow I should bring everything to his view.

Thank you all for all advices. I really appreciate it. All most one week I did not sleep well, seeing his call today I will sleep very peacefully

Godspeed. I'm hoping you and your bf can work things out for the better. For us aspies, relationships are hard to come by - and even harder to keep.