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jamieboy
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09 Mar 2011, 7:46 am

I need a poonani pyramid scheme!



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09 Mar 2011, 9:27 am

I just found a local user called MissAS. What are the odds the AS stands for Aspergers Syndrome? Pretty low right? She does mention in her profile being ill and now trying to get out more.



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09 Mar 2011, 9:29 am

it could be Miss Asswhore Slut



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09 Mar 2011, 10:05 am

montjuic wrote:
it could be Miss Asswhore Slut


f*****g A. I think i'd like to meet her!



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21 Mar 2011, 4:20 am

So i've just noticed that the same girl has viewed my profile again in the week. Do you think she was having second thoughts about not replying to my initial message? Obviously if she was, she again declined to message me. I'm confused now!



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21 Mar 2011, 4:39 am

jamieboy wrote:
"Thanks for the rating. I really like your profile. You have good taste in music and i love music. I especially love The Cure and The XX. : ) "

Sent this in the end. If it sucks it's too late! :lol:

I've never had a relationship so this is why i am getting so stressed out and deliberating over sending the perfect message.


perfect, see you are not clueless, you can be polite and good to chat to. That was a good message.

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I've always meant to just approach it logically and message a hundred women with a standard message and just take it from there. I dont know why i dont? Guess i've got a suspicion it wont work.


I've heard complaints from women that a lot of men on sites like that send the same generic copy-pasted messages to lots of people. They can spot it a mile off. Best to choose one you like and send a proper personal message.