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Nadir
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14 Sep 2011, 3:22 pm

If you happen to know him close enough, perosnal life and such, and you feel this way, I would say you are in love with this guy. Perhaps you should talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel, because that might wake him up from his other relationship. Maybe he has a hard time to leave that other girl because he doesn't know what to expect from you, but if you tell him everything you think, maybe he will feel safe. That's how many people work, they need to be sure that the new option is better than the old one.

I find really cute when a girl like a guy this way :heart:

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14 Sep 2011, 3:22 pm

Are you sure you like him for who he is, and not just because he is the first person to be really nice to you in a while?

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14 Sep 2011, 3:33 pm

Lol, only twice!! :wall:

Then, why are we even talking about this? lol

Yes, time will be the main director of this chapter of your life. Other than that, show him who you are and why it is better being with you than with the other girl.

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17 Sep 2011, 4:34 am

smudge wrote:

How can it possibly be cheating if he dumps her?

Only progress with the 'relationship' with this guy if he dumps her. My ex-boyfriend had a friend with benefits I didn't know about, and finding out he had been having sex with another girl for a year and a half did more to wreck my self-esteem than years of bullying ever did. You might get your fill from sleeping with him behind her back, but sooner or later the story will come out and I can tell you now that the results won't be pretty.

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17 Sep 2011, 4:00 pm

Melpomene wrote:

smudge wrote:

How can it possibly be cheating if he dumps her?

This.

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17 Sep 2011, 4:34 pm

smudge wrote:

zen_mistress wrote:

Melpomene wrote:

smudge wrote:

How can it possibly be cheating if he dumps her?

This.

What's that supposed to mean?

I am agreeing with Melpomene's post. This girl is going to feel really awful when she finds out that her boyfriend is interested in another woman and considering leaving her. It is a terrible thing to have to go through.

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17 Sep 2011, 4:39 pm

Dont you think she will find out when she hears about you with him?

Even if it is only a month she will probably not be feeling very good, especially if she is really into him.

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17 Sep 2011, 4:57 pm

smudge wrote:

zen_mistress wrote:

Dont you think she will find out when she hears about you with him?

Even if it is only a month she will probably not be feeling very good, especially if she is really into him.

Why would she necessarily find out? Besides, he told me he isn't dumping her. I think it's leading us both on, but what can you do?

So he's not leaving her.

What are you going to do?

From your tone, I have a feeling that you have no problem if he cheats on her with you.

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