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wtfid2
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08 Oct 2012, 11:01 pm

DerStadtschutz wrote:

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yah im acting like a dic but it is what it is lol. The dif b/w me and this girl is that she can get laid if she wants to while it doesnt matter how charming, nice, funny I am..I won;t ever get a gf. that I am attracted to. So no I don't feel bad calling her ugly.

Then you're probably no better than she is. Chances are, you want someone who looks like britney spears, or whatever other empty headed celebrity douchebag is considered "hot" these days, which is just as unrealistic as what she says she wants. You certainly should avoid a girl like this, but you should honestly not have physical appearance be the deal breaker or the top priority. Get to know someone before you write them off based on looks. How would you like to be judged that way? It's a two way street, buddy. Look for the personality, not the body.

How do you know she can just get laid if she wants to? You obviously won't give it to her...

I woudnt give it to her bc that is my personality..but most guys dont give a fuzz who they give it to.

Physical appearance is a deal breaker for intimate relationships for me..it could be taken negatively by you but it is the truth..and I don;t feel it is a wrong or bad stance.

I wouldnt marry someoe who had a bad personality.....I loo at looks first an then personality. For casual sex or dating a mediocre personality isnt a deal breaker though.

So... what happens, then, when you both become old and grey? What if she leaves you for a younger, more attractive guy? Would YOU leave HER for a younger, more attractive woman? Beauty fades. What remains is the personality.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:03 pm

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Perhaps if you weren't acting like such a dick, you'd find out how it's pleasurable... If you think you're going to hate it, why do you even want it? Screw it, just use your hand for the rest of your life. Also, you said earlier that you want sex and a relationship. Now you say you just want a kiss. Make up your mind.

And you know, there's a reason someone coined the phrase: "don't judge a book by its cover."

I actually think it's totally reasonable to have a physical type and not want to be intimate with someone you aren't attracted to. (so no more whining about women being able to get lousy sex with people they find repulsive anytime they want like it's a prize...or even true).
But it's not cool to mock someone for not being attractive to you.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:04 pm

Dude, having a vagina doesn't automatically get you into the "i can get sex whenever I want" club. I knew a girl who didn't lose her virginity until she was like 26. She wasn't particularly ugly(although her boobs looked like flapjacks, but you wouldn't know that unless you saw her naked), and she wasn't fat. But she, like you, was shallow. She desperately wanted to get laid and have a relationship, but she kept going after the guys who wouldn't give her the time of day because she was only interested in "super hot" ones. She eventually went out with one she thought was "super hot," and lost her virginity to him, and he turned out to be a complete a**hole to her. He would bribe her with sex all the time and just generally treat her like s**t.

But hey, you don't have to listen to me. What the hell do I know? I've only been with a woman for about the last 3 years, lost my virginity about 7 years ago, and only ever went without being in a relationship/getting any for about a month at the most, and that was rarer than s**t.

EDIT: I think it's also important to note that the following is a picture of me, and I'm dead serious.

No, there's nothing wrong with finding certain people unattractive and not wanting to be with them, but looks should never be the first priority or you'll only be disappointed at some point anyway.

Would you find a grey, wrinkly old hag with saggy tits and skin attractive? I'm gonna go ahead and assume the answer is a big fat NO(because if it was a yes, you'd be pursuing that), so what happens when the attractive girl you want turns into that?

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08 Oct 2012, 11:07 pm

A tip, don't text girls a lot. I've ruined some things with girls by texting them a bit too much. If you text too much, girls go with their own like "Too clingy bro" kinda thing. At least that's the conclusion I came to.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:09 pm

DerStadtschutz wrote:

Dude, having a vagina doesn't automatically get you into the "i can get sex whenever I want" club. I knew a girl who didn't lose her virginity until she was like 26. She wasn't particularly ugly(although her boobs looked like flapjacks, but you wouldn't know that unless you saw her naked), and she wasn't fat. But she, like you, was shallow. She desperately wanted to get laid and have a relationship, but she kept going after the guys who wouldn't give her the time of day because she was only interested in "super hot" ones. She eventually went out with one she thought was "super hot," and lost her virginity to him, and he turned out to be a complete a**hole to her. He would bribe her with sex all the time and just generally treat her like sh**.

But hey, you don't have to listen to me. What the hell do I know? I've only been with a woman for about the last 3 years, lost my virginity about 7 years ago, and only ever went without being in a relationship/getting any for about a month at the most, and that was rarer than sh**.

No, there's nothing wrong with finding certain people unattractive and not wanting to be with them, but looks should never be the first priority or you'll only be disappointed at some point anyway.

No, the first priority should be if the girl can cook.

srs.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:10 pm

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almost there

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08 Oct 2012, 11:18 pm

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Dude, having a vagina doesn't automatically get you into the "i can get sex whenever I want" club. I knew a girl who didn't lose her virginity until she was like 26. She wasn't particularly ugly(although her boobs looked like flapjacks, but you wouldn't know that unless you saw her naked), and she wasn't fat. But she, like you, was shallow. She desperately wanted to get laid and have a relationship, but she kept going after the guys who wouldn't give her the time of day because she was only interested in "super hot" ones. She eventually went out with one she thought was "super hot," and lost her virginity to him, and he turned out to be a complete a**hole to her. He would bribe her with sex all the time and just generally treat her like sh**.

But hey, you don't have to listen to me. What the hell do I know? I've only been with a woman for about the last 3 years, lost my virginity about 7 years ago, and only ever went without being in a relationship/getting any for about a month at the most, and that was rarer than sh**.

EDIT: I think it's also important to note that the following is a picture of me, and I'm dead serious.

No, there's nothing wrong with finding certain people unattractive and not wanting to be with them, but looks should never be the first priority or you'll only be disappointed at some point anyway.

Would you find a grey, wrinkly old hag with saggy tits and skin attractive? I'm gonna go ahead and assume the answer is a big fat NO(because if it was a yes, you'd be pursuing that), so what happens when the attractive girl you want turns into that?

you found that picture online lol

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08 Oct 2012, 11:21 pm

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you found that picture online lol

and you completely missed the point.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:23 pm

MXH wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

DerStadtschutz wrote:

almost there

oh god, the approval from you I want so badly, so close....
:roll:

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08 Oct 2012, 11:25 pm

MXH wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

you found that picture online lol

and you completely missed the point.

If Im not mistaken he posted the higher quality/no ad version of that picture on the hot aspies thread a year ago or longer.
I dont question its him but I think its understandable to think that he is unsure where the original picture is(Im a bit of a photo geek and Id need to spend over an hour looking at an external drive to find a particular picture from last year, I dont want to think what could happen with those that dont even organise them in external drives and have them all over the computer...)

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08 Oct 2012, 11:26 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

DerStadtschutz wrote:

Dude, having a vagina doesn't automatically get you into the "i can get sex whenever I want" club. I knew a girl who didn't lose her virginity until she was like 26. She wasn't particularly ugly(although her boobs looked like flapjacks, but you wouldn't know that unless you saw her naked), and she wasn't fat. But she, like you, was shallow. She desperately wanted to get laid and have a relationship, but she kept going after the guys who wouldn't give her the time of day because she was only interested in "super hot" ones. She eventually went out with one she thought was "super hot," and lost her virginity to him, and he turned out to be a complete a**hole to her. He would bribe her with sex all the time and just generally treat her like sh**.

But hey, you don't have to listen to me. What the hell do I know? I've only been with a woman for about the last 3 years, lost my virginity about 7 years ago, and only ever went without being in a relationship/getting any for about a month at the most, and that was rarer than sh**.

EDIT: I think it's also important to note that the following is a picture of me, and I'm dead serious.

you found that picture online lol

No I didn't. I TOOK that picture and PUT it online 8 years ago. Okay, well TECHNICALLY I DID find it because I no longer have the original on any of my computers, but the fact that it's my picture remains.

Here's a few newer ones from the last several years:

Here's the most recent photo I have

And here's a picture of me at the age of 15 or 16...

Your move, shallow man.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:26 pm

i didn't miss any point... i know what was trying to be said and I stand by what I;ve said. The poster said that that was him which was bs. so don't tell me I missed the point.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:29 pm

wow I guess that really is you.By the tone of your posts it sounds like yo thin of yourself as the standard to what ugliness is...you should have higher self esteem man.

I am not shallow, I have standards. If you read my posts with a more open minded approach you would see that. You didnt though.

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08 Oct 2012, 11:31 pm

wow, ive been talking with a celebrity for all this time without knowing!

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08 Oct 2012, 11:33 pm

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nobody has said having standards or being shallow is bad. Weve all said that being an ass and thinking its justified is bad. And that petty pity excuses like "shes a girl she can just go get laid anytime" when you just called her monster ugly dont exactly work well for your cause

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08 Oct 2012, 11:35 pm

why dont i have any cool shots published. The only pic of me in a newspaper was when i was a newborn and dieing. which i know my mom had a copy and i saw it once but havent even heard of online

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