Probably because people assume that if you are 22 (or 30, as in your case) and never had a girlfriend, it means you do not have any of the qualities required for a relationship (whatever are those qualities). In other words, if nobody wanted you until now, you are probably not "relationship material".
In my case, however, I suspect it is just because I really am a bastard. I do not care about people and when I manage to make friends, my behavior towards them (weirdness, unfunny jokes, rudeness and, sometimes, trolling) is enough to make them avoid me. Also, I am not good at talking to people; my conversations are mostly monologues about my thoughts; no input is required from other person (and in fact, I talk to myself a lot).
You know the way I behave here on WrongPlanet? I behave exactly the same in real life. And there is your answer.
My point being: if you are still single after such a long time, you should pay attention to yourself and see if you are an evil bastard like me. If you are, either embrace it (and forget about other people) or try to change it (too difficult, but I think it is possible; I am just not interested anymore).
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DISCLAIMER: It should be noted that, while I strongly suspect I have Asperger's syndrome, I am not diagnosed. Nevertheless, my score on RAADS-R is 186, which makes me a pretty RAAD guy.
Sorry for this terrible joke, by the way.
02 Dec 2012, 10:06 am
