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FireyInspiration
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20 Jul 2014, 4:29 pm

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For Average people, It's luck and winging it.

You have to wing it and do sh*t. Don't sit at home.
You have to be lucky to be in the right place at the right time.

You can't compare different "varieties" of people. There are too many factors and options involved, the only clear conclusion is that good looking people are more generally appealing to the majority so they get higher visibility/attention/attracted parties.

I'm single, not because I'm average, fat, stupid, ugly and boring, it's because I don't put myself out there enough. The same applies for most average single people.


What might be the root of the problem is most aspies don't know how to put themselves out there in a socially acceptable way and either

A) Are oblivious and get turned down harshly because of it

or

B) Are aware of their awkwardness and are afraid to make a move due to fear of being judged, publically humiliated and labelled a creep or stalker



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20 Jul 2014, 4:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Every woman who had a sexual interest (not necessarily romantic) toward me had asked me online about my dick's size at some point (and shoe's size if offline) ie."how big it is?".

So tarantella, this isn't all illusion in men's heads.


8O



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20 Jul 2014, 4:38 pm

djw2398 wrote:
Ann2011 wrote:
Finding a mate is not equivalent to fighting for resources.


That's exactly what it is for men. It is one of the few things in modern day society that still is. Maybe you don't see it that way because of the gender roles in society (they are all fighting for you, you just try to look attractive to them).


fool, women are not resources. :roll:

we're people, not chattel.

if you think this way, you're not single because of being unattractive/unemployed/uneducated/ etc--you're single because you think of women as a "resource" you're trying to acquire. surprise surprise, many of us pick up on that pretty quickly.



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20 Jul 2014, 5:11 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Every woman who had a sexual interest (not necessarily romantic) toward me had asked me online about my dick's size at some point (and shoe's size if offline) ie."how big it is?".

So tarantella, this isn't all illusion in men's heads.


8O


Yes, but only those who wanted just fun, non-committed stuff, not the serious type.