hale_bopp wrote:
For Average people, It's luck and winging it.
You have to wing it and do sh*t. Don't sit at home.
You have to be lucky to be in the right place at the right time.
You can't compare different "varieties" of people. There are too many factors and options involved, the only clear conclusion is that good looking people are more generally appealing to the majority so they get higher visibility/attention/attracted parties.
I'm single, not because I'm average, fat, stupid, ugly and boring, it's because I don't put myself out there enough. The same applies for most average single people.
What might be the root of the problem is most aspies don't know how to put themselves out there in a socially acceptable way and either
A) Are oblivious and get turned down harshly because of it
or
B) Are aware of their awkwardness and are afraid to make a move due to fear of being judged, publically humiliated and labelled a creep or stalker