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rdos
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05 Dec 2015, 9:26 am

Earthling wrote:

^ The brain doesn't care about contraception.
It's not smart like that.

That's true but OTOH it is only the neurotypical human brain that is wired to use sex in the attachment process. No other animal species is wired like that, and animals only have sex and reproduce during breeding seasons.

Thus, the argument that having regular sex is related to reproduction is just bunk. It's not the primary function in neurotypical humans, rather the function is for attachment.

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05 Dec 2015, 9:38 am

Actually even certain monkey species apparently have sex for social purposes.

I find it most curious though that some people seem to switch partners quite a lot in a short amount of time without much attachment.

Your hypothesis is believeable, but I don't see why it's irrefuteable.

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05 Dec 2015, 12:06 pm

I think with my penis, not my brain.

huehuehue

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05 Dec 2015, 12:41 pm

If you want to be competitive, then use your brain.

Your penis will be grateful.

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05 Dec 2015, 12:48 pm

Fnord wrote:

It happens.

The more men a woman attracts, the greater her chances of attracting a good man. The more attractive she is, the more men she will attract. The more effort she puts in to being attractive, the more attractive she will be. The trick is to make yourself more attractive than any of the competition.

Now, none of these are hard-and-fast rules that apply everywhere and in every situation, but they are the way to bet. Also, you can swap or mix the genders any way you like, and the results will still be the same - the most attractive people have the most dating options, and that's just how it is.

They have the most dating options, the divorce and break up rates are no better though. People get bored of good looking people just the same. Not saying you don't know this already Fnord, but i was just thinking it.

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05 Dec 2015, 12:49 pm

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PrincessPumpkin wrote:

Love isn't a competition. Girls aren't trophies to be acquired.

Uhm yeah they are.

Dating is a game, it's a competition. And some people are born with "powerups" which gives them advantages in the game.

Dating is like an online multiplayer free for all game. You're one guy trying to compete with others guys to impress a girl. You have to convince her as to why she would consider you to be a dating partner whether that's through looks or appearance.

Dating also obviously has rules to the game. Like no slapping a hot girls ass (even if you really want to) or don't hit on girls who have boyfriends around, that's a rule right there.

Women are like trophies because you get trophies by winning 1st place in a competition and since dating is a competition and the prize is a girlfriend or getting f****d, this means you've won if you manage to score with a girl or get a girlfriend.

So your argument is invalid. Women are clearly trophies to be won.

I am sure there are plenty of women who would disagree and don't actually enjoy being objectified, so no that argument is not invalid actually. Some women might like to be seen as trophies....but there are probably a lot more than you think who don't based on this post.

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05 Dec 2015, 1:03 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:

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Your attitude carries over. You think of girls as tokens to be won, it comes across that way, even if you're trying not to let it.

No I think of girls as slots to put my token into.

Rule #161 in the Dating Game Rulebook, make girls think that you don't only care about getting inside their pants.

What until after you f*** them?

Eventually they'd discover that is all you cared about...when they either don't hear back from you after having had sex at least once, or you tell them you don't want to pursue anything further after more or less leading them on and having sex.

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05 Dec 2015, 1:17 pm

As long as you continue to objectify women as "trophies", you will continue to be rejected by choosy women.

Besides, everyone knows that to win a trophy, you have to play the game better than anyone else. If all you can do is complain about the competition, then you have already lost the game.

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05 Dec 2015, 2:24 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:

I think with my penis, not my brain.

huehuehue

Lonely, lonely penis.

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05 Dec 2015, 2:35 pm

Peacesells wrote:

darkphantomx1 wrote:

Ok let me set one thing straight.

I actually do care about the relationship part of girls. I'm one of those hopeless romantic types, I want someone whom I can talk to and be friends with and we really connect and get along.

Yes I know i'm a very horny guy who likes sex (who doesn't at my age? lol) But believe it or not, I care more about finding a relationship with a girl then simply just f*****g.

I want someone I can bond with and a girlfriend. If it means I have to wait before we do it, that's okay too. As long as i'm not dating one of those wait for marriage type of chicks. Then once she ready, she can ride all night lonnnnnnggggg. Nothing more beautiful then two lovers making love in my opinion.

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You also want to know how to pickup girls, don't be an as*hole like me. You see, the reason i'm undateable is because i'm unrelatable. You never see me trying to talk or connect with women. You know why? Because I suck at talking and I have no interest in forming connections. I just wanna f**k. Don't be like me. If you want a girlfriend, be a nice genuine guy who takes the time to talk to women and EVENTUALLY you will find a girl. I GUARANTEE YOU. If all you do is want to get inside a girls pants (like me) it's not going to workout.

Don't be like me. Be the nice genuine guy.

I'm probably gonna regret writing this a day from now. This is what sucks monkey nuts about Wrong Planet. You can't erase embarrassing posts after 30 minutes. Screw that stupid ass rule!

Ah, a liar and a hypocrite. It becomes more and more apparent why you are perpetually single. Seriously, seek therapy. You have very very unhealthy ideas about women. Get some help for that or remain the sort of guy that repulses women. It's up to you.

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05 Dec 2015, 3:32 pm

wilburforce wrote:

Peacesells wrote:

darkphantomx1 wrote:

Might be too late for help. 20 yrs is a lot for a brain to have marinated in seriously unhealthy ideas about women.

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05 Dec 2015, 4:07 pm

No i'm just a 20 year old who watches WAY too much porn.

I love a woman's body, I think it's the most beautiful thing on the planet. What's wrong with that?

I love it when a girl is horny too.

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05 Dec 2015, 4:45 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:

No i'm just a 20 year old who watches WAY too much porn.

I love a woman's body, I think it's the most beautiful thing on the planet. What's wrong with that?

I love it when a girl is horny too.

Sounds like you're just a 20year old male with high testosterone.

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05 Dec 2015, 5:00 pm

Drawyer wrote:

darkphantomx1 wrote:

No i'm just a 20 year old who watches WAY too much porn.

I love a woman's body, I think it's the most beautiful thing on the planet. What's wrong with that?

I love it when a girl is horny too.

Sounds like you're just a 20year old male with high testosterone.

What 20 year old male doesn't have high testosterone? That's when you're supposedly at your peak.

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05 Dec 2015, 5:01 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:

No i'm just a 20 year old who watches WAY too much porn.

I love a woman's body, I think it's the most beautiful thing on the planet. What's wrong with that?

I love it when a girl is horny too.

It's wrong that you want to illude a girl who wants a relationship only to use her for sex. There are girls that want casual sex without a relationship, you can go for them. I don't see why you want to go after a girl who wants a relationship and hurt her. It's because of guys like you that many women are jaded.

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05 Dec 2015, 5:07 pm

Peacesells wrote:

Nah I want more then just sex. Yes I know i'm a horny guy but I also want a companion, i'm lonely. I want not just a lover but a friend. I'd never treat a girl badly, that's not my style. I'd never cheat on a girl ever.

My longing for companionship is more powerful then my longing for sex.

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