13 Jun 2018, 9:02 pm
I'm a hopeless romantic in love with an avant garde one, wouldn't trade this mess for anything.
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14 Jun 2018, 1:03 am
cberg wrote:
Wherever you all say 
I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.
In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.
I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.
I am not saying it isn't the truth or that this is something strange or special that I have never seen before, I am just saying that this relationship is not healthy. Besides most of the time being an orbiter like that is NOT attractive.
The whole "I want to be her boyfriend but not now" sounds fake as well, everybody knows that if she asked you tomorrow morning you'd say yes. Just be sincere and drop down these "mature, selfless guy" poses (just like the "I don't care if I am friend or BF") because they are just poses and won't help you.
You are obviously not happy with the situation and given that you have posted 3 similar threads about this I would say that you are certainly thinking about it too much. You can be a friend without all this and my guess is that it would be a much saner friendship.
Edit: oh and also you still haven't responded to my question.
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14 Jun 2018, 2:26 am
Yeah, next time if you want a piece of advice please be a bit more honest - it's not like it's shameful to want to be her boyfriend 
intersexual/pansexual/hypersexual/hiposexual/quasisexual or whatever.
14 Jun 2018, 2:43 am
14 Jun 2018, 2:51 am
Kiprobalhato wrote:
any of this sound familiar?
boo?
boo?
you're talking to me? lol yes i suppose that there might be some uncanny similarity there
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14 Jun 2018, 3:20 am
Peacesells wrote:
cberg wrote:
Wherever you all say I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.
In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.
I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.
I am not saying it isn't the truth or that this is something strange or special that I have never seen before, I am just saying that this relationship is not healthy. Besides most of the time being an orbiter like that is NOT attractive.
The whole "I want to be her boyfriend but not now" sounds fake as well, everybody knows that if she asked you tomorrow morning you'd say yes. Just be sincere and drop down these "mature, selfless guy" poses (just like the "I don't care if I am friend or BF") because they are just poses and won't help you.
You are obviously not happy with the situation and given that you have posted 3 similar threads about this I would say that you are certainly thinking about it too much. You can be a friend without all this and my guess is that it would be a much saner friendship.
Edit: oh and also you still haven't responded to my question.
I totally agree with you.
Omg....look, a black hole is forming.
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14 Jun 2018, 3:22 am
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14 Jun 2018, 3:36 pm
Peacesells wrote:
cberg wrote:
Wherever you all say I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.
In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.
I'm sorry if reality seems like a b movie but truth is usually stranger than fiction & for me there's no telling what to think.In other words it's extremely difficult applying rules to something none of us seem to fully understand anyway.
I am not saying it isn't the truth or that this is something strange or special that I have never seen before, I am just saying that this relationship is not healthy. Besides most of the time being an orbiter like that is NOT attractive.
The whole "I want to be her boyfriend but not now" sounds fake as well, everybody knows that if she asked you tomorrow morning you'd say yes. Just be sincere and drop down these "mature, selfless guy" poses (just like the "I don't care if I am friend or BF") because they are just poses and won't help you.
You are obviously not happy with the situation and given that you have posted 3 similar threads about this I would say that you are certainly thinking about it too much. You can be a friend without all this and my guess is that it would be a much saner friendship.
Edit: oh and also you still haven't responded to my question.
Which question? I thought it was pretty clear that I'm trying to reciprocate her acceptance & do so in a very upfront manner.
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14 Jun 2018, 3:40 pm
Booyakasha wrote:
Yeah, next time if you want a piece of advice please be a bit more honest - it's not like it's shameful to want to be her boyfriend intersexual/pansexual/hypersexual/hiposexual/quasisexual or whatever.
intersexual/pansexual/hypersexual/hiposexual/quasisexual or whatever.There aren't really any words for what I'm seeking I guess. I suppose you're right it's not shameful but everything about someone like me loving anybody is taboo so I'm here trying to figure out what's really happening.
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14 Jun 2018, 4:01 pm
Booyakasha wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
any of this sound familiar?
boo?
boo?
you're talking to me? lol yes i suppose that there might be some uncanny similarity there
You actually have a story like this?
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14 Jun 2018, 4:05 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
any of this sound familiar?
boo?
boo?
***Cougghhhhnice**CougghhhGuy**Cougghhh***syn**Cougghh****farts****drome.
It's not fake man, there are some actual nice people in the world.
I started this thread to stop cynicism from monopolizing my life.
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14 Jun 2018, 5:45 pm
I mean if it were ethically even remotely fair to her I'd disappear but I feel some pretty big obligations to be at least available to her. I know it's best for now to stay out of the way but it's not really in me to forget someone who got closer to me than anyone else when I know she's got her own troubles.
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