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27 Jun 2018, 5:28 pm

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I don't see any hypocrisy in that, they are honest about what they want in a long term relationship and don't feel they are required to give it up.
This is why there are so many "I can't get a girlfriend" posts on this website -- guys with nothing to offer wanting beautiful women with lots to offer.
The same is true on the other side as well. I've seen girls less attractive than a bag of dirt say that if you can't pass for Chris Hemsworth, don't bother messaging them. So quit pretending this is a males-only problem.
Who said it was a males-only problem? Not I.
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They are not necessarily saying that some woman is a filthy whore because she is not a virgin...
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You don't know many religious fundamentalists, do you?
And we're back to the ad hominem attacks you love telling people not to use.
"Ad Hominem" means "Against the Man". Which man is being attacked with a statement about fundamentalism?


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27 Jun 2018, 5:30 pm

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I don't see any hypocrisy in that, they are honest about what they want in a long term relationship and don't feel they are required to give it up.
This is why there are so many "I can't get a girlfriend" posts on this website -- guys with nothing to offer wanting beautiful women with lots to offer.

The same is true on the other side as well. I've seen girls less attractive than a bag of dirt say that if you can't pass for Chris Hemsworth, don't bother messaging them. So quit pretending this is a males-only problem.

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They are not necessarily saying that some woman is a filthy whore because she is not a virgin...
You don't know many religious fundamentalists, do you?
And we're back to the ad hominem attacks you love telling people not to use.


Being overconfident in your own attractiveness and dating value is not exclusive to either sex. There are women who won't date a guy unless he makes a minimum salary of say $50,000 (when she is a high school drop out) and there are men who look something like Quasimoto but won't hear of dating a woman unless she looks like a Victoria's Secret Model. Both of them are 100% free to do what they want and it's no one's business. They are both misguided and likely headed for serious disappointment, but as long as they are adults, they can do what they want.


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27 Jun 2018, 5:31 pm

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Being overconfident in your own attractiveness and dating value is not exclusive to either sex. There are women who won't date a guy unless he makes a minimum salary of say $50,000 (when she is a high school drop out) and there are men who look something like Quasimoto but won't hear of dating a woman unless she looks like a Victoria's Secret Model. Both of them are 100% free to do what they want and it's no one's business. They are both misguided and likely headed for serious disappointment, but as long as they are adults, they can do what they want.
This, for the win!


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27 Jun 2018, 5:35 pm

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Being overconfident in your own attractiveness and dating value is not exclusive to either sex. There are women who won't date a guy unless he makes a minimum salary of say $50,000 (when she is a high school drop out) and there are men who look something like Quasimoto but won't hear of dating a woman unless she looks like a Victoria's Secret Model. Both of them are 100% free to do what they want and it's no one's business. They are both misguided and likely headed for serious disappointment, but as long as they are adults, they can do what they want.
This, for the win!


Now if I can only find me a lottery ticket. :D


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27 Jun 2018, 5:36 pm

You start a thread on women who only want high earners and I will definitely defend you.



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27 Jun 2018, 5:36 pm

Luhluhluh wrote:
Being overconfident in your own attractiveness and dating value is not exclusive to either sex. There are women who won't date a guy unless he makes a minimum salary of say $50,000 (when she is a high school drop out) and there are men who look something like Quasimoto but won't hear of dating a woman unless she looks like a Victoria's Secret Model. Both of them are 100% free to do what they want and it's no one's business. They are both misguided and likely headed for serious disappointment, but as long as they are adults, they can do what they want.

Exactly, but people want to pretend like it's this huge insurmountable problem where they're forced to bow to the whims of any misogynist who looks their way, despite knowing that they have every right to say no to any man they don't feel like dating.


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27 Jun 2018, 5:40 pm

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You start a thread on women who only want high earners and I will definitely defend you.
Who are you talking to?


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27 Jun 2018, 5:44 pm

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This is why there are so many "I can't get a girlfriend" posts on this website -- guys with nothing to offer wanting beautiful women with lots to offer.

I think most of the guys here would be happy enough with a woman in their same condition or even worse. But why would these women, if they can still get better and want better? It's just how things are.
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You don't know many religious fundamentalists, do you?

No, but it's not always religious fundamentalists. Besides, if they are Christian fundamentalists they are doing it wrong.
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The key word is "always". Again, read through those "I can't get a girlfriend" threads, and you'll see that this is exactly what some men believe -- to them, "I don't want to be with you" always means "You are a crappy person".

Well, sucks to be them.



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27 Jun 2018, 5:49 pm

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... read through those "I can't get a girlfriend" threads, and you'll see that this is exactly what some men believe -- to them, "I don't want to be with you" always means "You are a crappy person".
Well, sucks to be them.
Indeed.


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27 Jun 2018, 5:50 pm

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Being overconfident in your own attractiveness and dating value is not exclusive to either sex. There are women who won't date a guy unless he makes a minimum salary of say $50,000 (when she is a high school drop out) and there are men who look something like Quasimoto but won't hear of dating a woman unless she looks like a Victoria's Secret Model. Both of them are 100% free to do what they want and it's no one's business. They are both misguided and likely headed for serious disappointment, but as long as they are adults, they can do what they want.

Exactly, but people want to pretend like it's this huge insurmountable problem where they're forced to bow to the whims of any misogynist who looks their way, despite knowing that they have every right to say no to any man they don't feel like dating.


Ah I don't know, I took the original post as being more of a "point and laugh" thing, as in "look at these idiot guys wanting a virgin when they've slept with half of the county already and are probably a walking STD at this point."


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27 Jun 2018, 5:58 pm

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Hahahaha that's funny af that I'm sweating rejection. Married 32 years.

Awwwwww then it's not sad, it's very romantic! 8O



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27 Jun 2018, 6:19 pm

Me & my girlfriend were both virgins before we got together & had sex. Neither of us were exactly waiting till marriage but neither of us wanted sex outside of a serious romantic realtionship. I wasn't exactly wanting a virgin princess but iI was wanting a girl who would respect that I didn't want sex till we were serious.


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27 Jun 2018, 8:42 pm

Lulululu got it right. Just was making an observation type post.

I think we're all pretty much on the same page. Lively discussions are fun. You guys are great.



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28 Jun 2018, 1:17 am

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Need to check themselves....are they pure like St Joseph her most chaste spouse?
Some of them probably are. Those guys at r/incel demand their girlfriend be a virgin and most of the guys are virgin themselves. That still doesn't justify it though.


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28 Jun 2018, 7:47 pm

Retro that doesn't contribute in a positive way to this discussion. The topic isn't perverts.



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28 Jun 2018, 9:05 pm

HistoryGal wrote:
Retro that doesn't contribute in a positive way to this discussion. The topic isn't perverts.
Any guy who demands his partner be a virgin is probably an entitled pervert.

A lot of the guys who make such ridiculous demands are probably virgins themselves because no woman would want to go near them.


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