quite an extreme wrote:
TUF wrote:
Not the nicest thing to say to aspies but I like pretty boy body language too.
Wich kind?
There are some guys who like women who are either bisexual or just very much spice boys but straight (I had an ex like this, trying not to go into details here) who mince about like stereotypical gay boys... Feminine body language.
I know I can't get with them but I also like stereotypical gay boys.
If I were about 14 years younger, I'd be describing myself as non binary though, so I'm hardly typical of women. And I'm bisexual, mostly liking the ladies.
For English or American people... spice boys are the sort of boys who love their fashion and grooming more than women do. They're typically very feminine and unless you know for a fact they're straight, you don't assume it. But they still like women in that way. I think the right transatlantic word here is 'pretty boy'. No offence England but there are a heck of a lot of Essex boys like this, David Beckham is just one of them. Some of them are approaching 40 or so but it's still hard to call them men because of all the masculine connotations that 'man' carries.
And if you want what I mean in concrete, aspie friendly examples, I mean things like hands on hips, walking in a single curved line not a double straight line, tiptoeing etc. Somewhere between woman and cat.