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28 Jan 2020, 10:47 am
Glad you've blocked him, kitty. I've got 5 supposed "Army guys" currently on my Friends Request list on FB, and you soon learn they're identity thiefs through their approach and their pages ... I wouldn't go on a dating site if you paid me a kajillion dollars 
... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...
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29 Jan 2020, 5:41 pm
Juliette wrote:
Glad you've blocked him, kitty. I've got 5 supposed "Army guys" currently on my Friends Request list on FB, and you soon learn they're identity thiefs through their approach and their pages ... I wouldn't go on a dating site if you paid me a kajillion dollars ... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...
... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...I get creeps too on my Facebook messenger & Instagram, I get alot of fakes pretending to be Bryan Adams, my fave singer.
29 Jan 2020, 6:11 pm
29 Jan 2020, 6:49 pm
Kitty4670 wrote:
Juliette wrote:
Glad you've blocked him, kitty. I've got 5 supposed "Army guys" currently on my Friends Request list on FB, and you soon learn they're identity thiefs through their approach and their pages ... I wouldn't go on a dating site if you paid me a kajillion dollars ... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...
... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...please just be careful , even in real life , it seriously appears aspie types are generally diserable as targets.... And the odds of NT and them being a narcissitic or psychopath are not in favour of the aspie population as a whole. And have met both men and women that fall under these headings , more intelligent you are , academically. Or think you are safe and can identify these types . Think at least in my experience . The more of a target you become. And i just by virtue of good circumstances .. Figured was almost outrageouslly successful . Given where , i could be. Am now considering abandoning my life .. potentially .
due to dealing with sucha regular ongoing experiences with predators .
Am talking seperate circumstances people suppose to be neighbors or relations . over 1800 miles apart . people study your patterns never workingalone.
looting breakins , ongoing ,, victim of homicide , am good at higher level of electronic security now.. but if they get to learn you .. then ... not good.
used to be able to survive on my own... sorry to sound poorly,, but just be careful. Now am finding out police records are based on correct spelling and birthday..if one letter off .. they think seperate person. Done searches on people .. Just alittle less willing to take risks anymore. been on one sight listserv .know for a fact one person using 11 different names even seperate email addys ... even waiting name to expire if person not on regular and uses them.. funny thing , she cant make them all write at one time , within a certain time frame , so three will be lurking. if your the target... she can use IRC to watch what you might write in different rooms , The net is best and worst thing. Wish could say nicer stuff , but reality can be a bear.
I get creeps too on my Facebook messenger & Instagram, I get alot of fakes pretending to be Bryan Adams, my fave singer.
29 Jan 2020, 7:37 pm
Kitty4670 wrote:
Juliette wrote:
Glad you've blocked him, kitty. I've got 5 supposed "Army guys" currently on my Friends Request list on FB, and you soon learn they're identity thiefs through their approach and their pages ... I wouldn't go on a dating site if you paid me a kajillion dollars ... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...
... way too many fraudsters, criminals and I've heard from guys first hand what their "friends" do in regard choosing women. It's a joke or competition for quite a few on there...I get creeps too on my Facebook messenger & Instagram, I get alot of fakes pretending to be Bryan Adams, my fave singer.
Quite a few stories I could tell, that are kind of shocking, but we're living in the age of the internet, and unfortunately, it seems to go with the territory. Things must have been so much easier for people who lived say, when our parents were young and dating. My parents met at a dancehall, for example. No internet back then. No matter what you do, even meeting someone in real life, through College/Uni, shared interests, clubs or whatever, it always involves a leap of faith, and even trusting your instincts can fail, if the person is clever at putting on a persona. All I can say kitty, is all the best and as Jakki said, please keep yourself safe. My older sister(diagnosed HFA) had no problems at all attracting boyfriends, and being vulnerable, wound up in relationships with some, who were the worst kind! You really do have to keep your wits about you. I won't even bring my own experiences into this, as I doubt it would help.
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