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Is it easy for you to start relationships
Yes 7%  7%  [ 9 ]
Yes 7%  7%  [ 9 ]
no 37%  37%  [ 47 ]
no 37%  37%  [ 47 ]
dunno, never tried 6%  6%  [ 7 ]
dunno, never tried 6%  6%  [ 7 ]
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26 Jul 2005, 9:54 am

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It is too hard. Why can't the world be logical and fair?


That is illogical, Captain. :P

Okay... How is my idea illogical?


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26 Jul 2005, 9:57 am

Malcolm_Scipo wrote:
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It is too hard. Why can't the world be logical and fair?


That is illogical, Captain. :P

Okay... How is my idea illogical?


Because the world isn't run by people with AS, silly.


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26 Jul 2005, 9:59 am

If it was, it would be the people without AS who would have this problem. (and all the others we have)


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26 Jul 2005, 10:15 am

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If it was, it would be the people without AS who would have this problem. (and all the others we have)


HA!! ! And wouldn't that be just desserts, eh? :twisted:


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26 Jul 2005, 10:46 am

No, because it would mean that we're just as bad as the people who put us down. But we'd be living the happier life. Just more evidence that people with AS aren't really ret*d, just different.

And it does interest me to think what the world would be like if that was the case.


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26 Jul 2005, 4:22 pm

Oh well. I do not know if I have screwed up. But I hope this one girl replies to an e-mail.....


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19 Nov 2012, 6:34 pm

OH, yeah. Extremely hard for me, because I almost always f**k up. Ppl say I seem extremely judgmental to them.


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19 Nov 2012, 6:39 pm

softkitty I get told the same thing. f**k them. Their loss.



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20 Nov 2012, 6:14 am

Nope, and it's only going to get worse due to my co conditions.

I am not exactly going to die or anything, I just feel like my mind is slowly losing itself to insanity...or perhaps even a point where I won't even talk to my family any more in the house.


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20 Nov 2012, 6:31 am

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softkitty I get told the same thing. f**k them. Their loss.


Thanks, girl. :wink:


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20 Nov 2012, 6:35 am

Never had a girlfriend before, so no. It's really difficult for me.



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20 Nov 2012, 6:29 pm

This is the battle I have been fighting my whole life.

I am good once I'm in a relationship (in fact, it's pretty easy for me), but getting it started is like walking blindfolded in a minefield.

The worst part about it is the lack of feedback.

You see, the way women "let us go" is typically by not responding. They just stop answering their phone, email, etc.

So, as a result, we never learn what we do wrong, and cannot correct it!! :( :( :(

We're left in the dark, left with the choice to either wildly guess next time around or repeat the mistakes we made, over and over again.



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20 Nov 2012, 6:41 pm

Searching for someone suitable is the difficult part, but once the relationship is established, everything on my part is ok, but it's usually the other person that's ruined them (cheating, asexuality, etc.)


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20 Nov 2012, 7:28 pm

My longest relationship lasted a month. Every girl I've dated turned out to be complete nutcases even to the point she was trying to get me in FBI radar. It's not the relationship that's the problem, it's the individual who could kill me in my sleep. o.O


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05 Dec 2012, 4:40 pm

obviously no



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05 Dec 2012, 4:57 pm

I always get it wrong.I have a history of zigging when I should have zagged. Perhaps the right woman for me will stay in the game even if I make my historic blunder/wrong move.