[25+ Age] L & D Forums for High-Functioning Adult AS?

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Well, I'm going to stop posting and ask the moderators to delete your post or remove this thread.

I'm not going to be party to your desire to list their personal problems and invite me to rate them "Teen/Low I.Q."

The OP isn't directly about love, but it IS about the talking/discussing of love/relations(hips). It's very much in the correct forum.

You already know you're different from NT's. Then, given that "once you've met one autie, you've met exactly one autie", it's a simple deduction that how you view/read things are dissimilar to the how someone else might view them. You are after all an identity/person different from ehphemerella, so don't assume that your way of approaching the world is the same as others.

My personal count of the "M" topics is lower than yours; it's impossible to do a M/T classification for someone else without knowing about all past experiences of the reader, or their character (though you might glimpse a part of that on this forum, once you learn to see how to create a personallity based on words/style/topics/ideas; and sorry i can't explain how to do that, it's something i picked up while playing with different writingstyles).

Anyway, perception is a big deal. Don't pretend to be able to impress your perception on people who view or handle things differently. You hate it when you have to deal with that, so; why would you do it to others?


To ephemerella
I think i understand what you were trying to say, even though i don't agree with the exact wording. I really enjoy reading your posts. Enjoy, because when I start I already know it'll be interesting, wether or not i agree with it doesn't matter to me, it's thoughtprovoking or hints at things i feel i should know (of/about/intimately). If you move to another forum, please shoot me a PM where it's at, because it'd be a sad thing to see posts like yours disappear.

It sounds that you are scared ...from what you are afraid of? You are afraid that me and Zane had exposed you? Can't you take the responsibility of what you wrote? and now you want to delete all of it?

tsk tsk ...doesn't even sound too mature to me.

Word.

Last edited by LePetitPrince on 24 Dec 2008, 6:31 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I have no problem with criticism but when someone appoints themselves to be thought police, because they can't stand my view, that's a little different than my not liking their posts. When I'm attacked by defenders-of-the-young-male-AS-republic, that goes beyond simple constructive contribution and becomes lame dim-bulb aggression.

Well, maybe you can interpret my post as a desire to get my own needs met without having to constantly be told how I'm offending the virgins or stepping on male feelings or generalizing NT traits or other attacks, that seem to exceed the scope of simple criticism and go into trolling behavior.

:exploaded:

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Do you understand that what I want deleted is your list rating people's personal problems and ideas with "Teen/Low-IQ" ratings? Do you not understand that?

You should be able to understand that from a previous post if you read at a high school level.

CW, you're the best.

I am not offended at your post, I've never been offended at anything you have posted.

I am asking LPP to remove his/her list of people's problems and rating them in a demeaning way.

No, I am not understanding that, I am still a Petit bacterial creature floating on some swamp.

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Last edited by Zane on 27 Dec 2008, 12:52 am, edited 1 time in total.

Ok, something was really wrong with the site for a minute - couldn't type, couldn't post, wanted to respond to this but couldn't.

I think the problem your running into is this - you can't walk above the fray by any other means than ignoring it. The second you criticize and speak down, whether its earned or not, that opens two way criticism. You have to kind of expect it, otherwise its like thinking you'll have your cake and eat it too. When you launch criticism of the general thought process here, you also have to deal with everyone's interpretation of your thoughts and feelings being lobbed right back at you.

I've had similar thoughts at times but, just like in the world of politics, where everyone has a different take even on fundamental reality, its almost a zero sum game and a pained waste of effort most of the time. Sure, if some thought or idea gets me riled enough I'll run my mouth a bit but I do anticipate that anything I let myself get cathartic on will get just as much heat in the other direction.

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I have a problem with stalkers and bullies and your behavior has become inappropriate.

Why are you engaging in this trolling behavior? Why are you pretending to be female and falsely advertising to be "Feminist" when you are a male from the Middle East? Why are you engaging in this lurid attacking behavior, after I complained of sexism? Does the Internet give you an opportunity to log onto Western boards and harass and stalk feminist posters?

Can you explain [url=http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp1941659.html&highlight=#1941659
]this previous post, involving you, please?[/b]



What are you doing and why are you attacking feminist posters?

:Censored:

Last edited by Zane on 30 Dec 2008, 7:03 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I'll put it this way, your reputation here no doubt is still in fair enough standing but you have to realize that its an exercise in patience and temperence when dealing with these sorts of things.

Personally I'm looking forward to reading some of the topics you want to post, I'm hoping you don't jet out of here on a forum topic that went sideways.

Could you then perhaps give a constructive criticism, instead of failing at trying to ellicit an angry response or riling someone up?

You could have argued why her position is wrong. Instead you're just doing a classical and uncreative "No you!" counter without any substance. Your reply is one string of chained presumptions, as the startingpoint is wrong. You focused on a phrase in the post, even pulled it out of context to support a reply that tries to distort the context of the actual discussion.

You seem to behave according to the role/stereotype that Ephemeralla had in her mind when making her post. By argueing in your current manner you are doing nothing but reinforcing a believe. An argument, no matter how profound, is useless when presented incorrectly. If you read her posts correctly you could have deduced that tactic by now.

(The Pepsi One-calorie advertising should be a great example of that).

Tsk tsk, Stalker? Troll? bully? those are dangerous accusations , you need to show evidences and proofs about those.


Btw, ttqs84 is the one who sent me a PM first, the PM that I was talking about is a reply to her original PM.

She is the one who initiated the PM conversation with me and there's no stalking about the whole matter.


As about why my profile says 'female":

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