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02 Apr 2025, 5:08 am

I think I'd rather be breadcrumbed than lovebombed

At least with breadcrumbing you have time to process what's happening

With lovebombing it's literally like keep getting hit over the head and you just don't have time to recover from the last blow and it doesn't feel good either because it isn't actually love. It's control

But in any case I'd rather not experience either


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02 Apr 2025, 6:23 am

The Alien doesn't understand being loved


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02 Apr 2025, 7:20 am

babybird wrote:
:lol: ^ FFS

I can quite honestly say that flirting has never been an issue in my life to date

I'm seriously blind to it
I don't notice it and to my knowledge I don't do it
Things just happen spontaneously :lol:
I think I'm more animal than human sometimes me


bb the animal - I like the sound of this. :lol:


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02 Apr 2025, 11:19 am

I've never read a Mills and Boon in my life and nor would I want to


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02 Apr 2025, 2:54 pm

So unless you snag rolling past a door handle you're depriving the world of some bodice-ripping?



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03 Apr 2025, 8:56 am

I'm taking it all that has something to do with mills and boon


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03 Apr 2025, 3:00 pm

You've never heard a romance novel called a bodice ripper before?



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03 Apr 2025, 3:04 pm

No


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04 Apr 2025, 1:36 am

Smalltalksmalltalksmalltalksmalltalk
Next time someone around my age compliments me or tries to chat with me i need to respond with more than just 2 words.

Bro i got a triple-compliment from someone my age today and just said thank you again :skull: i ain’t quick enough to do a compliment back cuz i want the compliment to be genuine

Doesn’t even have to be flirting and turn into a date/relationship, even just a more local friend would be nice so it’d be easier to hang out with them


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04 Apr 2025, 2:43 pm

PineappleLobster wrote:
Smalltalksmalltalksmalltalksmalltalk
Next time someone around my age compliments me or tries to chat with me i need to respond with more than just 2 words.

Bro i got a triple-compliment from someone my age today and just said thank you again :skull: i ain’t quick enough to do a compliment back cuz i want the compliment to be genuine

Doesn’t even have to be flirting and turn into a date/relationship, even just a more local friend would be nice so it’d be easier to hang out with them

Next time it happens, maybe try asking them a quick question back? Like “you always this smooth?” or even “where’d you get that shirt btw?” since it keeps it going without feeling forced


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06 Apr 2025, 6:18 pm

I'm still not used to kissing my boyfriend. It's weird and I feel like I do it wrong every time. Maybe I just am nervous because he's older and more experienced, and he's the only person I've properly kissed. I do like doing it, but it also feels very unnatural.



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06 Apr 2025, 6:31 pm

babybird wrote:
The Alien doesn't understand being loved


I :heart: the alien.


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07 Apr 2025, 5:06 pm

My boyfriend keeps making me embarrassed at work by getting my attention while he's working to show off and doing stuff like wiggling his eyebrows at me like a massive dork. :oops:



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08 Apr 2025, 4:53 am

funeralxempire wrote:
babybird wrote:
The Alien doesn't understand being loved


I :heart: the alien.


Yay


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15 Apr 2025, 5:30 am

I see no point in it for some time already (keeping it in case finally somebody nice appears), but I think to finally give up on dating sites. People here either look for sponsorship/sex or have their profiles to just exist; They show literally no interest in talking with you, even if *they* start. A lot of profiles are abandoned or haven't set age so I see grandmas as "16yr olds".

Also service I use transformed from already bad website to a terrible (and sooo bloated) web crapp and more and more of basic features are put behind a paywall. I understand they have to earn somehow, but maybe then just go with some non-tracking ads and sell subscription to remove them? Or make service itself paid, under sane prices? Latter definitely would help getting rid of time-wasters and abandoned profiles


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19 Apr 2025, 7:15 pm

I mailed a letter to a potential new girlfriend earlier today.


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