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03 Oct 2015, 4:45 pm

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I am little "jerk" at that, when I realize the relationship will be too much hassle from the start (ie. single mother with toddler children or there will be distance soon...etc) I tell them to keep it casual , FWB and nothing more.

I think in such a case it'd be best to exclude the sexual component of the friendship, if they fall for you I mean.


Things starts with the sexual component and totally mutual....but if I go "Totally selfish-less Nice Guy" and just reject sex for the sake of friendship and not to potentially hurt someone.... then how do I get sex then, eh? From escorts so I catch some nasty STD? -_- No thanks.



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03 Oct 2015, 4:55 pm

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Things starts with the sexual component and totally mutual....but if I go "Totally selfish-less Nice Guy" and just reject sex for the sake of friendship and not to potentially hurt someone.... then how do I get sex then, eh? From escorts so I catch some nasty STD? -_- No thanks.

There's always doing the decent thing and using your hand...if not for the other person, the for the sake of humanity itself.

I'm amazed this thread has gone on for 40 pages, someone should call someone Hitler already so it can die.

Edit: grammar.



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03 Oct 2015, 4:56 pm

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I am little "jerk" at that, when I realize the relationship will be too much hassle from the start (ie. single mother with toddler children or there will be distance soon...etc) I tell them to keep it casual , FWB and nothing more.

I think in such a case it'd be best to exclude the sexual component of the friendship, if they fall for you I mean.


Things starts with the sexual component and totally mutual....but if I go "Totally selfish-less Nice Guy" and just reject sex for the sake of friendship and not to potentially hurt someone.... then how do I get sex then, eh? From escorts so I catch some nasty STD? -_- No thanks.

Well if she's in love with you and you reject her it's pretty low to keep having sex with her imho, it probably won't be good for her and you know it. The fact that you don't know how to get sex otherwise doesn't mean that it is a good thing to do.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:26 pm

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Things starts with the sexual component and totally mutual....but if I go "Totally selfish-less Nice Guy" and just reject sex for the sake of friendship and not to potentially hurt someone.... then how do I get sex then, eh? From escorts so I catch some nasty STD? -_- No thanks.

There's always doing the decent thing and using your hand...if not for the other person, the for the sake of humanity itself.

I'm amazed this thread has gone on for 40 pages, someone should call someone Hitler already so it can die.

Edit: grammar.


and why having consent casual sex with an adult who is willing to have casual sex too would be indecent?

And no, not all of them fall in love - some can separate sex from love but it's a risk that might happen - it happened before but it wasn't my fault, I was honest all along from the start.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:28 pm

sunflower, I never did that (keep having sex after rejecting).



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03 Oct 2015, 5:29 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Things starts with the sexual component and totally mutual....but if I go "Totally selfish-less Nice Guy" and just reject sex for the sake of friendship and not to potentially hurt someone.... then how do I get sex then, eh? From escorts so I catch some nasty STD? -_- No thanks.

There's always doing the decent thing and using your hand...if not for the other person, the for the sake of humanity itself.

I'm amazed this thread has gone on for 40 pages, someone should call someone Hitler already so it can die.

Edit: grammar.


and why having consent casual sex with an adult who is willing to have casual sex too would be indecent?

And no, not all of them fall in love - some can separate sex from love but it's a risk that might happen - it happened before but it wasn't my fault, I was honest all along from the start.

Pregnancy. I'm against human procreation, at least for the next two decades. The herd is getting way too large.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:31 pm

^^^
Duh... -_-

I am very careful in that regard.

Why I am getting captcha every time I try to quote someone?



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03 Oct 2015, 5:33 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^^^
Duh... -_-

I am very careful in that regard.

Why I am getting captcha every time I try to quote someone?

Cloudflare is female, that's why.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:35 pm

She's probably katy.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:37 pm

All I know is that it has in ports and not out ports.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:38 pm

Yippy will come after you and calls you sexist for objectifying female genitalia.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:41 pm

I don't go around starting fights with women, nor reducing them to mere sexual objects, I think I'll be ok. Besides if I was objectifying anything it was software-- that's just irony.



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03 Oct 2015, 5:47 pm

You associated "in ports" to vagina, so you are associating an object to vagina...objectifying :P



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03 Oct 2015, 5:54 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You associated "in ports" to vagina, so you are associating an object to vagina...objectifying :P

You got that mixed up in the second part-- I'm assigning an object to a port, which is not a physical object.



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03 Oct 2015, 6:20 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
sunflower, I never did that (keep having sex after rejecting).

It doesn't matter if you did or not, in the last post you seemed to be open to it so I just wanted to say my opinion. I'm happy though that you're not into such things. :)
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am very careful in that regard.
Why I am getting captcha every time I try to quote someone?

Apparently you're not the only one concerned about safety. :P



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03 Oct 2015, 6:49 pm

Aristophanes wrote:
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You associated "in ports" to vagina, so you are associating an object to vagina...objectifying :P

You got that mixed up in the second part-- I'm assigning an object to a port, which is not a physical object.


You associated Cloudflare's gender to female, because you associated its "in ports" to vagina.

:P