I'm a single aspie girl!! Look at me!!
Im glad you enjoyed your meet up with the lads, hope they were not too badly behaved!! Ive often wondered what ryan was like in real life, Tom says he was really nice.
For all the mens info, Smudge is very nice and very pretty with big almond shaped eyes.
Aww, cheers! I think you're pretty too. Yes, Ryan was great! Are you going to that Aspie Village meetup in August, or aren't you bothering with them anymore? I just hope that guy who threatened to sue me, doesn't go.
who threatened to sue you???
No Dean closed my AV account so I cant go to any meet ups on there now, I dont think I would want to though as I have so much bad feeling to the mods there, I spent so long on the mod-queue it was unbeleivable! and the worst bit is you cant say your on the queue or edit your posts and cant fight back if people say anything you dont agree with (as they just stop the post going through) it was so maddening I couldnt take it any more.
Im not sure about meet ups anymore I get fed up at snipes from people, they really piss me off being so critical. I might do a MK meet up one day, but one here (wp not av) as that avoids most of the douche bags lol!
No Dean closed my AV account so I cant go to any meet ups on there now, I dont think I would want to though as I have so much bad feeling to the mods there, I spent so long on the mod-queue it was unbeleivable! and the worst bit is you cant say your on the queue or edit your posts and cant fight back if people say anything you dont agree with (as they just stop the post going through) it was so maddening I couldnt take it any more.
Im not sure about meet ups anymore I get fed up at snipes from people, they really piss me off being so critical. I might do a MK meet up one day, but one here as that avoids most of the douche bags lol!
Yeh, I know. I remember that meetup I held in Leicester. People were horrible to me about that. I'm gonna go to the AV meet I think cos it looks like a lot of people are going. How long does MK take on the train from London?
The guy who threatened to sue me...was the guy who left AV the same time as you. I think you both got into an argument.
Why were you on the mod que?
Compared to some of the twats we have had on AV you were hardly a disruptive character. Hell they tolerated a flame-baiting, ad hominem spouting uber troll of the bottom depths of internet retardation on the site for over 2 years when other sites would have just banned them from the first bat.
Why were you on the mod que?
Compared to some of the twats we have had on AV you were hardly a disruptive character. Hell they tolerated a flame-baiting, ad hominem spouting uber troll of the bottom depths of internet retardation on the site for over 2 years when other sites would have just banned them from the first bat.
I got put on the mod queue for arguing with nessas bf about him sending me harrassing pm's, another time for posting about sex toys and another time for saying I was cross with threads made about me. Tom said he thought someone in the mods diddnt like me and was picking on me as the reasons were unreasonable and they gave me no warnings or anything.
No Dean closed my AV account so I cant go to any meet ups on there now, I dont think I would want to though as I have so much bad feeling to the mods there, I spent so long on the mod-queue it was unbeleivable! and the worst bit is you cant say your on the queue or edit your posts and cant fight back if people say anything you dont agree with (as they just stop the post going through) it was so maddening I couldnt take it any more.
Im not sure about meet ups anymore I get fed up at snipes from people, they really piss me off being so critical. I might do a MK meet up one day, but one here as that avoids most of the douche bags lol!
Yeh, I know. I remember that meetup I held in Leicester. People were horrible to me about that. I'm gonna go to the AV meet I think cos it looks like a lot of people are going. How long does MK take on the train from London?
The guy who threatened to sue me...was the guy who left AV the same time as you. I think you both got into an argument.
it takes half an hour on the fast train (virgin), and hour on the slow train (london midlands) and costs between £14 and £25 depending on time of day.
yes he is a complete tosser, I hate him very strongly! Dont blame you for not wanting to go to meet ups where he is!! !
I thought maybe someone didn't like Tom either, cos he's on the mod queue isn't he? I didn't think he did anything terrible either.
I thought maybe someone didn't like Tom either, cos he's on the mod queue isn't he? I didn't think he did anything terrible either.
he was already on a warning for posting 'sexy' pictures/sites so got put on the queue for makeing jibes at me, but he kept trying to post 'unauthorised' threads so they said he has to stay on the queue for months. dean says he doesnt like Tom, views him as a trouble maker, but Judy adores Tom so it ballances out. Im glad to be out of all that crap!!
Amateur moderation, it's always been the biggest flaw of the site.
Take action on trivial matters. Tolerate outright bullying and harassment.
I don't really blame you for leaving this is the exactly the same reasons firecrest left the site.
The whole moderation team is hardly transparent i don't even know how you go about being a moderator on there. I did ask andrew, dean and co again and again to make me a moderator as i'd had experiance of moderating larger forums (not AS related) unlike judy n co. Hell I can actually understand why someone would percieve there is some kind of cliche going on there, though im not quite paranoid enough to start creating wild conspiracy theories and outright tantrums of dementia, I leave the crowned champ nessie for that.
i think they have not got much sympathy for trouble makers. often aspies online can be volatile because they are going through a hard time. i remember years back me being agitating on here and the mods deleted my post, but PMed me not to attack me but chat about why i was down. i dont feel they can really care about such, not because they are bad people, just because thats the way they are, a bit closed in. there are some mods i dont feel i could go with a problem, not because they are bad people, i just think that they are a bit too funny and childlike to relate to me. i am childlike too but they just seem like they cant cope with problems, or sorting things out with people.
i remember years ago i had been fighting on AV and made angry posts. i met one of the site owners in real life and tried to apologise to him about it, and he just smiled nervously and changed the subject.
Tom, for as far as I've known him - is a decent guy. And, for as far as I've known Lotusblossom, she seems to me very caring. You can't automatically assume your friend is never the one in the wrong. I'm referring to this thread - http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt133604.html I think that accusation of Tom following LB's posts is a bit far fetched.
Today was bizzare (the meetup). In fact the whole weekend was bizzare. Me and Mike were talking about the "law of attraction" and he said he keeps getting things he visualises or focuses on appearing in his life. So I said ok, I will visualise a heron really hard. I like herons and I want to see one on the way to Kam's house. Then we drove past a lake and mike said he saw one, but i missed it. He then told me that he heard some show about people who do it visualising dollar coins and they appear on the pavement.
When we got to leic we had to hang around waiting for Kam, we walked round some old factories and peeped into a temple and watched through an open door a hindu ceremony with women chanting and topless men with all paint around them carrying lamps to al these statues. Then we went to the pub, it is one of those pubs where loads of asian men play cards and sing together with no women. They were friendly to us and showed us round, definatly a mans only pub. Then Kam turned up and he was saying "sorry chaps im so sorry you had to wait in this dump" and we said its ok we like it here, and he was like "im so ashamed of this dump". (he hates indian things and down to earth places and only likes posh showing off bars).
So that night kam went on at us about the "law of attraction" and how it would make him rich, as he loves it all. I said that I didnt get why he had to be rich, cant he just be down to earth and happy. But he said money is everything. He is always so harrassed and depressed as a cop. Then I saw he had a load of little pictures of cop things on his wall to visualise staying a cop. One of them was some dead body of a killed woman, i said kam if law of attraction is true it cant do you good to see that every night as you sleep. (another pic was riot cops beating some people up). Kam said ok it might be a bit negative. I said at least get rid of this and threw the body pic in the bin.
We drank loads and that night i slept on kams floor, i had a horrible nightmare where i was trapped in a room breaking a door to get out. Then i woke up and i was banging on the window with Kam pulling me back and i had knocked stuff over. it was so bizzare.
anyway the next morning we 3 went to iron bridge to see the famous bridge. While having breakfast I said, ok I will use my Law Of Attraction powers to manifest kam a wife today. Kam will be chatted up by a partner today. I was half joking but i did visualise it.
We had a nice walk round iron bridge but Kams behaviour was really bizzare, he found some women on an RSPB stall by the bridge and started going on at her about the bridge not being iron enough and having too much stone in it. As if he was scolding her for it and grilling her why. then we had a drink in a brewery, the old lady and her daughter who ran the business gave us a free sample of their home made ale, and kam was really rude to them and said it tasted horrible and too sharp. I dont think he knew it was rude though and they seemed shocked but took it well.
Anyway with our time up in iron bridge we got back to brum earlier than expected and decided to gate-crash the aspie meetup! There were loads of people there, 15 including us and Kam loved meeting them all. it was much more enjoyable not running it or worrying and leaving that stuff to the new master Long-B.
Trekster and Philip seemed more loud and funny than usual. with their big laughs and funny voices. though trekster was very kind helping us find toilets so i dont want to slag her off. but then...her and Kam got together! She told me she was chatting him up, the next thing they were holding hands and proffessing love. Well i was really chuffed as i did not expect my "manifesting" to work but by coincidence or whatever, Kam had a partner. I never saw the £5 note i visualised though, or the heron Mike saw. we had enough of the big crowd so the 4 of us (with alexis) went off for a drink, me and Mike left them alone. kam seemed very chuffed, such a full and bizzare few days,
Kam and Trekster
Well I can't say its a miss match to be fair there actually quite similair on some levels in terms of literal thinking and theory of mind issues.
What you see is what you get with both of them. I do value that trait of such raw honesty, it comes at great personal cost in terms of the hardships they have both faced in getting anywhere in life. But that doesn't detract from the fact that such a trait is quite a likeable asset.
To be fair to Kam there are some real ales that literally do taste like piss. It's down to personal preferance with real ale.
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