Adult virgins=Losers?

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Your gay, so you don't have a problem getting laid. So for you to say something like "your a looser if you don't get laid by the age of 40" stresses your hypocracy. Because you said you seen things from "absolutely every standpoint". You can't see it from our stand point, people in the homosexual community are alot more willing to engage in sexual activity more premiscuously than heterosexual females. I know because my brother is bisexual. So if that isn't calling your hypocracy I give up then.

And I have no problem with gays, I'm just making a logical statement.

Bi, actually.

I never said "every standpoint", I just said an "outside standpoint." That is, the standpoint of a consciousness of unfamiliar design whose (self-assigned) role is to observe and judge.

you said: "Has it never occured to you that some of us observe *absolutely everything*".

What gives you the right to judge people? Your certainly no better than anyone else here. Judge me if you like, I could care less... Just keep the verdict to yourself please.

my point exactly. The fact that I'm no better than anyone else here is what gives me the right to judge: I'm not weighed down by any kind of superior power or anything. I can judge because I'm *at the same level* as those I judge.

Everything within and around the observer, which is "absolutely everything" to the consciousness of said observer, yes. At any moment, someone may throw in information that completely alters that observer's perception of reality, but so far I've yet to see that happen to me.

Your opinion don't count to much, your bi so you can get a dude to bed about as easy as a woman can get a straight man. So for you to say people are loosers because we're forced to grow old alone, I find that an offensive statement. Hopefully I won't have to be one of those people, but your attitude doesn't seem very conducive here, now does it?

Uh one problem with your reasoning... I do agree that while many homosexual men are promiscuous, (this is just going from my experience, I don't know if that is universal), there are far fewer gay/bi men than there are straight men. So the fact that Yupa is bisexual does not mean that he has vastly improved chances of 'scoring'.

Also, I would assume that the social difficulties inherent in those with AS are just as much an obstacle to sexual relations for the bisexual just as much as the heterosexual. Having a greater selection of potential mates doesn't necessarily compensate for that.

Wrong. It's much easier to get sex with a bi- or homosexual male, despite the fact that there are much less bi- or homosexual males than hetero/bisexual women and also, and this is very interesting, despite the fact that you're an aspie!

I'm heterosexual myself, but I would not have much trouble with getting sex with a bi/homosexual man if I wanted to. Gay men have tried to get me laid and I have even been offered a role as an actor in a gay porn movie(!)

For me this just confirms what I've already stated in many threads upon this topic: NT women are evil, mean, narrowminded and narcissistic b*****s, and they deserve all evil they can get.

I think I might have missed the point with my last post, as I've only just read Yupa's first post. I don't agree with Yupa's assertion that 40 year old virgins are 'losers'. I'm very much offended that someone would consider me a loser simply because I haven't had sex. Are there really people out there who define me by the amount of sex I've had? How very sad.

As a matter of fact, most NTs would...

honestly, it sounds like "us aspies" are obsessing over it just as much as any NT would....

Enigmatic_Oddity that s why I started this thread because I asked myself the same question .

the answer is YES ....there s a lot of people who define you by ur ability in attracting the opposite sex ...in fact the girls because Iadmit that this way of thinking exist more among the males .......and yea by the way some girls also consider adult virgins as losers or "inexperienced" guy .

Not most, *some*. Just what kind of NTs have you been hanging out with? I've yet to meet a person (other than myself at times) who actually thinks that the measure of a man is how much sex he's had.