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02 Sep 2012, 8:06 pm

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Well, I go to the Asian markets to buy my:
Bean sprouts
Lychees
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Mochi from Taiwan because it's cheaper than Japanese mochi (jdm tyte tax)
Iced tea
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Actually, if I had my way, I'd probably just do ALL my shopping at the Asian supermarket, but alas I don't have my own way.

As far as my "hitting on" I simply asked a girl what she thought of a drink I was going to buy, to which she replied "I have a boyfriend."


Well in that case it was wrong of her to presume.



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02 Sep 2012, 8:08 pm

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Where should one go, then, to hit on Asian girls?

If you don't see any asian girls at your school or work place, maybe a library or coffee shop?
And I guess any other place asian people hang out that is more social.
Where I live they are in libraries a lot because a lot of them are students, otherwise I see a lot of them at restaurants and my yoga class :)

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I suspect that a lot of these girls would be more Americanized, and thus more interested in the alpha/macho types.

Possibly, but then there are also girls like me who have an even mix of asian and north american cultures.



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02 Sep 2012, 9:34 pm

I didn't know there was a certain way to talk to Asian Women. Maybe it's because I'm part Asian, but I always just kind of thought it's like talking to pretty much any other girl.


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03 Sep 2012, 7:14 am

Some people who are in the USA on temporary work visas (for example, some Filipina nurses) may be highly interested in getting married before their visas expire.

I know one couple like this: the American husband is on disability, and the Filipina wife is a nurse. They are a very cute couple, and they have a gorgeous little daughter.

I don't know how one would necessarily go about seeking Asian women who have visa difficulties.



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05 Sep 2012, 8:44 pm

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06 Sep 2012, 6:49 am

Off to Japan it is, then?



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06 Sep 2012, 9:08 am

I think it's very superficial to just want "asian girls". It shows and tells me that you only care about looks. Well that's what I think of if I hear a guy only looking for specific kind of girls. I mean, you might miss out on a girl who really cares about you.



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06 Sep 2012, 9:34 am

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I think it's very superficial to just want "asian girls". It shows and tells me that you only care about looks. Well that's what I think of if I hear a guy only looking for specific kind of girls. I mean, you might miss out on a girl who really cares about you.


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06 Sep 2012, 1:06 pm

Evy7 wrote:
I think it's very superficial to just want "asian girls". It shows and tells me that you only care about looks. Well that's what I think of if I hear a guy only looking for specific kind of girls. I mean, you might miss out on a girl who really cares about you.


I don't know if I said anywhere I just want Asian girls. However, I do like Asian girls. I was just looking for advice specifically on how to talk to Asian girls, as I've found them much harder to talk to and get to know compared to other girls.



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06 Sep 2012, 1:14 pm

Of course people are entitled to their own preferences -_-. I'm only saying if you are basically just looking at a girl for her race is really wrong. And I think going up to any girl has the same techniques and strategies as ypu would a white girl, black etc.



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06 Sep 2012, 1:20 pm

And BTW Quasimodo, I am entitled to my OPINION to think that way of him if I assmed he was only looking at a certain kind of girl. And if you look like a hunchback, then why be picky!?



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06 Sep 2012, 2:31 pm

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And BTW Quasimodo, I am entitled to my OPINION to think that way of him if I assmed he was only looking at a certain kind of girl. And if you look like a hunchback, then why be picky!?


Isn't telling a man who digs Asians that he should court a White woman a bit like telling a homosexual man that he should give up being a homosexual and marry a woman? Either situation might not end well.

If that "ladder theory" (that is being discussed elsewhere) has any validity, then a man who finds himself off of the ladder of most American females (for being nerdy and unathletic) may move to Japan and probably find himself near the top of the ladder for a larger number of women, to the extent that he might actually be getting a decent amount of jiggery-pokery.

As for "missing out on a girl who really cares for him": I think that he may be more likely to find that in Japan.



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06 Sep 2012, 2:56 pm

Evy7 wrote:
I think it's very superficial to just want "asian girls". It shows and tells me that you only care about looks. Well that's what I think of if I hear a guy only looking for specific kind of girls. I mean, you might miss out on a girl who really cares about you.

It's about as "superficial" as women only wanting tall guys.



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06 Sep 2012, 3:39 pm

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMK3UCFU0Og[/youtube]"who doesnt like Asian girls everyone likes Asian girls! :lol:


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06 Sep 2012, 3:43 pm

Evy7 wrote:
Of course people are entitled to their own preferences -_-. I'm only saying if you are basically just looking at a girl for her race is really wrong. And I think going up to any girl has the same techniques and strategies as ypu would a white girl, black etc.


I explained why in this thread this is not so, because we have different cultures, despite our skin colors.



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06 Sep 2012, 3:55 pm

I admire the culture and history not to mention the food I cannot resist the food it is delicious. I dont know why but 90% of the time I am not attractive to them just for sex but more as a human being and admiration of the culture. The sex part well thats about with every woman.If one is only dating a different ethnicity then well that is just sad in my book also for the wrong reasons.


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