Asian men/White women couplings

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That was hilarious, my face hurts from laughing.

Speaking from the perspective of an asian female, yes there are more asian male/white female pairings then there was in the past but often times, asian males end up marrying other asians or end up going overseas if they cant find an girl where they are at. However the amount of asian female/white male is pretty rampid these days. Yes the elder asian culture will frown upon it. I dont see why u shouldnt date a white women or any other race? You dont have to date an asian girl.

I feel so naive (or maybe I'm from a too liberal country); I don't think I've ever even thought about an Asian guy not wanting a long-term relationship with me, a white woman, specifically due to his parents' views or social pressure

I've spent longer periods of time in Japan and China (not in Korea, though) and dated some local men. It's obvious that there's still a lot of xenophobia in both countries (and people have their personal preferences as well of course), but whilst there were a lot of guys that didn't want to have anything to do with a white woman, there were a lot of guys that seemed to be interested in me specifically for being a blonde, pale, blue-eyed, liberal foreign girl. I didn't feel that I and my dates were specifically frowned upon when being seen in public together.

I've never seen race as a problem, personally, other than that cultural or language barriers may appear. I don't think I would get very well along with somebody who would let a race or group pressure to be too big of an issue in a relationship: I'm fairly independent and have a habit of doing what I see is the right thing to do even if it causes me to get bullied by a group that disagrees. I'm often attracted to those same traits in another person as well. I'm also romantic enough to believe that somebody might love another as a person, without letting shallow values to break a beautiful relationship.

Am I really at a disadvantage (Asian, male, Aspie) with who I am? And how can I change myself? I feel so unempowered, if that is the right word, or if that is even a word at all.

I feel like Asian women have it better, and I just want to level the playing field.....

There's no way I'd kick B.D.Wong(from Law and Order) out of my bed,he is a cutie pie!!

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And it looks like I may be in a relationship with a white woman........ just like I wanted.

I'm not xenophobic; I just happen to be attracted to other Asians. Not because I feel like I HAVE to be, I just am.

The reason you see lots of White Male/Asian Female pairings is because:

Asian chicks look very effeminate.

The reason you don't see lots of Asian Male/White Female pairings is because:

Asian guys look very effeminate.


...so yea. Asian chicks are at the top of the totem pole, and Asian males are at the bottom, kinda like how Aspie Females tend to be a lot more attractive to the opposite sex than Aspie Males. Nature's a cruel b***h.