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26 Oct 2012, 8:04 am

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Start chatting up senior citizens (volunteer at retirement community) about how hard it is to meet a nice girl. They will be MORE than willing to introduce you to to other youngins. The problem with us aspies is that we forget that people also meet through other people because PEOPLE 101 is a certain grade of "F" for us. Sometimes that's the ONLY way. It's safer too.
No elderly citizen is going to introduce you to their "married" niece. The VERY LAST thing you need in life is to get the attention of somebody's wife. An adultress can spot an aspie out in a second. He hasn't a social circle so "SHE" won't get caught.


This usually ends with "oh you'll find the right girl someday!" then they drop the subject. :?


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26 Oct 2012, 8:18 am

IF a man makes eye contact with a woman she will often look away.

But it’s knowing what her glance means which can help gain her affection.

That’s because how a woman looks away from you will tell you everything you need to know about the way she is feeling.

A look down that seems to be sweeping the floor means the lady is checking with her internal feelings. This is the one you are after — it’s the holy grail of looks.

It is a great indication that the female is interested in you. However, a direct stare back is to be avoided at all times. This is definitely a warning signal.

If your love interest looks to the side — to the left or right — this means the door is still open and a verdict hasn’t been returned.

If your date looks directly over your head it isn’t because they are imagining pictures of you and her running into the sunset together.

It is more likely to just be a roll of the eyes.






Eye spy ... staring ahead is a warning to back off (left), to the side means she needs time to think (middle), while a shy glance is a surefire sign you've pulled (right)


If this happens, your best bet is to leave that woman alone and move on.

The shy, coy, demure, furtive look away is not the brush-off we have been led to believe. Quite the opposite — that female will be checking in with their internal dialogue and feelings.

It is a surefire signal of the highest order.

Looking down and to either side, or both, means someone is accessing feeling or having an internal dialogue.

In short, she is checking in with herself and experiencing some kind of emotion... that’s perfect!

So long as you make sure that the next emotion isn’t disappointment — such as ignoring her or being too shy to say “Hi” — then it can be seen as a green light.

Something else to look out for is if she moves her eyes up and to the left. This means she is recalling a visual memory from the past.

And if her eyes go up and to the right, she is thinking about something in the future.

And if that special person looks away and then looks back within 45 seconds, they have as good as written their phone number on your bathroom mirror. Result!



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THERE are two other signs which can demonstrate how a woman feels about a man.

The first is if her dominant wrist – the right one if she is right-handed – is pointed towards you. This is a very positive sign.

The other signal that she likes you is if she touches her hair.

If she likes you a bit more she might play with her hair at the ends and if she likes you a lot she may move her hair to one side to show more of her neck, shoulders and chest.


Read more: http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/fe ... z2APWXY8Hw



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26 Oct 2012, 8:50 am

RightGalaxy wrote:
a direct stare back is to be avoided at all times. This is definitely a warning signal.


Oh dear, bad news - your little guide wouldn't work on me. You would read me all wrong. If I like a man, and catch him staring at me, I stare back.

I don't know who wrote that thing you are quoting from, but the author seems to be assuming that people are clones and all act the same way. Or maybe it's describing NTs.



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27 Oct 2012, 5:42 pm

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yeah, as in, i'm not talking about relationship break-up, i'm talking about in he getting to know eachother process, seeing eachother process
it's amazing how i will meet many girls on pof,we talk-through pms,they express interest, it goes to text, and then when it comes to meeting up for a first date they change their tune and say ''gl with your search''. like it's no skin off their nose..with no explanations as to why they wasted my time and gave me hope i would not succumb to the virgin's curse. some girls wont make it that far..they will ust randomly stop responding during a good convo or they will delete their account..or delete and remake their account and pm me a few ws later pretending they never met me -_-/


Is it possible that in the cases when you think they've deleted their accounts and remade them, you're just responding to two different bots who used the same profile format? I know that one profile you responded to that started that whole huge mess of a thread before was just a bot. Maybe you keep falling into the same trap? Or maybe you come off as too desperate or something. I really have no idea.

I've dealt with that before, not the whole deleting/remaking accounts thing, but like I was talking to this one girl on AIM for a few days, and we were in the process of making plans to see each other. Then suddenly she dropped off the face of the earth, and I have never been contacted by her again. I know it sucks, but you just gotta get back up on the horse and try again. I'm not trying to say "suck it up and deal with it," but honestly, what else can you do? Pissing and moaning isn't gonna get you anywhere, so all you can really do is try again.[/quote]

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27 Oct 2012, 10:26 pm

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Just shout FREE CHOCOLATE!! !! !! !


Works for me :lol:


Heh... variation on a theme... walk into a place known to have lots of single gals, point to myself and announce, "Hey ladies! Who wants a chocolate covered man?! !"

Oh course, it may result in a less-than-desirable effect...


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27 Oct 2012, 11:44 pm

:lmao: Max :lol:


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28 Oct 2012, 1:52 am

f**k my life