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06 Nov 2012, 9:13 pm

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Several people have already suggested that you should go see a hooker and get it over with. They could be right.


:afro: AWWWWWW YEEEEAAAA!



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06 Nov 2012, 9:35 pm

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Several people have already suggested that you should go see a hooker and get it over with. They could be right.


:afro: AWWWWWW YEEEEAAAA!
no anyone who suggests a hookah is an idiot who lacks reading comprehension skills as I have clearly said 100times why that is not what im interested in.


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06 Nov 2012, 9:39 pm

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i dont have admiration for people who go 5 decades without sex for many reasons.
1-most of those people are doing so bc they CANT get laid. they are suffering not becoming actualized
2- I think being a VOLUNTARY virgin is ust as bad as being a slut.sex isnt bad and i think to be a healthy individual you should have sex around once a month. you dont need it everyday, but going so long without it even by choice suggests deeper issues. I think people who say ''i dont need sex'' are fools..and i resent the especially if they get sex.
3-een if you dont need sex why not try it once to see how it is? do you think you are better than me for not having it?(assuming i was not a virgin) when I say you I mean the general population, and me refers to the general non virgin pop.


Seriously? :roll:

Just... where did you get from that "healthy individual" stuff. Also, did you just call yourself an unhealthy individual? :lol:. There is something that you, and many people like you, don't seem to understand, and it is that not everybody wants the same things that you want. Maybe you wish you had sex once a month? Not everybody does. There are a lot of valid reasons not to. Sometimes there are deeper issues, but that doesn't necessarily mean that those issues are mental health problems as you make it sound like, or that they should be addressed and changed. I repeat it again so it maybe gets into your head this time, not everybody wants the same as you do. I'm starting to make this little theory about you, you want to have sex so much that you resent women who supposedly can get it at any time they want (while in truth having sex with the first stranger that hits on them is not what they want) and you resent those who say they don't need it but get it anyway (quoting you almost literally, you must hate that someone gets what you want so dearly and doesn't fully appreciate it right?)

Several people have already suggested that you should go see a hooker and get it over with. They could be right.
i am not desperate for sex but desperate for it with a girl i find attractive that finds me attractive as well. I would prefer to have sex with a girl im in a relationship with though..but that hasn't occurred. i dont give a f**k about sex well maybe a little) it is what the sex means..aka im desired by girls.


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06 Nov 2012, 9:46 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
Shatbat wrote:
Several people have already suggested that you should go see a hooker and get it over with. They could be right.


:afro: AWWWWWW YEEEEAAAA!
no anyone who suggests a hookah is an idiot who lacks reading comprehension skills as I have clearly said 100times why that is not what im interested in.


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Yo dawg! I put a hooka' with your hookah so she's smoking while she's smokin'!

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[flees the hurled vegetables!]



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06 Nov 2012, 9:56 pm

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wtfid2 wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
Shatbat wrote:
Several people have already suggested that you should go see a hooker and get it over with. They could be right.


:afro: AWWWWWW YEEEEAAAA!
no anyone who suggests a hookah is an idiot who lacks reading comprehension skills as I have clearly said 100times why that is not what im interested in.


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Yo dawg! I put a hooka' with your hookah so she's smoking while she's smokin'!

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[flees the hurled vegetables!]
hate girls who smoke :p


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07 Nov 2012, 4:19 pm

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Lets be honest, its what most of the people in that situation come here to. Then theres the ones who you give advice to and act like dicks. And the ones who refuse advice because theyre perfect and its the women that need to change


This is wisdom here. I find it funny how accurate this is.


i hate, despise, loathe being a virgin, although i feel i'm close to getting a job with the internship i've been doing lately for close to 2 months now, i really feel tempted to go see a hooker or escort


May I ask why? I'm a virgin, but don't give a damn about it.

I have a job, but not many friends and a severe form of agoraphobia. Those who actually go outside despite their social shortcomings have a much better then then I have...but why be angry on being a virgin?

At the end of the day, it's not exactly something that is necessary, it's merely an added bonus which most people seem to get...but it's not exactly something you need. Perhaps courtship if you feel you need someone there, but not sex....it's merely there for you to reproduce really with the added pleasure of it...which sucks since it's in our hormones.

If I had the choice, I'd rid of my testosterone just to ignore craving a relationship with sex and be happy about getting out more.


same here, if i had a choice in which i could get rid of my testosterone and at the same time retain my male physique, strength, voice, looks, etc., i'd probably do it



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07 Nov 2012, 5:06 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
Blammo wrote:
MXH wrote:

Lets be honest, its what most of the people in that situation come here to. Then theres the ones who you give advice to and act like dicks. And the ones who refuse advice because theyre perfect and its the women that need to change


This is wisdom here. I find it funny how accurate this is.


i hate, despise, loathe being a virgin, although i feel i'm close to getting a job with the internship i've been doing lately for close to 2 months now, i really feel tempted to go see a hooker or escort


May I ask why? I'm a virgin, but don't give a damn about it.

I have a job, but not many friends and a severe form of agoraphobia. Those who actually go outside despite their social shortcomings have a much better then then I have...but why be angry on being a virgin?

At the end of the day, it's not exactly something that is necessary, it's merely an added bonus which most people seem to get...but it's not exactly something you need. Perhaps courtship if you feel you need someone there, but not sex....it's merely there for you to reproduce really with the added pleasure of it...which sucks since it's in our hormones.

If I had the choice, I'd rid of my testosterone just to ignore craving a relationship with sex and be happy about getting out more.


same here, if i had a choice in which i could get rid of my testosterone and at the same time retain my male physique, strength, voice, looks, etc., i'd probably do it
a man without testosterone is like a cake made of vegetables lol...then again carrot cakes exist lol.


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07 Nov 2012, 7:27 pm

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I am not desperate for sex but desperate for it with a girlIi find attractive that finds me attractive as well. I would prefer to have sex with a girl I'm in a relationship with though...but that hasn't occurred. I dont give a f**k about sex (well maybe a little) it is what the sex means... aka I'm desired by girls.


Sex as validation... have you considered first becoming desirable and then having sex as a consequence, instead of the other way around?


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07 Nov 2012, 7:29 pm

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wtfid2 wrote:
I am not desperate for sex but desperate for it with a girlIi find attractive that finds me attractive as well. I would prefer to have sex with a girl I'm in a relationship with though...but that hasn't occurred. I dont give a f**k about sex (well maybe a little) it is what the sex means... aka I'm desired by girls.


Sex as validation... have you considered first becoming desirable and then having sex as a consequence, instead of the other way around?

i was thinking the same



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07 Nov 2012, 7:57 pm

there is no reason a woman would find me undesirable.


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07 Nov 2012, 8:19 pm

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there is no reason a woman would find me undesirable.


Then why are you not getting sex from them?


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07 Nov 2012, 8:21 pm

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there is no reason a woman would find me undesirable.


Then why are you not getting sex from them?
ifi knew that i wouldnt be asking myself why everyday....


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07 Nov 2012, 8:34 pm

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there is no reason a woman would find me undesirable.


Then why are you not getting sex from them?
ifi knew that i wouldnt be asking myself why everyday....


What if there IS something undesirable about you, huh?


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07 Nov 2012, 8:36 pm

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there is no reason a woman would find me undesirable.


Then why are you not getting sex from them?
ifi knew that i wouldnt be asking myself why everyday....


What if there IS something undesirable about you, huh?
then i wont get sex...obviously. If I knew why wasnt getting sex i would have worked on it as I explain to you countless times. There is no reason girls shouldn't be attracted to me but for some reason they a rent.


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07 Nov 2012, 8:48 pm

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Then I wont get sex... obviously. If I knew why I wasn't getting sex I would have worked on it as I have explained to you countless times. There is no reason girls shouldn't be attracted to me but for some reason they aren't.


You contradict yourself. You say there is no reason girls shouldn't be attracted to you, then you say they aren't attracted to you, for some reason, thus there IS a reason. That's what you need to figure out first. I think I've got an idea, but it's way too vague to make anything out of it.


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07 Nov 2012, 8:52 pm

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Then I wont get sex... obviously. If I knew why I wasn't getting sex I would have worked on it as I have explained to you countless times. There is no reason girls shouldn't be attracted to me but for some reason they aren't.


You contradict yourself. You say there is no reason girls shouldn't be attracted to you, then you say they aren't attracted to you, for some reason, thus there IS a reason. That's what you need to figure out first. I think I've got an idea, but it's way too vague to make anything out of it.
there is no reason why girls would find me unattractive but they do i a not contradicting myself society is not making any sense.

let me guess your response will be ''blame society blah blah w/er.''


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