Oh, also, earlier, I wasn't trying to say I thought you were nasty, nessa. I had meant that if you're not necessarily attracted to the nicer guys, then they'll know and won't really do anything because they'll think they don't have a chance. I don't understand why since you're nice yourself, but oh well.
If your latest post is true, I don't have a chance in the world. I'm pretty nice but mess with me and you'd swear I had taken some testosterone shots. Truth is, I have no desire to play back and forth games at all with anybody, let alone a woman.

But the back and forth doesn't have to be a bad thing - it can be light-hearted and there are times when both people act together as a team.
I'm just speaking from my experience anyway; I can't speak for everyone. I just find there's more spark with a person when they evade control even though ultimately I aim for control lol