Feeling lonely thread

Post Reply New Topic

The first person I fell in love with disappeared on me two months ago. We met online and talked about our feelings for three years. We were finally making plans to see each other when she vanished. I hate it more because I don't know how I could make that kind of connection again.

I'm just lonely, (friendship and relationship wise).

We should throw a party for all of the unhappy Aspies in the world!

^^^^^^ What he said.

Quantum physics is weird.

a stadium that big has yet to be invented....

So do I.



Yes, I do sometimes. But it just depends on how crappy my day was going...

I look at Benedict Cumberbatch, Tom Hiddleston and Tevin Campbell, and see they are not married......... and are older than me. I suddenly feel a little better about myself.

Ehhhhhh, I'm reasonably sure there's a reason that they're not. Like, the same reason George Clooney has had throughout his entire career.

Eh, i'll post in here- felt invisible ever since I've been unemployed and in my own place- spend the vast majority of my days completely alone, maybe seeing a friend (have fewer of those than I can count on one hand) once or twice a month. Occasionally will bump into somebody I knew in the past, and they make a token effort for all of 5 minutes before ignoring me. I feel so f*****g invisible, and I can't tolerate it any longer!

@TheGoggles: I know. But knowing that makes me feel better in a way.

why not call it for what it is? feeling unloveable thread , sign me up !

Unloveable, lonely, it's all the same to me.

well I only excel in the former the latter

Well, to each their own, I guess.

a couple of years ago i was playing a game and wondered "who am i gonna get to help complete two player mode?"
(im a completest)the potential answers were not encouraging
so now im here on this site

I am rather lonely, though I'm pretty sure most if not all of such pain would be alleviated with a good friend or few. I've not had a friend in going on two years, nor had an in person conversation that wasn't just a business transaction in nature in nine months now. I can call my mother or father who are both almost a thousand miles away, but I only talk to them to let them know I'm alive for their sakes... I feel very little connection to either of them and don't feel any less "all alone in the world" when I speak to them.

There's much more to life than romance... so, I'm just paying attention to the parts of life that I find exciting and driving for now, and if some woman happens to wow me senseless in the process, I suspect I'll be free to pursue such interest. Quite frankly, I don't really see a match for myself as being likely... I'm fairly eccentric when I open up and my music dreams are possibly too big for a long term relationship to work, and I don't do dating half heartedly in some fear of cold nights.

I am hoping that once I can go back to college, that I can meet friends with similar interests and compatible personalities. I seriously lack people to talk and play music with. So far, my past experiences with school have been the most successful method I've ever had in meeting interesting people in person... aside from finding a friendship turned long distance relationship when we met in person, that started and ended off the internet once. Though, I'm only hopeful to meet people, I actually have a reason to go to school now, which I didn't know what I wanted to do five years ago when I dropped out >_>

Same here. I'm trying to look for some kind of discounted therapy service, because that really helped. But I've got new insurance now that has way high co-pays for mental health services, so I can't pay the full amount anymore. Even if I was paying someone to talk to me, it was still nice to have a frank conversation with someone who actively listened.

My parents have always been good to me, but they don't like hearing about the negative aspects of my life. So I pretend to be content when I call them. In reality, I'm going to AA meetings just to be around other people. Like Fight Club.