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19 Feb 2016, 9:03 pm

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kraftie, let's make a bet: I bet it's the restaurant management doing a gesture at times for a very frequent customer(even if it's not everyday, she's obviously a frequent eater there) - there's no secret admirer.

You bet it's an amazing secret admirer.

The loser of the bet should post a picture of him in undies.


You have statistics against you. What are the odds for a girl both having somebody pay occasional lunches at a restaurant, and an admirer at a coffee-shop, which also appears to seek contact outside of his work? Not very big, so I'd say you lose. :mrgreen:


Where are you getting that he appears to seek contact outside of his work from? Sounds more like the OP has an infatuation with this guy and because of this just hopes he's the admirer paying for her lunch...she hasn't said the guy tries to seek her out outside of his work just that she wishes she knew how to find him. Also she has no way to know whether or not this guy she is thinking of even found out she ate at that restaurant or not.


We ran into each other twice, the first time, I was sitting on a bench & he walked by, he turned around & waved, I think he was in a hurry. The second time, I was walking around a corner & saw a guy, he was far away, I saw his hair & his shirt, I had a feeling it was my crush, I got butterflies & had a panic attack, I walked away from him. I hid in a restaurant, when the guy walked by the windows, I saw it was really him, shortly later, he was sitting on a bench for awhile, it looked like he was waiting for someone, what if he saw me too & he was waiting for me :D :D :D :P



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20 Feb 2016, 4:20 am

Sometimes men will go to a quiet spot and let you come to them if you're shy. You should have approached him while he was on his own.


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20 Feb 2016, 7:45 pm

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Sometimes men will go to a quiet spot and let you come to them if you're shy. You should have approached him while he was on his own.



What if he was meeting someone else.



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21 Feb 2016, 8:06 am

...Not the point. You had a chance to approach him.


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21 Feb 2016, 10:26 am

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...Not the point. You had a chance to approach him.


Why the hurry? If this already has gone on for months, why would she take the first chance to approach him?

I might add that a sudden approach could scare this guy off. I'd be more careful about that.



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21 Feb 2016, 3:51 pm

That's sudden? 8O

How is it going to move forward?


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21 Feb 2016, 9:12 pm

rdos wrote:
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...Not the point. You had a chance to approach him.


Why the hurry? If this already has gone on for months, why would she take the first chance to approach him?

I might add that a sudden approach could scare this guy off. I'd be more careful about that.


Why would this scared him off?



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21 Feb 2016, 9:47 pm

The coffee house will open in March, I don't know when, I'm having a lot of doubts about the guy, this is too hard, I want him. I feel like this never going happen.



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21 Feb 2016, 9:56 pm

Given that he's right here I think you're fine.


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22 Feb 2016, 2:51 am

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Given that he's right here I think you're fine.


Here? Why would he be? If you mean me, I'm not working in a coffee house. I'm a programmer. :mrgreen:



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24 Feb 2016, 12:48 am

If the guy didn't pay for my lunch then I'm back to wondering if he forgot me.



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24 Feb 2016, 4:22 am

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Given that he's right here I think you're fine.


Here? Why would he be? If you mean me, I'm not working in a coffee house. I'm a programmer. :mrgreen:


People act like they've never met us...


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24 Feb 2016, 4:33 am

Let me come clean, I'm not Jeff.



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24 Feb 2016, 4:37 am

Ok you're clean.


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24 Feb 2016, 4:39 am

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Let me come clean, I'm not Jeff.


Jeff doesn't sell hackers to spooks.


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24 Feb 2016, 4:39 am

DateOfBirth wrote:
Let me come clean, I'm not Jeff.


Sorry a**hole, code's not a weapon.


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