HistoryGal wrote:
Seriously men seem to be able to have a collection of partners while the women are having to be limited.
I don't know any male friends and acquaintances close to me that think like that in the moment. That strikes me as an extremely archaic way of thinking against men if I you please excuse my honesty.
I don't want to speak for all men in the world, I'm doing it for myself right now, but girls who are too uptight, repressed and/or pure and chaste don't appeal to me. Even if a woman is a geek, nerd, religious, shy or however she defines herself... if she doesn't have some type of sexual drive, I don't feel attracted. I like girls who look shy but in private they'll do whatever they like. Also, I like girls who are very strong, independent, have a lot of personality ... as long as they don't want to boss me up and take control of my life - what takes me to the next paragraph.
If a woman is too aggressive - and this usually goes to show in her sexuality - there are men who don't like that but on the other hand, also there are women out there who don't like "weak men", "losers" and so on. It's a matter of preference. People may call it a social design, the dumb majority or whatever but the fact is, there are many different people and many different sexual preferences. If a person feels so frustrated that can never find a partner and release sexual tension, maybe he/she is looking in the wrong place, being too picky or letting the fantasies in their minds take control of reality. Probably all these things at once.
So in short and I speak only for myself again, it doesn't matter to me if a woman has a very shy personality or if she's a forthright business entrepreneur as long as there's respect and the sex is hot. I don't think I can have hot sex from a chaste "nun" and I don't think a nun would enjoy sex with me anyway. Besides, if I ever discover that my partner has some sort of secret fantasies, fetishes or anything like that - it's a turn on for me! I like everything a little kinky, pervy - as long as it doesn't involve people getting seriously hurt or irreversibly injured, that is. It's even more a beautiful surprise to me when I discover that my girl has something she's afraid to tell and do with anyone but me.
The only thing I require is this: it has to be with me and me alone. Third parties are out of question and it needs to happen under strict respect and confidentiality. But that's me! And now that you mentioned, I would love a girl to dress as a nun, role play that I could tie her up and pervert her soul!