What is your gender? Male[/b]
Would you date someone:
Outside of your race? Sure if they are open to other people of different race. Only is a problem if they are racist towards me or if they themselves do not want to be with people of a different race.
Outside of your culture? Sure if they are open to other people of different culture. Although some cultural values might greatly conflict with my own and so could become problematic.
Who was on a benefit? Fine with me. I most hope for an ASD partner and I assume that for them this is likely the case.
Who worked part time? Fine with me. In today's economy I don't judge about this.
Who worked full time? Fine with me. In today's economy I don't judge about this. My only judgement in terms of financial status is that Drug Addiction = No
Someone underweight? Sure as long as not anorexic skin & bones or bulimia. And hopefully doesn't look extremely young like can pass for 14 or something. People who look way too young just register as kids to me and therefore aren't attractive. Just science I think since adults aren't supposed to mate with kids.
Someone overweight? Sure as long as not obese. Obesity is hard to define but I would say basic rule of thumbs being over 30% body fat or BMI index above 30 though if the woman has muscle development a lot of the measures for this won't be accurate. If she is really fit she might be "break the rules" due to the typical measures for these not accounting for muscle mass. Contrary to what Hollywood seems to believe, fit women have the best look. Hollywood would ask women with muscle to lose that muscle if they land a movie role or modeling gig, for example when female athletes cross over into acting or modeling.
Someone shorter than you? Sure though hopefully not far below 5'0. My mind would register a woman as a child if she is closer to 4'0 or less. Anything childlike in appearance = not attractive to me.
Someone taller than you? Sure though hopefully not way above 6'0. It's a common thing that women generally prefer their partner is at least as tall as they are. From my point of view it would appear that my height would be a strong negative for the woman if she were say 6'6 or 7'0 tall.
Someone with different religious beliefs? In most cases as long as not judgemental and is open minded to different viewpoints. I do not accept radical religious beliefs such as those that call for the killing of non believers or aiming for the conversion of the entire planet's human population as I consider that a world domination plot. My own religious leaning is basically that I don't know everything about the truth of the universe, but is primarily a rejection of radical extremism.
Someone with different political leaning? Yes as long as not a hate or extremist ideology. My own political leaning is flexible but is primarily a rejection of radical extremism.
Someone smarter than you? Very probably yes unless they had a lot of elitism about it.
Someone less smart than you? Yes as long as it's at least at a minimum functional level and doesn't impede the most basic level of communication.
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Sure as long as not judgemental towards other socioeconomic class. Excessive elitism bothers me. Like if they refer to other people as Peasants, Serfs or the Proletariat or they refer to themselves as the Ruler or the Master.
Someone with little to no personality? Really depends
Someone who too much personality? Really depends. Can be positive if it's "nerd personality". Can be extremely negative if it's too much personality in the sense of the Dark Tetrad characteristics of Machiavellianism, Psychopathy, Narcissism and Sadism being present. Obvious sociopathy is also a disqualifier. Anything dangerous is out.
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Would be preferred but I expect this is close to 0% probability for women when excluding those way underage, I will not date women under 18.
Someone with many previous sexual partners? That's fine & expected. I assume all women aged 18-40 so long as they do not fall under extreme categories will have had many previous sexual partners.
A swinger? No. Likely won't ever know though.
An asexual? I don't know. I do not forsee an aesexual individual desiring a romantic relationship. I don't expect an asexual to ever agree to a relationship.
A bisexual? Yes unless they feel very little to no attraction towards males. If they do feel notable attraction towards men then it's fine and not a concern.
Someone with little to no depth? Really depends but probably not.
Someone with a lot of depth? Really depends on what kind of depth this is.
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Yes. This is expected. For computers I expect fewer than 1% women would have any interest in it, and for anime/games I expect fewer than 5% would have any interest in either
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Really depends. As a guy with Aspergers I am really not suited to a purely caregiver's role, where it's not so much a romantic relationship as it would be me taking care of them.
Someone who loves indoor plants? I cannot comprehend why this could be an issue?
Complicated minds? Depends. Personality disorders and/or Dark Tetrad are big issues for me.
Simple minds? Straightforward is good. Superficial is not good.
Someone with no car? Sure so long as it is not issue that I don't have one. My anxiety is much too severe for driving.
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Same as above
Someone independent? They have to have independence in terms of basic functional living. I can't function as solely a caregiver.
Someone who farted or burped too much? No
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? No I don't think this condition allows for a possible relationship.
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06 Jul 2018, 9:12 pm
