What is the AS trait you have that people find sexy?

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I agree.

There are traits that women do like in me, but I seriously doubt any of them are linked to AS .

^Intensensity.

The fact that we are persistent with what we want in life.

You mean Intensity? I dont necessarily think that my intensity is the result of my asperger syndrome. But most women dont like intensity-its "intimidating" and "scary"

I don't know I just guess on these whether or not they're related to AS. How would anyone know what's related to AS and what isn't when it comes to finding it SEXY.

Wow for the first time I've been corrected for my perfect spelling. It's usually the reverse for me.

Hmmm......zealous used in pretense of intellect?

I wonder if that would be considered a sexy trait I find in most aspies.....that is if one didn't know the difference.

my sensitivity and inability to hate.

i thinkit's cute when we're in public and my boyfriend will look down sometimes. or when he talks about somethings he'll look from one side of the room to the other then center in on me...that's cute too.

freak_audio, is it that you don't like being naive, or that you don't like him appreciating that naivete?

recently, during down time in one of my classes, a few other girls asked if I had a boyfriend (a typical NT conversation). I went through the usual motions ("never have" "how old are you?" "18" "wow" "big deal"); anyway, the point: I talked about a guy (whom I blogged about here on WP) who liked my for my innocense and one of the girls said to avoid guys like that. It came off as though she thought they were uo to no good and creepy. I found her view interesting, but I couldn't figure it out. It was as if she thought that if I guy thought that I was innocent and liked me for that, that he thought he was better than me and would try to take advantage of me. I don't know if that is true (it could be for a few individuals), and I really don't get it.

Any ideas here?