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WhiskeyInTheJar
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03 Nov 2009, 7:22 am

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Thailand is rather safe, except parts of the south because of muslimextremist activity. The women don't think you're weird when you are quiet and like to be alone.

Thailand has other violent criminal groups also spilling over the borders in the north. It is part of the golden triangle.

Don't get me wrong I don't think it is that terrible, I have lived in a war zone it was fine. I am saying it is naive to think you are somehow automatically safer in Thailand than the Philippines.

Women might not find you weird in Thailand, if you over them more than they can expect in Thailand. It is all to do with social expectations. In USA for instance. Groups of women (the ones that interest you, as you will ignore then ones that don't despite people claiming not to be picky) have a much different social expectation, and given the opportunity to have a more confident outgoing man, with status they will probably go with that. Simply due to the fact
they have that opportunity

This is exactly why asperger men must have a look outside the West.

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03 Nov 2009, 8:07 am

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

This is exactly why asperger men must have a look outside the West.

Not necessarily, it does depend what women you are interested in. The problem with dating foreigners is the can adapt quickly where as you may remain the same.

Also the expectations in Thai culture will also change.

These arrangements will not satisfy everyone on the spectrum because some want a little more than an arrangement.

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03 Nov 2009, 9:59 am

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This is exactly why asperger men must have a look outside the West.

Can I ask, are you xenophobic towards Thai?
What is 'arrangement' by the way?

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03 Nov 2009, 10:11 am

Western women do not like asperger man. Then there is only one option left: find a wife abroad. And they are available, in Thailand, Cambodia.

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03 Nov 2009, 10:49 am

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

Western women do not like asperger man. Then there is only one option left: find a wife abroad. And they are available, in Thailand, Cambodia.

You are making a sweeping generalisation.

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03 Nov 2009, 10:54 am

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

Can I ask, are you xenophobic towards Thai?
What is 'arrangement' by the way?

Far from it. I have lived all over the world I'm not xenophobic in the slightest. I not a fan of nationalism as a whole, but have no problem different ideas and cultures.

An arrangement is about all you can hope for if you pick your wife off the street in Bangkok on holliday.

Also there is some confusion that relationship enterprise of this form, whilst has some historical president, really hails from the Vietnam War, and is not to be confused of Asian values in general.

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03 Nov 2009, 11:44 am

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

Western women do not like asperger man. Then there is only one option left: find a wife abroad. And they are available, in Thailand, Cambodia.

Bollocks. Huge and inaccurate generalization.

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03 Nov 2009, 12:42 pm

makuranososhi wrote:

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

Western women do not like asperger man. Then there is only one option left: find a wife abroad. And they are available, in Thailand, Cambodia.

Bollocks. Huge and inaccurate generalization.

If he feels that way, it is accurate for him. There is no point in arguing that Western women really like him, or that if he did this or that or changed this or that then, maybe, some Western woman somewhere might despise him a little bit less. There is no point in fantasizing about a Western woman liking him, if his experience has been exactly the opposite.

Thailand and Cambodia do make for a viable alternative.

In fact, I think that every Western man should visit Thailand, at least once in his life.

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03 Nov 2009, 12:52 pm

pandabear wrote:

makuranososhi wrote:

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

Western women do not like asperger man. Then there is only one option left: find a wife abroad. And they are available, in Thailand, Cambodia.

Bollocks. Huge and inaccurate generalization.

No argument with that last statement - there is a lot of beauty in Asia. My contention is that WITJ made the assertion about Western women as a whole, and about all ASD men as a whole. Significant semantic different between that and "It's been my experience that Western women aren't attracted to or aren't interested in me romantically." Does that clarify my response?

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03 Nov 2009, 1:10 pm

It would certainly be inaccurate to state that "all" Western women are one way, and "all" ASD men are another--all that you have to do is find one exception, and your theorem is blown out of the water.

Maybe not even the majority, but probably a substantial number of ASD men feel that way. And, probably a lot of Western women do, also.

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03 Nov 2009, 2:50 pm

Good for you, in general most Western women tend to be horribly selfish, manipulative and spiteful. I doubt that a Thai woman would be the same unless raised in a Western country. Enjoy your life...

(No offense to any women here of course...)

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03 Nov 2009, 6:35 pm

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None taken...

Most western men have over inflated egos and don't look at women as people first. In short, most western men are better off having blow dolls.

(No offense to any men here of course...) :wink:

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03 Nov 2009, 7:01 pm

MissConstrue wrote:

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How can that be offensive?
You said "most" but still not "every single one of them"
And if you arent like that, there is no need to be offended, besides maybe being accused of something.

Men, AND female.....None are perfect, and in the west, it's just more "get what you can". Well of course not saying it's not like that in the east. But you know, seems like the West is more like the mecca of such things.

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03 Nov 2009, 7:11 pm

Yes and it's always the western women that're more likely to be less than perfect according to men and especially on this forum...

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03 Nov 2009, 7:17 pm

It is rather amusing, though, to find all the stupider whines I heard in my engineering school days distilled into so compact a space.

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04 Nov 2009, 7:23 am

WhiskeyInTheJar wrote:

Western women do not like asperger man. Then there is only one option left: find a wife abroad. And they are available, in Thailand, Cambodia.

Wow, i'm totally confused. With this attitude, you're previous posts on nazi sympathizing, your perfect generalization of feminism, how are western women not all over you?

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