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08 Mar 2011, 2:13 pm

Liking rough sex doesn't make you a caveman. My husband is definitely not a caveman, and rough sex is our forte.


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08 Mar 2011, 2:18 pm

Yeah i am sweet and quite effeminate. I like to think i could make a girl rattle if that was what she wanted though. 8)



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08 Mar 2011, 2:20 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Liking rough sex doesn't make you a caveman. My husband is definitely not a caveman, and rough sex is our forte.


Do you have a "safe word"? :wink:



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08 Mar 2011, 2:20 pm

Yeah... it's "stop!" lmao


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08 Mar 2011, 2:25 pm

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Yeah... it's "stop!" lmao


I always thought I would use "bananas", because it would be funny.

Sadly, it's never been necessary... :(



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08 Mar 2011, 2:31 pm

Bananas? lol That would certainly kill the mood.


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08 Mar 2011, 2:36 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Saying what not to want is easier than saying what to want.

No sane girl would want an abuser , jerk , beater, drunk.... those are granted.


You would be surprised how many women who end up with abusive men or cheaters are actually successful, confident women who have good careers. In fact it is said that the stronger the woman, the longer she might stay in the bad relationship... until she finally learns.


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08 Mar 2011, 2:39 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

The thread would be more interesting and more parallel to its counterpart if it was "What type of man do you want?"

but that would be boring as it would be five pages of women saying "I want the face of boo, he is my type of man!"


I want a man who is a face in a jar
Who is learning to swim and how to drive a car
I can think of no one else I'd rather do
Than the middle eastern chap they call the face of booooo


Is that meant to be a rap? :)


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08 Mar 2011, 2:39 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
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Saying what not to want is easier than saying what to want.

No sane girl would want an abuser , jerk , beater, drunk.... those are granted.


You would be surprised how many women who end up with abusive men or cheaters are actually successful, confident women who have good careers. In fact it is said that the stronger the woman, the longer she might stay in the bad relationship... until she finally learns.


He said no sane woman would *want* that.


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08 Mar 2011, 2:40 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Bananas? lol That would certainly kill the mood.


Do you have a better suggestion?

Never know when it might come in handy, I was thinking "Conan bad!!"



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08 Mar 2011, 2:41 pm

monkeyslut is the best safe word, ever. :lol:



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08 Mar 2011, 2:42 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Saying what not to want is easier than saying what to want.

No sane girl would want an abuser , jerk , beater, drunk.... those are granted.


You would be surprised how many women who end up with abusive men or cheaters are actually successful, confident women who have good careers. In fact it is said that the stronger the woman, the longer she might stay in the bad relationship... until she finally learns.


He said no sane woman would *want* that.


Being in an abusive relationship does not make you insane. Many people, men and women, who are sane end up in them because they are sucked in and dont stand up for themselves. Low self-esteem does not equal insane. Many people go through phases in their lives where they have issues with self-esteem. And most people will experience infidelity in their lifetime, it does not mean they are insane.


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08 Mar 2011, 2:44 pm

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monkeyslut is the best safe word, ever. :lol:


True, difficult to top that.

How about "thank you, master!" ? :wink:



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08 Mar 2011, 2:44 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Saying what not to want is easier than saying what to want.

No sane girl would want an abuser , jerk , beater, drunk.... those are granted.


You would be surprised how many women who end up with abusive men or cheaters are actually successful, confident women who have good careers. In fact it is said that the stronger the woman, the longer she might stay in the bad relationship... until she finally learns.


He said no sane woman would *want* that.


Being in an abusive relationship does not make you insane. Many people, men and women, who are sane end up in them because they are sucked in and dont stand up for themselves. Low self-esteem does not equal insane. Many people go through phases in their lives where they have issues with self-esteem. And most people will experience infidelity in their lifetime, it does not mean they are insane.


No, but it does warp your perception of reality. Most women in abusive relationships don't really see that it's abuse. Nor do they go into it fully aware that abuse will occur.

Wanting it and not recognizing it for what it is are two different things.


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08 Mar 2011, 2:45 pm

Niall wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
If it's about sex, then I have to say always gentle is BORING!


Yeah, I get the idea.

Another way I'll never fit in. Cavemen rule. :(


If one girl's opinion counts for anything, I prefer gentle as I have really sensitive skin and I am small and petite and I break easily... so dont worry, there are girls out there who like all sorts of men. :)


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08 Mar 2011, 2:45 pm

Grisha wrote:
emlion wrote:
monkeyslut is the best safe word, ever. :lol:


True, difficult to top that.

How about "thank you, master!" ? :wink:


oh that won't make him stop, just go harder. :lmao: