Who made it to 40 and remained a Virgin?

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Not going to make it to 40 years old as a virgin. It happened at 21. Last time it happened, I was 24. Not proud of what has happened in these circumstances, but I simply did not want to live with stigma of being a virgin in his 20's or older. Now I just simply don't want sex outside of relationship.
What I do get pissed off with is people at work who are single and somewhat young bragging about these girls they "banged" and the best places they have done it in. There are plenty of times where I just want to say "Shut the f**k up". Even worse is their suggestions on what I should do with a lady that I like and how to handle it "Just give her your ****. That's all girls want is to get some." According to conversations I have with some women, they can contradict this statement too.

I will, in ten years that is. Thinking about that makes it less depressing to be unappealing to women.

Sucks for all those who haven't had sex yet, especially the OP.

I am still a Virgin but I am getting to the point where I don't care any more.

There's more to life then just sex, no matter what people may say (those that do say are pretty shallow).

I can say what things I HAVE done in which most people who had Sex haven't done nor ever will do due to their lack of imagination of doing something "out there".

I'll be 30 this year, so 10 more to go.

Ill be 43 in a few months and im still a virgin. Its not something i wanted, i always had a fear of rejection so i would never ask anyone out on dates etc.. I did have one "girlfriend" for at least for a day when i was a teen, after she got a love letter i wrote to her, my best friend took it from me and gave it to her and to my surprise she asked me to be her girlfriend. I was extremely shy and awkward, didnt know what to do, she held my hand and tried to fool around with me, but i chickened out and pulled away, after that we just went our separate ways. To this day i regret it and it haunts me, I keep thinking what my life could have been like, how it would have effected my self esteem and self worth. Later on i became fearful of germs and OCD, washing my hands after touching anything, it ruined any chance to be with anyone. A lonely existence, ill probably take to my grave. Im not religious at all, could care less about marriage, which i find to be the ultimate joke. If anyone gets a chance at love or sex or what ever, take it, dont do what i did and miss out, you might find yourself one day regretting it. Your not long on this world and youth is fleeting.

Provided that you did not pay for sex, the woman you had sex with was legally able to consent to sex and consented to sex with you, an admittedly low bar, you do not have anything to be ashamed of.

If you're sick of your friends giving you too many intimate details regarding their sex lives, tell them to shut the f!ck up and change the subject. Also, are they really bragging or simply telling you what (and whom) they did last night or last weekend? Because dishing afterwards is fun.



Some girls like to hook up, some don't. Some guys like to hook up, some others don't. This is not exactly breaking news.

Assuming that your friends are telling the truth, there are girls in your area who like to and do hook up.



Some women aren't all women. Besides, that's irrelevant if you are looking for a proper relationship only.

An Australian Dating Coach/Guru for me named Dan Bacon, he runs a site/blog called The Modern Man, he says he knows more than 350 guys who are still a virgin 30+ years of age, as in 30 and older

How many 30+ yea old men are there in Australia?

I don't know if he was just talking about Australian men only, he said he even took a client out to meet women at bars and clubs, and this man was a virgin at age 41, this is what he said about him:

"Personally, I’ve even taken a 41 year old client out to meet women in bars and clubs who was still a virgin, despite standing at a height of 5’11 and having a great-paying job in finance."

The only reason I can't claim with certainty I'll be a forty-year-old virgin is that I'm not sure I'll live that long.

Unless you count being ass-raped as a loss of my virginity, that is. This could happen.

I think of it as being weened out of the gene pool...

ya sadly I think that's one way of putting it