What Men Really Want

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Wow, cooking seems to be coming up a lot! My mother has long been telling me how lucky I am to have found a man who doesn't mind that I cannot cook, and I'm beginning to think she is right.

I am a terrible, horrible cook. About 20% of the meals I cook are inedible. I can make sandwiches and pot noodle which is better than nothing I suppose. I've always explained to boyfriends that I'm better in the bedroom than in the kitchen and most have been happy with that.

Married couples tire of sex, it reduces massively in time
just like weaner hardness
they dont tire of nutrition....
if anything.... they seem to settle into eating more

I need a sex slave (willing)

I just want love.

Men like to be taken care of so they can just enjoy what they've earned through work.

As a gay man I look for similar interests/hobbies and similar interests for beneath the sheets

A loving caring affectionate woman who is faithful and has a good heart.Food videogames anime and sex.Ok that's what I want maybe npt what most men want but iit is safe to assume most heterosexual and maybe bisexual males want stated above minus the anime.Homosexual males would want what stated only it would be a male and I guess it would apply to bisexuals as well.

You all (for the most part) missed my point, I want the WOMEN to tell us the questions I asked, NOT the men, I want to see what they think of us, if anything at all. I want to see and understand their own virtues and values they hold of men, what they think of us. we do the chasing, they do the choosing and rejecting. I want to see and understand what they see, what they value, its different then mens.

I do not care to hear the general over all that gets ignored, the easy way out. I want cold hard facts of differences in virtues and values according to our sexes. women are NOT wired the same as men!

We men seem to struggle to understand and be accepted by them. to increase our odds, while they do not seem to care to understand us, as if were a commodity that they already judged. that they do not have to fight for acceptance as we do unless its something unusual then the common man, something new to them that impresses them. not only what is their alpha male, but as well what is their reject? their friends only boundaries..

They tell us given time we will find our own romance, our own fit, thats an illusion because of odds, we need to know what they want in order to gain what we desire, aside from a lonely life. and thus in reflection I want to hear their same.

I am sick of the chase, I want to know what they chase after. what they are attracted too, and what they are not. what is so common to them that makes the rest of us boring. were not wired the same nor truly have the same options. in the game of love were not equals, all they see is what they can not have, while many of us men struggle just to have. how do they see us, what are we to them?

we men struggle so hard that many times were happy with what we get. where the females get board. we take them for granted less then they do us, or so it seems to me. were to easily replaceable, and if this was not so, then take a closer look at the divorce rate and what sex initiates it and why.

I want a hard core debate, for in the end it does not matter who is right or wrong, all that matters is, thats the way it is. the expectations and the unspoken demands of the sex's. the way it is.

One of the things I found most true about females, you have to read between the lines of what they don't say, in order to find the truth. they do not want to deal with the fall out or closure issues, they just want to move on. they get to pick and choose. and they hate it when they get rejected, while men have to live with it all the time as a fact of life.

To me it seems were nothing but a fad to them, test drive us and if its not what they want then move on, instead of fighting to hold on to what love should be, something that should be fought for together to make it work. I know not all are the same, but in general this is how its becoming. men are no more then a commodity in our modern day world. our hearts mean nothing unless it means something to them, and we easily boar them.

I do not want to hear of someday I will find the right one for me, I want to hear, what you want (and don't want).
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I'm still thinking about what I really want, but one thing I keep coming back to is that I'd like somebody I can really communicate with. Not game-playing, sabre-rattling, posturing, prejudiced, judgemental, guilt-tripping, passive-aggressive, indirect, weak-kneed, narcissistic drivel (I'm not saying those things are particularly female), but just saying it with a bit of kindness. Able to tell me what she wants, or work with me to find out. The kind of human being you'd want as your best mate.

I don't think it's the gender wiring that's the problem. If I can't get that communication quality with anybody, I'm better off living alone. Trouble is, I expect anybody good at communicating would already be partnered, and there's no doubt that I have a lot to learn about communication myself.

There's tons of other things I want but I'm sure it won't work without that one.

Whatever the TV and internet tells them to want