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DerStadtschutz
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09 Oct 2012, 12:29 am

MXH wrote:

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wtfid2 wrote:

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wow I guess that really is you.By the tone of your posts it sounds like yo thin of yourself as the standard to what ugliness is...you should have higher self esteem man.

I am not shallow, I have standards. If you read my posts with a more open minded approach you would see that. You didnt though.

lolololol. Says equivalently ugly girl is super ugly, tells ugly man to have higher self esteem.

dud thts a lil low lol

I have standards too. I just have a different idea of what to base the standards on.

Also, can I point something out? You just told 1000knives that what he said was a little low, which says you at least have feelings. Why can't you apply those same feelings to the girl whose message you posted in this thread? I'm sure she has feelings too(if she's even real, that is). You should treat other people the way you want to be treated.

And for the record, if physical appearance is the primary motivator for deciding whether or not to date or bang somebody, then YES, you ARE shallow. No amount of denial can change that.

you want hot girl? Then you have to play in their game. Meaning find a way to make them want you. And im quite sure everything youve done in this forum is the oposite of what they want.

Haha, I love you, MXH... In a platonic, non-sexual way, of course. You crack me up.

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09 Oct 2012, 1:54 am

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wtfid2 wrote:

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yah im acting like a dic but it is what it is lol. The dif b/w me and this girl is that she can get laid if she wants to while it doesnt matter how charming, nice, funny I am..I won;t ever get a gf. that I am attracted to. So no I don't feel bad calling her ugly.

I think the key phrase is "that I am attracted to"

Perhaps she can get laid, but not necessarily by someone she is attracted to. Perhaps she doesn't want to get laid at all...that's usually not a very high priority of a woman. Apparently she wants a romantic relationship with a man she is attracted to, and how is it any different for her if she can't obtain what she wants either? It isn't different. You are both in the same boat as far as not being able to obtain what you want goes.

The only thing positive I can say in your favor at the moment is, at least you have standards even though you are 23, have never had a girlfriend in your life, and wish to have one. But you should not ridicule those who do not meet your standards, simply because they had the nerve to approach you.

it is different bc she cant obtain one desire while i can;t obtain both of mine. I would like a relationship and sex. My point is that m calling her ugly is a rude and efed up thing to say, but at the end of the day I dont feel bad about it bc she will get hers eventually. BTW, you ask is it different? Here;s another perspective: my desires are realistic(a cute girl who loves me)..she wants everything lol. Her wishes are a little Cinderella story imo.

Frequently men on here, who hold engaging in sexual relations as a high priority, point out that women have it easier because they can obtain this thing much easier than men. However they overlook that sex is very different for women. It's invasive and she takes on a lot of risk when she engages in it. Women also have lower libidos in general. As such, sex often isn't a priority of women, and many women would generally prefer not to have sex except on occasion. So if someone can get something they don't want, how is that a plus for them?

The key point is that she can't get what she wants. Not that she can't get what you want.

And if you really wanted it, you could get one of the things you want. There are prostitutes in every city and legal brothels in the state of Nevada...not that I advocate such things.

I'd say that's being pretty hypocritical. Obviously prostitutes are not what he's going for or he'd have already done so by now and this thread wouldn't exist. People are always suggesting this as if it's some easy fix and it's incredibly sexist and offensive.

That is correct. Prostitutes are not what he wants. That was one of my points. He wants to have sex with a specific type of woman in a specific context. Likewise, most women want to be with a specific type of man in a specific context.

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09 Oct 2012, 4:30 am

I feel vomit in my mouth after reading her profile.

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09 Oct 2012, 4:38 am

DerStadtschutz wrote:

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Dude, having a vagina doesn't automatically get you into the "i can get sex whenever I want" club. I knew a girl who didn't lose her virginity until she was like 26. She wasn't particularly ugly(although her boobs looked like flapjacks, but you wouldn't know that unless you saw her naked), and she wasn't fat. But she, like you, was shallow. She desperately wanted to get laid and have a relationship, but she kept going after the guys who wouldn't give her the time of day because she was only interested in "super hot" ones. She eventually went out with one she thought was "super hot," and lost her virginity to him, and he turned out to be a complete a**hole to her. He would bribe her with sex all the time and just generally treat her like sh**.

But hey, you don't have to listen to me. What the hell do I know? I've only been with a woman for about the last 3 years, lost my virginity about 7 years ago, and only ever went without being in a relationship/getting any for about a month at the most, and that was rarer than sh**.

EDIT: I think it's also important to note that the following is a picture of me, and I'm dead serious.

No, there's nothing wrong with finding certain people unattractive and not wanting to be with them, but looks should never be the first priority or you'll only be disappointed at some point anyway.

Would you find a grey, wrinkly old hag with saggy tits and skin attractive? I'm gonna go ahead and assume the answer is a big fat NO(because if it was a yes, you'd be pursuing that), so what happens when the attractive girl you want turns into that?

you found that picture online lol

No I didn't. I TOOK that picture and PUT it online 8 years ago. Okay, well TECHNICALLY I DID find it because I no longer have the original on any of my computers, but the fact that it's my picture remains.

Here's a few newer ones from the last several years: