meems wrote:
Shau, you're one of the first misogynists
The "cry misogyny" card doesn't work on anyone with half a brain. You got nothing, and you're not doing women any favors here. There has certainly been abundant amounts of misogyny on this forum before, and being a bit twitchy about it is understandable, but the "omg he criticized a woman, he must be a misogynist!" attitude from so many women is not doing a damn thing to make the situation any better.
You're contributing to the problem.Quote:
I honestly don't see why I need to defend my point that harassment is not a means of teaching women a lesson.
Who the hell even said that? Certainly not me. My point was that comment came out of nowhere.
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Like, don't you dare cancel a date or ignore a man, or he'll harass you, lesson learned.
Shau wrote:
If you have no intention of actually going on a date/meetup/whatever with a guy, then say no. It's not complicated. If you change your mind, say so and move on.
Shau wrote:
Ask once, and if she doesn't answer? Drop her like it's hot. Ask again and you're being just a big a dick as the chick that flakes on you.
~sigh~ This is why humanity pisses me off. This is my take on what happened:
*Shau criticizes women that flake on guys.*
*Meems gets pisssed and calls Shau a misogynist.*
*Shau calls Meems on her BS.*
*Meems freaks out and yells about more misogyny.*